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Archived questions from: November, 2015 (see latest in Health category)

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Feelings for my cousin driving me crazy. What's the answer?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3314 days ago

30 November 2015 (M) - Help. I have started having incestuous feelings towards my cousin I can't help it but she is causing it unintentionally, how do I tell her without making it awkward for both of us? My cousin is very close to me she is the only child and we work in ...

I seem to be suffering from delayed ejaculation

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3253 days ago

30 November 2015 (M) - I'm 28 and I've been having sex for a decade now with different partners (not a large amount, I'm not that kind of guy) and a week ago I ended up meeting and sleeping with a new girl in Vegas. We actually hit it off really well and it turns out she ...

Is it normal to be this fearful of something bad happening to my baby son?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3316 days ago

29 November 2015 (F) - I have just had the most beautiful baby boy who I am just besotted with. I am so blessed. But I am terrified of something awful happening him. Everytime I am enjoying him, I am consumed by this fear. I don't sleep, I stay awake just to make sure he ...

Why does my girlfriend all of the sudden have that horrible odor down there??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3315 days ago

29 November 2015 (M) - I have kind of an embrassing question... My girlfrirnd is on birth control so we have alot of unprotected sex. Probably atleast 3 to 5 times a day. I always cum inside of her since she can't get pregnant while she is on the birth control. The birth ...

We split 8 years ago. I need to find some happiness. But how? I don't know how?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3317 days ago

29 November 2015 (F) - Hi, it's a long story but will try to make it brief! I was with B the father of my 2 children 10 years.He was absolutely the love of my life and I was totally in love however I am certain it wasn't the same for him. B cheated on me througho...

He is getting annoyed at me, and more frequently. What can I say or do to address this issue with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3317 days ago

29 November 2015 (F) - Hi, I'm a 20 year old student and have been with my boyfriend for just over a year now. We get along really well, and share a lot of the same interests, so it's never hard to find something to do together. I'm very very much in love with him, j...

How can I find that determination to just walk away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3307 days ago

29 November 2015 (F) - How do I find the determination to leave my current boyfriend? I've been putting a lot of thought into this relationship and I don't see a future with the person my boyfriend is. He is in his 30's, still lives at home with his parents, lacks a ...

It's as if I'm helpless to stop these feelings of anger and hurt, a year on!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3318 days ago

28 November 2015 (F) - A year ago I was cut off and wronged by a couple of people I thought were my friends. Two of us were both seeing the same guy - unknown to each other - but I obviously was being used by him and got in the way of the other girl and was cut off ...

How often is a partner in a relationship likely to come home drunk? His actions are causing me concern

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3319 days ago

26 November 2015 (F) - Hi all, for those cohabiting and/or married, how often does your partner come home drunk? My boyfriend comes home drunk once a month. We've been living together for half a year. He reaches home around 3,4am, reeks of alcohol and is terribly inco...

Do troubled on again and off again relationships last? Or is she just kidding herself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3320 days ago

26 November 2015 (F) - My friend is in a very 'on-off' relationship with her boyfriend. One minute they are best of friends having weekends away together and the next minute they are falling out and he is abusive to her and doesn't speak to her for days - and then the...

Help me with comfort and strength! My marriage is so troubled!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3319 days ago

26 November 2015 (F) - Hello guys. I am one stressed woman . For the past year i hv been suffering from post natal depression after i gv birth last year. No i am getting back to normal but my relationship is stressful, my husband has been cheating on me go the past year ...

I'm obsessed with someone who doesn't know I exist! Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1165 days ago

26 November 2015 (F) - I am obsessed w/this guy who I am 99.9% sure doesn't even know I exist. He is about a 2 years or so older than me and we currently do not go to the same college but we will next year. This obsession all started when I came across his instagram page, ...

Her daughter is a nightmare at bedtime! Ideas on how to deal with her?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3316 days ago

26 November 2015 (F) - I'm in a relationship with a lovely woman who has a 9 year old daughter whom I absolutely adore. She is a great kid, but has quite a problem when it comes to bedtime. And it is driving my gf completely insane to the point she is at her wits end. ...

He wants to be a Daddy again. How can I get him to understand my feelings on this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3316 days ago

24 November 2015 (F) - Hiya I don't really know if I'm in the right place I could just really do with getting a bit of advice, me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years, we've got two beautiful children together. Aged 2 and 3, I've just recently gone back to work ...

He's disrespectful but I don't want to hurt him. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3320 days ago

24 November 2015 (F) - I'm sorry if this is a little long. I've been in a relationship now for a little more than a year and a half. I try not to think about the fact that we don't really go out and do much, and we only really spend time at each other's houses. The ...

Could my boyfriend have aspergers or ADD or a compulsive disorder?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3321 days ago

24 November 2015 (F) - Dea Cupid, My boyfriend is great but has some curious 'quirks' He plays computer games and then tries to rely on me to stop him because he cant stop himself and will otherwise play all night. He enjoys DIY and always has several projects ...

