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Archived questions from: January, 2012 (see latest in Health category)

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I feel ugly, and I need ways to cope!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - I'm in such emotional pain right now, because I think am so ugly. Nobody ever tells me I'm pretty, I am just really plain, and today I realized I'm deformed. I tried on several tight dresses, and my hips are just too big... if I fit into a dress ...

Am I unreasonable in thinking a marriage should be more?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

31 January 2012 (M) - I need some advice on my current marital situation... My wife and I have been married for six years. She's very religious and, as such, there was a very strict "no sex before marriage" policy - which I agreed to. The problems began after the ...

I have trouble with listening and comprehension...what should I do about this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4557 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - Hi everyone. I have a question. I've always struggled with hearing and paying attention to people. When strangers talk to me, I freeze and have trouble understanding what they're saying when I feel nervous. I have to ask people to repeat themselve...

He's 50, fit, separated and I want it to work. BUT? Can this relationship work better? How?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4675 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - This is long, so thank you to whoever is reading this… I’ve been in a relationship with a truly wonderful man for just over 3 years. I am now 26 and he is 50. Fortunately he has aged well and he keeps fit. I met him when he supposedly was separa...

I'm tired of always being the second place girl, the rebound!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - Hi. I'm 18yrs old and I fell for a man who is 30 yrs old. He is dating his girlfriend for 6 yrs, and i was told he broke up with her two months before he started seeing me. but then i found out, he lied to me and her and everyone he knew about the ...

My boyfriend is angry with me for wanting to go on a diet

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - ive been thinking about going on celebrity slim diet, my friend went on it and she lost loads of weight, so i asked her about it, and she mentioned it to my boyfriend at work and he went mad at me.. Its nice to know he likes me how i am, but this is ...

Any suggestions on how to whiten badly discoloured teeth?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - I hate my smile. I dont naturally smile with my teeth anyway, but if I laugh you can see them. My face looks horrible when I smile/laugh but looks fine when I haven't got any expression. My teeth are horrible, they are yellow and discoloured, my ...

A cycle 18 days long?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - Hi guys,Is it normal to have an eighteen day menstrual cycle?Its January and i am having my second period this month.Thanks!...

Should I tell my boyfriend about my past?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - I am 17, was sexually abused by my last boyfriend, and am in a new relationship. I am hoping that it isnt a huge surprise that the last relationship still affects me, mainly in bad ways. recently i have been having more nightmares, some involving ...

I just get turned off by his double checking the condom

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - Hi everyone, I didnt know who else to bring this up with so thought i'd see what other people on here think... Basically my partner and I are in a very loving relationship. We both want children and plan to start trying in ...

My love for him is so strong, but he just plays with my emotions

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - i have a boyfriend of 1 year and 8 months, we are long distance(live 5 hours/230 miles apart) and we met 6 months before we got together through a friend i went to see for a week, i was with someone else at the time, but that didn't stop me doing ...

Age difference and a dying girl

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - Now, I'm not the type of girl to fall head over heels for anyone! In fact, I'm a junior in high school and I've never dated before. I'm really happy about this too. Not just proud but happy. I love being by myself and see no use for high school ...

Maybe I should just end the relationship!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - Hello, I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 21. We have been doing a sort of open relationship for about the last 5 months. He has only been with one other girl and it was just a mindless hookup, dont care. In our particular arrangement, I told him I really ...

Is it tacky to ask about STDs?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

29 January 2012 (M) - I myself am currently a virgin and my girlfriend is not. She told me she has had some unprotected sex. She really really wants to have sex with me, we just started dating, however, we have known each other for quite some time and actually dated 4 ...

On top of all our problems sex is not happening either!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - My husband was in an accident 25 years ago prior to our marriage that left him paralyzed. He has a full time job and has lived indepentantly. We met 3 years ago on the internet. I lived in the USA and he lived in Australia. He came to visit me in ...

He wants sex, I want more, but I am too lonely to just walk!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - Hi, I met this asian guy...we were going out...dinner, dancing, movies..etc...he is younger almost 10 years...I realized..too late he only wants sex. Thats all. And I want more company...friendship. I told him we are looking for different things a...

Discharge days after sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

28 January 2012 (F) - Since I've started having sex a few months ago I occasionally get a thin cloudy discharge. To describe it as discharge would be misleading as I can feel it come out and a lot comes out, like I have to run to the bathroom immediately to ensure it ...

I had hoped that he would feel the pain of being dumped and now that he has, I feel guilty!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4686 days ago

28 January 2012 (F) - Please let this question go up i need some help :( Ok a stupid question but please hear me out. How can I make myself feel better for something that I didnt cause? I'll explain. On St Stephens day/Boxing day A guy i was dating for five months...

