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Archived questions from: May, 2012 (see latest in Health category)

Health: Help and advice

Can I get a STD infection from having sex with 3 clean guys?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4585 days ago

31 May 2012 (F) - I had sex with three guys unprotected the past 3 days drunk. I know they're all clean since I know all of them. My question is even though they're clean, can I contract a std from bodily fluid with 3 different guys in a short period of time. or some ...

How to explain lack of relationship experience?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

31 May 2012 (M) - 30-year-old male who, due to many factors, has been pretty far behind the curve when it comes to relationships and sex. I didn't date in any form for most of my 20s due to personal issues. I've managed to turn things around a bit these past two ...

Does my son need to see a doctor?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

31 May 2012 (M) - my son 18 years old. when he was 15-16 he secretly used to wear his mom's panties and masturbate frequently with it. sometimes he wear her skirts as well. we warn him many times not to do so , but seems he hasn't stop yet. is this his mental problem ...

I don't think I've had an Orgasm yet. But what can I do about my more urgent problem? During and after sex? Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

31 May 2012 (F) - I am a 21 yo girl and do not think i have ever had the big O. When my boyfriend goes down on me i often always have the sensation of peeing when i do not have to or have nothing to pee out. However, I have a had an accident or two when the "pee...

I need help with Job Interviews!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

31 May 2012 (F) - hey aunties I need help please, the thing is in job interviews I can so nervous I start giggling, and not actually talking too much and showing my potential,when compared to other candidates I look stupid/silly and do not get the job, I really need ...

Are his comments about losing weight unreasonable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

30 May 2012 (F) - I need to know if I am over-reacting to this situation. My fiance are a happy couple, mostly. We've been together a couple of years now, and I feel that he accepts me for who I am and all my flaws. Except one. I have a hormonal condition that m...

I'm bleeding again even though I've had my period this month! What is wrong with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

30 May 2012 (F) - I am constantly having something wrong with me. this time,,, today I started bleeding but I have already had my period this month, the bleeding only lasted the day and it was very very dark(almost black) and very thick. not a slimy thick but an a...

Bleeding after sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

30 May 2012 (F) - What maybe the problem when after making love you experience spots of blood on your pants....i mean me and my boyfriend having been havin sex and evrything was just great until last month when we had sex when i got @ home i was bleeding as like if i ...

I want to escape my abusive, drug addicted brother

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

30 May 2012 (F) - I can't take it anymore, I hate coming home.. My brother is a drug attict, thief and a liar. All he ever does is hurt me. He steals my money, takes my things, does drug deals infront of me. Im only 16, i shouldnt have seen any of this. i see his ...

Would I gain more confidence having breast implants?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - I need some advice again with a problem that is really driving me mad. I'm a 32AA, I'm about 2cm away from being totally flat chested. I wear padded bras nearly every time I go out or my clothes look stupid and if I'm on a night out I'm complete...

I feel sick every time I think of him!

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29 May 2012 (F) - Love struck So there's this guy I like, and he knows I like him, in fact when I see him he touches me playfully but there's a problem: he has a girlfriend. I am completely aware that if he broke up with her to get with me then he could do the sam...

Has anyone else changed their mind about masturbation being dirty?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - When I was a little younger (early/mid teens) I used to think masturbation was really dirty for girls and I swore never to do it. Now I'm 18 and my views have changed quite a bit. I don't think it's dirty anymore but I only do it rarely and I was wo...

Who is responsible for kids turning into drug addicts? The parenting? The genetics? Or just luck?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - Who is responsible for kids turning out drug addicts? The parenting? The genetics? Or just luck? This situation is ruining my life,and my marriage, and I feel ,Im not responsible for this, but the society is turning against us . It is very painful ...

I'm getting a little worried about my friend, she obsessed with her weight!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

28 May 2012 (F) - Hello everyone, I'm getting a little worried about my friend, we are in our last year of school and are both going to different colleges this year and she has recently opened up to me about how unhappy she feels with herself. She use to get bullied ...

Can you get sick from touching a penis then putting your hands in your mouth?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4597 days ago

28 May 2012 (F) - If you touch a guys penis, then you end up putting your hands in your mouth during that night and in the morning without having washed them... can you get ill, or any infection or disease? Because that happened, now today I feel really sick! But i'm ...

Can I get my medical records changed/updated?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

28 May 2012 (M) - I went to the doctor's office for an Ingrown toe nail. This is my forth or fifth time there. The problem is when I look at the computer screen, I notice they listed "mild retardation" under my "ongoing medical problem". I am not retarded in ...

Am I too heavy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

27 May 2012 (F) - I am just over 5"1 and weigh about 125-128 lbs. As a 20 year old girl, am I overweight? I feel like I am and am not very comfortable with my body. I can't tell if it is simply my own insecurities or if I truly am very overweight. I don't know if it ...

