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Archived questions from: November, 2012 (see latest in Health category)

Health: Help and advice

The guy I'm just starting to date may have given me strep throat. Should I tell him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

30 November 2012 (F) - I have this crush on a guy who I think gave me strep throat about a month ago when we hung out. How do I tell him? What if I'm wrong? I met this guy this past summer at an event. He body painted me and we became friends on facebook and I finally got ...

Why don't I ever attract girls I want to spend time with? Could my personal issues be a reason some girls avoid me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

30 November 2012 (M) - I only attract the really weird and creepy ones that I don't find attractive. People have told me that I am really cute and that I can be a guy who girls are attracted to, but that's only a few of my friends because they're people I know and can ...

He says we have sex less often because I've put on weight. Could this be the real reason?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

30 November 2012 (F) - hello, i have a problem. i have been with my boyfriend for 7years. we only have sex sometimes once a week or once a month. he says it's because i've gained weight and it feels different. Can this be true? Also i sometimes think he's cheating ...

I was supposed to see a therapist. Is it time I now considered this option again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4411 days ago

29 November 2012 (F) - Hello all agony aunts and uncles, I need your advice yet again! Long story short, I moved hours away from my finance to attend college. I was good for the first semester, but then I got really depressed (randomly) and withdrew from the fall sem...

My sad and depressed moods are affecting my relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

29 November 2012 (?) - Hi everyone, I have been feeling sad and depressed for the past year and i don't know how to deal with it, i am always moody even my period has stopped coming regularly. I have started a new job about 4 months ago however its a long distance wi...

I have a fear of existing. What can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2670 days ago

28 November 2012 (F) - I know this isn't exactly to do with relationships, or perhaps it is but it's more about my relationship with life and the world. I could really do with some help. My problem started about 2 years ago, at least to the extent that I am suffering t...

How do I get over this cheating guy? He's just found out his ex is pregnant.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

28 November 2012 (F) - Ok soo I have this really huge crush on a senior nd well we've been talking nd been friends for about a year now ok Hey asked me out over the summer but I said I wasn't ready I then asked him when I was ready. He said I'm not ready I'm starting...

Trying to Impress everyone? Find ways to make yourself happy first. You can't impress everyone.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4394 days ago

27 November 2012 (F) - Not really sure why I'm writing this but it is in hopes of expressing myself because I feel if I keep trying to impress everyone, I let myself down. Because I know I can’t always get everyone to like me, not everyone is going to and that’s complete...

I'm not a fast learner which hurts my employability! Advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

27 November 2012 (M) - Hope you can give me some advice. I'm feeling really sad and down for the past weeks. Since I graduated university in 2007 I'm having difficulty finding jobs and keeping them. I keep getting fired because I can't internalize information quick ...

I have trouble reaching climax and ejaculation.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

27 November 2012 (M) - I'm a fit and healthy 21-year-old and everything's fine in my life sexual health wise but there is only one problem- I can't ejaculate. I can feel everything fine, but even during unprotected sex I just can't climax. I used to masturbate in the face ...

I cant face going into work, but this makes my anxiety worse. I feel at a complete loss with life, any ideas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

27 November 2012 (F) - Hi, I am currently having the most difficult year of my life and I am struggling so very much. Since April this year, my dad has died, I have moved house, got married, my uncle has died, my mum is constantly in and out of hospital with serious pro...

How did I get HPV if I have had only 1 sexual partner?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

27 November 2012 (F) - So I got a Pap smear recently and my doctor told me I had abnormal results and needed a colposcopy. The results from that showed that I'm HPV + ! However I have only been with 1 person sexually my whole life, my current boyfriend. He on the ...

Is he a narcissist? He's jekyll and hyde and I never know what to expect from him..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

27 November 2012 (F) - i am a mess. i have recently split from my partner who i believe may be a narcissist. im not sure where to begin, but this is what ive come to believe and know -he is jekyll and hyde. there is no predicting how he will act toward me from one day ...

Do I need to take out clit piercing for a pap test?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

27 November 2012 (F) - I have a pap test this week and I have a VCH (clit piercing). I was curious if I would have to take it out for my pap test? I've never taken it out before, but it's been over 2 months since I got it so it's healed. ...

I don't know what to do to make things better between us!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4415 days ago

26 November 2012 (M) - I met my girlfriend 3 years ago, I fell in love with her and made a bond. I live with her away from my own family, in the 2 years of dating we had our troubles in the relationship. She met this guy on facebook who dated my couise.He told my couise ...

Have I trained myself to orgasm only with this vibrator?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4415 days ago

26 November 2012 (F) - I'm only able to have an orgasm with the [insertion type vibrator]. I have been successful once in a great great while with just manual stimulation. Is there any ladies who have been in a similar situation but have been able to become orgasmic ...

Why do I go dry during intercourse?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

26 November 2012 (F) - Ciao! I don't know why when i get wet during sexual intercourse it doesn't take time to dry up after which i'll start having pains. When this happens, i wud not enjoy it any longer and that makes my boyfriend because he complains that he's not ...