How can I get past the fact that I'm not tall, improve my confidence and successfully date women?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3317 days ago

24 November 2015 (M) - Ashamed to be a short man. I don't feel like I have the same potential as a taller man. Anything positive that I do would be much better if done by a taller man. I am also the shortest guy in my family and every time I meet a relative, family friend ...

Is he sick of me, and bored with me, that he falls asleep, soon after he arrives home?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3322 days ago

24 November 2015 (F) - Is my boyfriend sick or just sick of me? He is fine and wide awake when he's alone and I'm at work. In the evenings he is fine and awake while out with his mates. He will call me to talk on the phone during his 15 min ute drive home. But once...

Is it selfish that I don't want my Bf's sons living with us?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3322 days ago

24 November 2015 (F) - I need Help.. I'm 22 years old and my boyfriend is 35, he has 2 kids 18 and 13 both boys. I am currently 3 months pregnant and couldn't be any happier I'm so excited for my baby we both are, after months of waiting we finally are getting our new ...

Why do I delay leaving him? How do I gather the courage to leave?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3321 days ago

24 November 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid My bf of 5 years constantly belittles me, insults me, talks about how other girls look good and how I look v bad in front of them and how old I look, how I don't deserve him... But still comes to me for money, it's been months since w...

My new boyfriend lives in a tip

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3322 days ago

23 November 2015 (F) - I went round to my new boyfriend's house. I was very shocked. The place is an absolute tip. The kitchen is stacked high with dirty dishes and the washing in piles, garden unkempt and bike parts everywhere. When he came over for dinner he brought a ...

He thinks I'm sleeping with someone else. I find his remarks offensive. What reply to him is appropriate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3320 days ago

23 November 2015 (F) - I met up with my children's father today. We have not been getting on as there is a real communication problem and I find it a turn off. I feel like I do not know him. We have never lived together which has also been a problem as I have just had...

New baby, but he will not lift a finger to help in any way. What can I do?.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3323 days ago

22 November 2015 (F) - Hi everyone I have been with my boyfriend 3 years we had a bavy girl 10 months ago I have now realised how lazy my boyfriend is he does nothing to help me with our daughter even after a emergency c section I have done everything I clean the ho...

My man is 22 yrs old and very fit. So why can he only last one round? what needs to be done?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3323 days ago

22 November 2015 (F) - 2 issues: One that I stopped moaning during sex and the second that my healthy man only lasts one round at a time. When we first met and had sex, this was exciting and new and sensuous for me. I would moan and thrash around and be involved m...

I want to ask my boyfriend if he is doing drugs again but I don't know how to go about it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3326 days ago

19 November 2015 (F) - I've come here as I'm scared of what the answer will be if I ask my boyfriend or his friends and I know what my family and friends will say, but I want to help my boyfriend. I'm 24 and for the past two years I have been in a relationship wit...

How do I go forward and make something of my life, feel wanted, and get a birth certificate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3327 days ago

19 November 2015 (F) - Well, I just need to know what to do with my current situation. For starters I'm 18 years old and want to go back to school. But have important reasons why I can't to back for one I have no of,birth certificate. Anything do it's like I don't exis...

Will I ever be able to trust again? His cheating has so affected me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3327 days ago

19 November 2015 (F) - I was in a relationship one and a half year ago. The reason for the break up was the guy was cheating on me with another girl. I was devastated because I really loved him. Now I have moved on completely. I dont care if he exists or whatever...

My girlfriend wants a tattoo of her dead ex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3327 days ago

18 November 2015 (M) - How should I feel and/or respond to my girlfriend asking about her wanting a tattoo to remember her dead ex? We have been dating for almost 2 years. I do love her. She had known this ex for a long time before me and describes him as a dear friend. ...

What can I do? Feeling unhappy with my body after pregnancies.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3327 days ago

18 November 2015 (F) - I have a wonderful husband and 2 wonderful children. I had back to back pregnancies. I've always been a positive happy person but since the birth of my second son, I've been feeling pretty depressed about my body. I got very very bad stret...

What can I do? I'm feeling trapped in my own relationship. His depression is wearing me out

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3328 days ago

18 November 2015 (F) - I decided to pour my heart out and tell my partner exactly how I feel. His depression and his secrecy of our relationship from his ex is getting too much for me and I had a moment of weakness and my emotions just outpoured. He promised how he ...

Nudity - his family are comfortable with it. I am not comfortable. Am I right to feel this way ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3327 days ago

16 November 2015 (F) - Hello dear Aunts and uncles, First of all let me thank you for taking your time. I've been visiting this years for quite a while now and it's time that I'm going to ask a question. I am in a five year happy relationship with a guy two y...

What needs to happen to effect some improvement in our marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3329 days ago

16 November 2015 (M) - Dear cupid, It's been 3 years since we married, and we are together for about 6 years. I confess I wasn't very thrilled when she pressured me to get married. I guess I don't see the point in one getting married when a stable and healthy relat...

Should I lose weight to attract women?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3329 days ago

16 November 2015 (M) - Hello. I'm a male virgin who's never been on a date or kissed a girl. I'm pretty overweight and I know this a contributor. I haven't asked out many girls before because I feel they'll just say no. A guy who's in shape and muscled up is of course ...

