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30-35,
*ove-Stoned
writes:Hey,i feel so pathetic for even writing this message. But the truth is im still in love with my ex. She was my first, so i understand that im going to be caught up for a while, but it has been about 4/5 months now. The only reason we broke up was because of the distance, she lived in Wales and i Live in London! apart from that everything we had was perfect, which is why i feel im finding it soo difficult. Since we broke up she has been 'seeing' someone else, but its nothing serious, just harmless fun! this is what makes me think that she is over me though, because when i meet someone other people, i dont let anything happen because i know they're not what i want. My ex often asks hows my love life and whether im with someone, and i always reply honestly which is that im not with anyone.We speak to each other quite often on facebook and msn (occasionally txt) but the conversation is so fake, i just joke around and have banter. but all i want to do/say is how much i love and miss her! she wants me to go down and visit her, but i dont think i can because seeing her and not being with her would jus kill me. Sorry for such a long and rambled message but just had to get everything said. Any help would be much appreciated. Thank you x
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2009): I am in a similar position, I just had to break up with a guy due to distance- Liverpool and Sussex, And no matter how much i am telling myself he's the one I want to be with I see it's not practical. If one of you is willing to move in say 6 months to be with the other, and if this is possible then the relationship does have a chance but it's a lot of commitment, communication and honesty and to move from your home is a huge step. If you can't see an option to be together within a year then don't visit because it will just take you back to where you started, and cause yet another painful and unnessasery break up with all the pain and frustration that comes with it.
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reader, Love-Stoned +, writes (24 February 2009):
Love-Stoned is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks mimisoph...x
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reader, mimisoph3  +, writes (24 February 2009):
 if she invited u then u should go.just go and have funn if she didnt feel the same about u then she wouldnt invite u or ask u about ur love life.shes just making sure that u got no one,and i think she wants to make stuff work between u two so i definitly think u should go visit her
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