What am I dealing with? His drinking problem or something else?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

26 November 2012 (F) - please help, my husband of 14 years has had a drink problem for years which has got worse over the past 3 years [he has been drinking 3/4 of a liter bottle of vodka a night and gets "out of it" does stupid things like texting/messaging girls/wo...

Why do I always seem to meet jerks who only wants to sleep with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

26 November 2012 (?) - Guys, what goes through your mind when you meet a new girl and only want to sleep with her? Why do guys I meet only want or try to sleep with me? I met a couple of guys from club online and even "friends of friends". Their only motive is t...

I have refused to do this. So why is my Bf obsessed with wanting to see me do oral with another guy. What else can I say to him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4415 days ago

26 November 2012 (F) - hi i am in a long term relationship since my teen years and the last 4 years long distance. but late 1 year my guy has been obsessed about seeimg me doing oral with another guy. i have always said no. but he has kept on asking for this.. i dont kn...

Is there something wrong with my libido? It was good at first but then as time went on it started to hurt. Now I'm just not in the mood

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4415 days ago

26 November 2012 (F) - Hi everyone. So I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. We first had sex when I was 16 and him 17. It was good at first but then as time went on it started to hurt but I'm just not in the mood for it...ever! I'd happily just have a ...

How do I get past feeling so uncomfortable about his crazy past?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4415 days ago

26 November 2012 (F) - How do you let go of your partner's crazy past? My bf is 31 now but from his late teens to his mid 20s, he was doing a lot of drugs, was partying all the time and having lots of sex with lots of different women. It was a crazy time in his life. I'...

Will girls care if...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4415 days ago

26 November 2012 (M) - A few months ago a strange red mark appeared on my penis. Theres nothing painful about it, it is just a red patch on the skin on a bit bigger than a thumbnail. I went to the doctors and it is a skin condition called vitiligo. It is apparently ...

Six months later I'm still grieving at the passing of my grandfather and feel like people think I should be over it

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

25 November 2012 (F) - i know this isnt a relationship question but i'm still grieving over my grandpa's death and dont know who to turn to about it. i havent had a nice year, i lost my horse suddenly, i became ill with anemia and then close to a year ago my grandpa w...

He thinks he should "be alone". Does anyone have any advice or insight about the way he broke up and why after 11 months?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4415 days ago

25 November 2012 (F) - We're both 44 and divorced. We've been dating about 11 months. We get along well, enjoy hanging out and his kids really like me a lot. All is going well. We tell each other "I love you". While my house was being finished I lived with him and t...

Help me to be reasonable and rational about this matter please? My Bf wants me to use Birth Control Pills but I think it's risky.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

25 November 2012 (F) - I have been seeing this guy almost for a year. We are thinking about starting to have a future together soon. We are no longer use condoms every time after we became exclusive and came clean to each other about STD history and all. We sometime...

Is this healthy? is she game playing? My Controlling girlfriend keeps giving me ultimatums or threatens that we'll break up

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

25 November 2012 (M) - I have a girlfriend and I'm soon to be divorced with my estranged wife. My girlfriend has been acting weird lately.... She gives me ultimatums to do X or we break up. When I don't do X, she gives me the complete silent treatment and ignores all ...

Any advice on how to stay faithful to a sick partner who no longer desires intimacy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

24 November 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been living together for a lil over a year now. He is 56 and I am 49. Roughly about 6 months ago he has been diagnosed with several chronic conditions which require him to be on medications. Here is the issue at hand. He ...

How do I get over my married lover who is also the father of my daughter? I've tried, but it's so difficult.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

24 November 2012 (F) - MY daughter's father and i broke up 9 months ago. I'm still not over him. We have a 15 month old daughter together, he is married and is having another baby. I know you might think what do i want with him? It's not that i want him its more so i c...

I'm terrible conscious of my small sized breasts

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

24 November 2012 (F) - I have always been self concious about my body.. I'm 5"1 small boobs and ive always felt shy about my body i compare my self to other people and it makes me insecure... I think im most concisious about my boobs.. they are a size 32 b and i had found ...

I want to give myself the same pain he said I caused him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

24 November 2012 (F) - My friend and I had this experience with this older man and at first he showed me attention, etc. but once he saw my friend he completely forgot about me and started being rude to me and then one time he said he almost died and blamed it on me and ...

She won't break up with me but isn't talking to me. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

23 November 2012 (M) - I've hurt my girlfriend really, really badly and she has given me the silent treatment ever since (2 months now). The first 3 weeks she was extremely angry and now she is depressed and avoiding me. I know she doesn't want to end this but she doesn't ...

How can I help my hoarding mother? She blames me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

23 November 2012 (F) - Hi guys, I could really use some help. To cut an extremely long story short, its come to my attention that my mother, who cares for my grandfather is no longer "able" to care for either him or herself. Its been this way for a years, but has gotten ...

