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writes:Helo. Ok i want to know if its usual to be horny even when you never had sex before. I am a virgin but sometimes i crave sex. If its normal, how do i control it since i have no boyfriend and im waiting to have my first time with someone very special to me. I had bfs before last tym i was with a guy he touched me in a way that gave me vibrations but i felt guilt and stopped him. Id like to get this from female side too. Thanx in advance
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reader, BloggerChick  +, writes (14 November 2015):
 It's normal to be hormonal and crave sex whether you're a virgin or not. Whether you're young or older. You've just got to continue in your search for someone special, and in the mean time learn how to take care of them urges yourself. Yes, I mean masturbation. You said you felt guilt over your boyfriend touching you, so I'm only assuming that means you're maybe not a fan of masturbation. I use to feel the same years ago, like somehow it was wrong for me to "feel good". It really isn't. Personally I think it's better to please myself and stay a virgin, then to have sex with a random guy that I have no feelings for, just because I'm a little horny.
Another way to deal with sexual cravings is to keep yourself busy. I find that if I just distract myself with friends or family, or with a decent (non-sexual) movie, then I'll forget about it. But basically, every male and female can relate to what you're feeling right now, its totally normal, called hormones. You just need to work on keeping them constant so you can resist making any thoughtless decisions that you're perhaps not ready for.
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (11 November 2015):
Being horny is how people have sex in the first place. :))
If you had no desire to have sex, no one would do.
Having desire is great, what you do with that desire...that is the part that is tricky.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (10 November 2015):
 totally normal.
if you wish to wait for "mr right" then figure out how to "take care of yourself" so that you don't make a decision based on being horny.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (10 November 2015):
 Normal.
Virgin or not.... most people crave intimacy, sex and attention.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (10 November 2015):
 Normal.
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