After being heartbroken, I finally met a wonderful woman! But I am out of shape and could ruin my chances at love again! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

27 January 2012 (M) - it has taken me a long time to get over my ex. I have at times been very down and reached a point where i almost stopped going out. I just stayed at home ate and moped. A year later i have realized that i have become a mess. I have lost most if not ...

How can I hint to him not to get me silver as I'm allergic to it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

27 January 2012 (F) - hi there agony aunts and uncles, thanks for the good advice i have had from you with problems i have put on here, and also helped everytime, im just wanting to know and i feel a little cheeky saying this, but how do i hint to my boyfriend of nearly ...

I feel depressed and sad that my parents are still trying to have children and they aren't thinking about me and my feelings!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

27 January 2012 (F) - i recently came to know that my mom had a missed abortion with a 9 week fetus. I feel so embarrassed and angry and sad because i am 20 and old enough to have my own kids but they want a second kid after so many years. I found out that she had a ...

I constantly worry that my loved ones are going to die.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

27 January 2012 (F) - I constantly worry that my loved ones are going to die. For instance, if I have not heard from them, I worry that something bad has happened to them. Or, if they have to fly somewhere, I worry so much about their safety. This stressful, obsessive ...

I was once unfairly accused of theft as a child and the trauma affects my behaviour even now!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

27 January 2012 (F) - I have no idea where to post this question, but I seriously need to let this out and get some advice. Okay here it goes... Well when ever someone loses something and they're looking for it, I immediately get nervous. I start to shake, my heart ra...

Should I stay with a mentally ill boyfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

27 January 2012 (F) - Hi all. I've been with my bf for almost 3yrs. He has as few problems with anxiety and depression. He has even been on anti depressants for 3months. Anyway whenever he drinks even a little these feelings he has amplifies and the smallest thing can ...

I'm worried about gettin waxed down there

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

26 January 2012 (F) - I'd like to get my hair " down there " waxed lol, but i'm too embarassed about a stranger seeing my private parts, and how much hair there is there lol. I'm also worried about it hurting. How can i feel more comfortable about having it done ?. Also, ...

Why do I keep feeling so sick whenever I go out drinking?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4688 days ago

26 January 2012 (F) - Hey I seem to have a bit of a problem that affects me going out and enjoying myself, not sure if anyone else has had the same problem but I've receieved comments about it. Everytime I go out drinking I get so far and feel the need to throw up, and...

Unwanted hair....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4688 days ago

26 January 2012 (F) - Recently I've noticed I've been getting dark hairs on my neck, chest (in between my boobs), around my nips and my bum and down the back of my legs. I shave the legs and bum hairs, but i pluck the other hairs on my body. I'm scared of what this may ...

She wont invite me over ...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4688 days ago

26 January 2012 (M) - I have been dating for 6 months my girlfriend hasn't had me in her house yet it bothers me.She say's she loves me and she is going to move in .I fel like im on the outside looking in please give me advice on how to talk to her about that issue.She ...

People think he's perfect. Yet how do I cope with his secretiveness and fact he may be seeing escourts? He has excuses for everything.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

26 January 2012 (F) - Hi, I'm married with two kids and have serious trust issues with my husband. We've been together for 12yrs and everyone who knows us thinks he's the perfect guy as he is a great father, helps around the house and is easy going. About 2 yrs ago I ...

Our living situation is getting to my wife. I endure her regular tantrums. Do I change our whole lifestyle and income due to her whim?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4667 days ago

26 January 2012 (M) - I am 41 and I have been married to my wife for 19 years. We have no children. We bought this house in a large suburb (120K people) 10 years ago. It's near the mountains and we get a lot of wildlife. There are lots of trees, too, and you'd never know...

Have I hurt my Bf's self esteem? I'm shy and got worried I'd do something wrong during making out, so stopped him going further.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4689 days ago

26 January 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I are both each others first relationship. We have not gone farther then kissing. In the past few days, things heated up between us. He kept telling me to do only what I was comfortable with. The first time this happened, ...

I feel so guilty about how easily I hooked up. Am I the hypocrite now, after my own outrage at my Gf cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4688 days ago

26 January 2012 (M) - hey! so my gf of two and a half years cheated on me and it was terrible etc so i thought why not get back out there! so i got this girls number who i thought was pretty cute in a spur of the moment decision, Í'd never seen her before, but later th...

My boyfriend has genital herpes. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4688 days ago

25 January 2012 (F) - I'm dating a guy for a while who has admitted that he suffers from genital herpes. We haven't had sex yet. He claims that he has been cured but I was reading somewhere that herpes is incurable. Now I happen to be in love with him and I would like to ...

I am older than him. He finds fault all the time. How do I deal with this relationship? Is he over me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4689 days ago

25 January 2012 (F) - ModNote: two questions combined, as clearly about the same issues I love my man and even though he's younger than me. He makes a fuss about things and everything he say is true and I'm always a liar. We get together and he pick some of the mos...