Bad sore throat after a bj

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

27 May 2012 (F) - My boyfriend is clean, and we know that for sure. Him and I had our first experience together, and I gave him a blow job. When I was doing it, all went well, except he started to push my head down a little farther, which resulted in me starting to ...

Is my back too large?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

26 May 2012 (F) - Hi everyone! Right this may sound silly but i'm a UK size 10 which I would consider to be a healthy size, i'm 5'4 and 34E bra size. Anyway, I was looking through the internet today and I saw someone comment saying anyone who is a UK size would ne...

He has depression, do I wait or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

24 May 2012 (F) - Ive been seeing this guy for the last two weeks and he confessed to me yesterday, that he has depression and is on anti-depressants, has attempted killing himself twice and is seeing a counsellor. This doesn't bother me, I still want to see him but ...

My boyfriend has become even more controlling

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

24 May 2012 (F) - Hi all,Please help. I;m worried. MY BF has been very controlling for the last 14 months. I do not live with him, and have started getting back to my normal self, eg: feeling ok and dressing better, and getting my life back. I am trying to detach. ...

My girlfriend left me in a bad state

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4595 days ago

24 May 2012 (M) - I had relationship with my gf for almost 1 year. in this period of time we had many fighting about Unimportant problems.I loved her but she was ordering me to do what she wanted. in all dispute I was Placating. recently I got sick and had terrific...

Are my emotions boiling over because I have held in my emotions for so long?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4601 days ago

24 May 2012 (F) - I tend to hide my emotions. I only want people to see the happy excited hyper energetic side of me. I hide my emotions becuase it seem like when I'm happy I make others happy. I hate to let people down so I try to be happy for the sake of ther ...

I found out I got clamydia and my new b/f thinks I cheated but I got it from my cheating ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

23 May 2012 (F) - hello everyone ... 5 months ago my boyfriend of 2 years and i broke up ... about a month and half ago i started dating someone new .. well the problem is i just had a check up and i was told that i have clamydia ... i must of caught it from m...

How do I get my girlfriend to eat healthy and lose weight?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

23 May 2012 (M) - Hello guys. I need some advice on talking to my girlfriend about her weight. I will first start off by saying i DO lover her and i will NOT leave her over this because she is just too special to me. I do however, think that she is not eating healthy ...

If my boyfriend gets testosterone treatments will it change him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4602 days ago

23 May 2012 (F) - Hi guys, My boyfriend thinks he may have low testosterone levels and he has a doctors appointment for it. My question is that if he does and he gets treatment, will his personality change? He has a low sex drive at the moment but this hasn't alwa...

How do porn actress do things with no health risks?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4602 days ago

23 May 2012 (F) - How do porn actresses do things like a2m and rimjobs without any health risks? And how do they prep for anal to make it look so easy?...

I've been having an affair for 2 years with a family friend. Should I tell the wife and my parents?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

22 May 2012 (F) - i m 22 years old and i guy i love is 44 and is married with 2 kids. we have been in a relationship for the past 3 years. initially when he started saying that he loves me i tried completely avoiding him but slowly he convinced me into falling in ...

What if we go to the beach and my boyfriend just wants to look at girls who are more fit and prettier than me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

22 May 2012 (F) - Hi. I might sound insecure asking this, well because I am about the topic. I want to go to the beach with my friends and boyfriend. But the problem is that I am overweight. Not that he is in tip top shape but I am a size 12 tops and size 12/14 ...

Can you have ED without a cause?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

21 May 2012 (M) - I'm in my forties , healthy guy, and I live in a good relationship with my wife. So one day suddenly, after years without any problem, I just lost my erection, in the middle of sex. We didn't think too much about it, but when I tried it again, it ...

I am unconfident about my body!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

21 May 2012 (F) - Hey, I'd love some advice on how to feel confident when it comes to sex despite being really unconfident about my body :( I've been with my bf 2 years, and things have been going great between us, including our sex life. I was very body confident, ...

How can a woman cure her fishy odor?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

21 May 2012 (F) - I feel helpless, I am very clean, and been to my doctors and she tested me. every thing can back normal, no infections. My boyfriend has stop having sex with me, because he say i smell fishy real bad, when he pre-cums, and cums. he even gag's. He ...

I don't understand why I hate doing it but I love reading erotic stories.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

20 May 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid my problem is quite different. i like to read erotic stories, tried to watch some porn movies but didn't like it much. So basically i like sex, but when it comes to doing it, i don't like it at all, i mean i hate it. i wanted it to...