Do I keep saying no or give him another chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

23 November 2012 (F) - Hi. Me and my ex split just over a year ago, i left him and took our daughter, i couldn't handle his lies, and drink problem. We'd been together for over 4 years. Im dating other men now, he dated a lady but heard he messed that up too. He goes ...

Our relationship is in crisis. Can you please help me with advice, before I make a mistake?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

23 November 2012 (M) - So I met this girl freshmen year of college and she's perfect. Everything I want, beautiful smart, and kind of goofy like myself. I spoiled this girl, not like buying her things, but I rubbed her back, told her she was pretty everyday, basicall...

How can I deal with this? He's blocked me off all his social networking sites because apparently I "moan" too much

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

23 November 2012 (F) - I am 19 years old and have been in love with the same guy since I was 13. I've never been with another man and we have never been friends always more but on/off as he often goes with other women. I'm so close to him and his family and for a strang...

How do I break the news to my Very Conservative Indian parents that (a) I am pregnant and (b) he is determined to marry me because he loves me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

23 November 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am kinda in a sticky situation. Took a home pregnancy test twice and both turned out positive. I am an Only child to my highly emotional, overprotective, highly opinionated Indian Parents from conservative background. ...

Aspergers syndrome - life experience [summary]

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

21 November 2012 (M) - Im 27 yrs old, have Asperger's syndrome. Life hasnt been easy for me, though but it has been good. High school was good, but I struggled with the social side, but enjoyed the topics, except for maths , only really liked English and geography an...

I've lost considerable weight. I'm so scared when he sees my body he's be disgusted. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

21 November 2012 (F) - I have a serious problem, I've started seeing a guy few months ago, we have been friends fourteen years and always had feelings for each other, was always bad timing. So here we are, we haven't had sex etc yet as I wanted to go slow even though I...

I need help badly. I'm emotionally torn. Missing my Bf after his father said things that put him into a boys home. My health's been affected. How can I cope better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4421 days ago

21 November 2012 (F) - Well, me and my boyfriend are very serious. I know I'm in love. Well my boyfriend's dad and him always fight and sometime fist fight. When they do his dad usually hits first, this time my boyfriend hit first because his dad called me a "fat...

He's still with the other girl. I told him I can't be with him if he's still with her. Should I stick to my words?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

21 November 2012 (F) - hey everyone.. i recently started seeing my ex boyfriend again.he has been dating another girl since the breakup he said that things have not been good with them for a long time and that he want's to breakup with her but he doesn't know how to gent...

Does building one's self confidence depend on one's own opinion or that of others?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

21 November 2012 (M) - Not sure if anyone will understand my question but here it goes... Confidence = Not being needy, being comfortable in your own skin, knowing you can obtain what you need Does confidence, and therefore becoming a more sexually attractive guy, co...

Questions about pregnancy

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4421 days ago

20 November 2012 (F) - I've just recently found out that I'm pregnant with our first child and its a wonderful time for both myself and my boyfriend but I have a few questions that hopefully you could help me with. 1) I've always exercised a lot, walking, running...

Gained weight since being in a relationship, it affects our sex life, and really want to lose it! Any tips?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4421 days ago

19 November 2012 (F) - Hey guys, this isn't really a dating question, but it does effect my sex life with my boyfriend. I am currently 180lbs at 5f 6 inches, and this is the heaviest I have ever been! Before I moved in with my boyfriend I was around 140/150 a...

My boyfriend is the nicest guy when he's not drinking!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

18 November 2012 (F) - My boyfriend is a British soldier who has served in Afghanistan twice and Iraq I know he has seen some terrible things as my brother is also in the army with him and has told me some of the horrors they've witnessed including their best friend being ...

I'm have sexual problems with my Bf and if I try to discuss it he gets sulky - so should I stay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

18 November 2012 (F) - Ok, this is a bit complicated but I will try my best... I am 30 and have a boyfriend who is 32. We have been together for a year and a half now. Started as friends and FWB and it wasn't supposed to go further then that but we get along very w...

Will I make a fool of my self if I try to fix this relationship? Or should I just walk away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

18 November 2012 (F) - my ex and current guy i was dating became good friends. i have done something so terrible. i recently came out of a long relationship with my ex and fell in love with someone else. he was a really nice guy he really really was in love with me. he ...

I have a sickness phobia.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4424 days ago

17 November 2012 (F) - Hiya Everyone, I have a phobia of sickness I have never understood where it has come from or why it is me that has it? It used to be really bad when I was younger, I know it sounds really stupid but a boy was sick over my table in a class th...

I feel ashamed that I have let him have such power over me. Please help me!!!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

17 November 2012 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 8 years. I know he is probably a good person, but he makes me so sad most of the time. He literally critiques almost everything I do. Just to make sure I wasn't crazy, which he frequently tells me I am, I started ...

It freaks me out that my room mate sleep walks. what can I do? I also worry about his safety when he does this.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

17 November 2012 (M) - I’ve problem with my friend. I've asked this on other sites already, but no one seems to take it seriously. We’re both students and we share the same dormitory room. The thing is that he’s sleepwalker. He gets up almost every night and walks ...