I feel like I am talking to a robot!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3330 days ago

16 November 2015 (F) - Hi Agony Aunts and Uncles, I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 6 years. The problem is talking with him is like talking to a robot. Only I initiate conversation, and when I try to ask him questions it's like pulling teeth to get a response. ...

Why does my ex want to be friends with me and still want me in his life? He treated me very badly.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3329 days ago

15 November 2015 (F) - My ex use to manipulate me a lot! I felt used, was treated badly and finally walked away after a terrible breakdown from the relationship. My ex tried to reach out to me many times and I ignored him. we didn't talk for 3 years. But we made up t...

How can I deal with my over-bearing selfish family?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3331 days ago

15 November 2015 (F) - How do I deal with my overbearing selfish family? Do I cut them off or distance myself? I feel like they are being selfish and not respecting me, my husband or our decisions. I am pregnant with out first child and naturally have talked about up...

Advice on dealing with genital herpes

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3331 days ago

13 November 2015 (F) - I just got my first outbreak of genital herpes.I am devastated. I slept with one partner after my divorce and I got it.He never told me he had it.I have two girls from a previous marriage and I am freaking out.will I pass on the virus to the kids ...

I'm pale but my genitals aren't.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3333 days ago

12 November 2015 (F) - I apologize as this is quite personal. I am a 21 year old Caucasian female. My vagina lips are very dark, almost black. My anal area is the same but not as bad. I'm not sure why this is going on or how to lighten the area, it's quite emb...

Should I leave him? I'm at my wit's end! Advice is welcome!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3333 days ago

12 November 2015 (F) - I am desperately unhappy. I have been with my partner for 5 years and we have a 2 year old child. For the first two years everything was great. he has never been very good at anything domestic, ie paying bills or doing DIY, but I just accepted this ...

My best friend has severe low self esteem and it's ruining our relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3334 days ago

12 November 2015 (F) - My best friend has severe low self esteem and its ruining our relationship. We've been friends for years and I use to be really close to her but lately her behaviour is getting hard to deal with and is effecting my life. She has the typical beha...

Do I leave my abusive husband? I want to but I'm also afraid

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3333 days ago

11 November 2015 (F) - My husband has been abusing me for 4 years, he even went to prison for his abuse before. I am now at the point where I have lost all my self esteem and confidence and he is really trying to break me down now very badly. I feel so weak and like I c...

Is it normal for a virgin to feel horny?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3332 days ago

10 November 2015 (F) - Helo. Ok i want to know if its usual to be horny even when you never had sex before. I am a virgin but sometimes i crave sex. If its normal, how do i control it since i have no boyfriend and im waiting to have my first time with someone very special ...

Is it ok for my boyfriend to discuss our relationship with his adult daughter?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3336 days ago

10 November 2015 (F) - Is it ok for my boyfriend to discuss our relationship issues with his adult daughter? He raised her alone from when she was 16 (now 26) and he says they tell each other everything. I adore his daughter and am trying to build a relationship with ...

Do older men who are dating have something to prove to themselves?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3335 days ago

10 November 2015 (F) - Do older men who are dating have something to prove to themselves? I met a older guy online and he is in his early 50s, where I have just turned 40. He's played hot and cold from the start. Seemed very interested then disappeared only to return s...

Should I be suspicious that all is not well between us, based on his actions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3336 days ago

10 November 2015 (F) - My boyfriend of 9 months and i usually spend the weekdays together and he stays over at my place and then leaves in the morning to go to his place to get ready for work. on fridays he doesnt come for dinner and goes out for drinks with his friends ...

Is it wrong to have deal breakers in relationships?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3336 days ago

9 November 2015 (F) - My Boyfriend and I have been together for a year. Recently we talked about deal breakers. Both of us agreed cheating is a deal breaker. Then I told him if he ever took drugs at a party it'd be a deal breaker for me. I did not know he used to do ...

Do I stay with a depressed man who hides our relationship from his ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3335 days ago

9 November 2015 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 18 months and I honestly thought he was the love of my life up until he started treating me differently. He was the kindest, gentlest man who would love me dearly every day. Around 6 months ago he started acting s...

Ideas to raise money for skin removal surgery

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3339 days ago

8 November 2015 (F) - I'm a young woman who has lost a little over 200 pounds over the last few years. The frustrating and sad part is I have a lot of loose skin that's very bothersome. I was hopeful and even excited to talk with my doctor and a surgeon in the a...

My potential fiance has insecurities due to past experiences. Do I wait for her to heal? Or do I move on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3336 days ago

7 November 2015 (M) - My potential fiance is scared of being hurt and her insecurity is a result of her past and currently refuses engagement. Her mother calls me a great guy and the 'right one' for her and her siblings i get along with. I did not get a chance to meet ...

Is it OK to get back in contact with my ex - and offer to just be friends?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3336 days ago

7 November 2015 (F) - I'm happy in my relationship now but miss my ex, as a person, not who I want to get back with. Is it OK to get back in contact to be friends or not? He's the only other person I've been in love with and after 3 years I still can't get him out of m...