He said I stink down there and it's probably the food I eat!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

20 May 2012 (F) - Hey friends, me and my guy were out today evening and we were talking about having sex 2mrw at his place. He asked me if he should full shave? i said its your wish but just wash your men hair down there, so it smells good. He suddenly said that i ...

I'm a little worried about my new girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

20 May 2012 (M) - Hi I'm basically a little worried about my new gf we've been dating for about 2 weeks and I'm not sure if she is still interested in me or not she's 8 years my senior but we both like anoqther and we hit it off when we met but now it feels like ...

I'm lost with no direction after a long-term relationship.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

20 May 2012 (M) - Me and my ex broke up about 8 months ago and in that time I was going through a roller coaster of emotions because before we broke up we took a break and she left with some other guy, I couldnt handle the fact that she did that, so we officially ...

Could this be a latex allergy, or is this normal for your first time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

20 May 2012 (F) - So I just lost my virginity yesterday to my boyfriend. (It hurt a lot, so there wasn't more than just a little bit of thrusting before we stopped) And he wore a condom, of course. I don't want to get pregnant! But about five or so hours lat...

What are some ideas to totally delight my wife on her birthday? Really special suggestions please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

20 May 2012 (M) - Ladies i want to really spoil my wife for her birthday. She doesn't like music much. She loves the outdoors. This last twelve months have been tough for her at work and i hate seeing her look so sad. Is there anything more exciting or some...

Weight loss tips needed

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

20 May 2012 (F) - Hey there ,I'm trying to lose some weight, but my weight it is very stubborn, and does not want to move. I tried to eat healthy , 1200 calorie, and walk everyday, but it just not going anywhere. Is there any idea what works to start to drop the ...

It's a lose/lose situation but I still love him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

19 May 2012 (F) - I am in so much agony over the recent break up with the guy I was seeing. I had to stand up for myself in how things were going with him and I dont regret it. Because I couldnt go on accepting certain behaviors. he drink alot sometimes and turns ...

He lies, cheats, steals and does drugs for the buzz!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

19 May 2012 (F) - I have been with my fiancee for a few year,we knew each other from being 13 year old and hung around 2gther! Anyway we grew up had relationships and both had children! In first couple months togther he told me he used to have a heroine and crack ...

I doubt his comments, is this because of my criticisng Mum?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

19 May 2012 (F) - I have been dating for a year. We get on very well - he tells me that he loves me and behaves affectionately around me. However, there are occasions where I question why he says he loves and cares for me as much as he expresses. He mentions I have ...

Does anyone have any experience with Micronor?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

19 May 2012 (F) - Hello, thank you for reading for question and hopefully being able to help me. I have been on the contraceptive pill Micronor for at least six months (that I can remember), but over the past three months or so I have been experiencing ver...

I think my Bf should find someone better. How can I handle my jealousy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

19 May 2012 (F) - Well I've been with my boyfriend for about 8/9 months and he's the nicest guy ever we get on so so well and everything should be perfect if it wasn't for my jealousy. Ever since I split up with my ex boyfriend I've been so paranoid because my ex h...

Will or can this affect my long time health? I don't have a regular girlfriend.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

19 May 2012 (M) - I am 18 years old.i don't have any girlfriend till now. i am in a habit of hooking daily , i want to ask that is regular hooking affects our health or not. i tried to control it because i thinks it is affecting my health and i am not been able to c...

Should I talk to his wife? Or just break with him? He has lied all the way

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

19 May 2012 (F) - I am in a relationship with a married man who is 20 years older to me. We met at work. He got transferred to our office from another branch. Initially we never really spoke much to each other, probably just say a good morning when we would pass by...

He says it is over. I am broken inside. What can I do? I hurt so much inside.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

19 May 2012 (F) - I cheated on my boyfriend. We were together for two years. I gave him my all. I saw sides of him no-one else cared to see. I looked after him when times went bad. I gave him everything he wanted. I tried to always make him smile. I ordered univ...

Is this fair? our relationship is over because I cheated over tens years ago!!! help!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

19 May 2012 (F) - How do I handle the fact of the man I have loved for 14 years wants to leave because of some things I did over 10 years ago. Even after him telling me that he love me and we were going to get through this together. Now it's I am inconsiderate, I do...

Family Feud and my husband is siding with his sister against me. What are my options?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 999 days ago

19 May 2012 (F) - I have had a very bad falling out with my sister in law. We never liked each other anyway but the last time I have seen her we had a massive disagreement. My husband sided with his sister against me which added to me being upset. Since then I have...

Date is tomorrow but she has a cold. Options? Suggestions? Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

19 May 2012 (M) - Heres the situation. I met this girl in class and finally on the last day of the semester got her number. we only talked once in person but w/e i got it. Immediately sparks flew and we texted everyday literally for hours before our first date. Ou...