Poor communication, a misunderstanding and so her friends abused me for being late. Should I be aggrieved with her since she was unsupportive to me re abuse by her friends?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4688 days ago

25 January 2012 (M) - So this is my story. I have always wanted to be with this girl and finally, she agreed. We've been dating for a bit more than a year now. We got our ups and downs but all in all, it was pretty good, except for the fact that it was "just" "pret...

How do I deal with her past that is the opposite of my views? I know she's changed but the images are out there!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

25 January 2012 (M) - [Mod note: please note that the poster is 22 years of age, not 32. The poster should consider starting a new account so this doesn't create confusion later.]] So, I'm a 22 year old guy beginning a new relationship with a girl. I'm not one to jump...

How can I help her try to move on from this traumatic experience she's been dealing with for about 3 years and put that fire that we used to have back in our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

24 January 2012 (M) - Ok so, I've been dating this girl for nearly a year and a half. Right now we live about an hour apart so I go down to visit her on most weekends. Things were going great until almost 2 months ago... she seemed to become more distant all of a ...

Two issues are preventing me from losing my virginity!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

24 January 2012 (F) - I'm an 18 year old closeted bisexual. I am also a virgin. I know that once I become sexually active, I will eventually come to more of a conclusion about whether I prefer men or women more but that really does not worry me as of now. What worries ...

Is it normal that I don't like being touched?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4689 days ago

24 January 2012 (M) - Iam a 21 year old male and was wondering if it was normal that I don't like being touched. Every time people touch me I get really uncomfortable. Hand shakes and hugs are the exception and I don't mind any of those. I have had a couple of ...

How can I let go of my first love, it's been 20 years!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4689 days ago

24 January 2012 (F) - I fell in love for the first time at age 14. I relationship was good but he went away for the summer for and did not tell me. I felt abandoned and cheated on him. I told him this and he was very hurt. I decided to break up the relationship but ...

Sometimes cooking meals is just too much work! Is anyone else like this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4689 days ago

24 January 2012 (F) - Hi over the past year I have had days where I haven't eaten purely because I can't be bothered. I'm not anorexic or anything like that, I'm extremely happy with my body, but sometimes just the thought of cooking food just makes me feel like its the ...

Why can't I say the LOVE word?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

24 January 2012 (F) - whats wrong with me i am with a man who is the most wonderful man i have ever been with its LDR been together for nearly 3 years we are comitted and loyal to each other and i am due to move in with him soon to end the LDR been tough but been worth ...

I am on my way out the door and about to separate from my wife!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4689 days ago

24 January 2012 (M) - This will be a long post and I would like honest comments to each point. I am on my way out the door and about to separate. I want to break down the problems so I can improve myself. I'll start with some things that have bothered my wife: -...

Rough sex got out of control and I hurt my girlfriend.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

24 January 2012 (M) - I really feel bad about hurting my GF. My girl friend likes it when I get rough. like when we have sex or fingering her, she likes it when I really slam her. or she likes to be slammed against the wall sometime. well last weekend I was fingering her ...

I'm in the depths of depression. Is there a way out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

24 January 2012 (M) - Hey guy's I'm going to apologize before hand as on the education front I don't have much. Here's my story.. and why I have self diagnosed myself with social anxiety and depression. I started to realise I was different around the age of 13 I...

Matters down under!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

23 January 2012 (F) - I was wondering how most women have their pubic hair, i guess? Just because idk if a guy will be freaked out if I have hair down there, or if it's normal too. If you don't have hair down there, how do you remove it? What do guys prefer? Is having ...

Weighty issues here!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4688 days ago

23 January 2012 (F) - I'll make this as short as I can, but please read.. My boyfriend is overweight; his last relationship was not a happy one, and he's said that due to the unhappiness he had been overeating and had gained some weight. However he said that he was...

How do I get over my boredom with life??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4689 days ago

23 January 2012 (F) - Wondering if anyone can provide some advice/suggestions on this. I'm happily in a relationship but I feel like things keep drifting along in life at the moment. There's a heap of exciting plans for the next couple years (wedding date is set, sta...

Yes My Mom Loves me, but besides that I''m depressed..(just broke up with Bf) How do you cope when you're completely alone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4689 days ago

22 January 2012 (F) - I really need advice... I'm 22 years old. My boyfriend of two years and I just broke up about two weeks ago. A few days ago, my best friend and I had a huge fall-out. We've been friends for years, and I can say that this was an argument we prob...

I thought I knew my sexual orientation. So how come this married guy with same illness as me is pushing all the right buttons with me? Still just friends.only. He's married.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

22 January 2012 (F) - I thought I was 100% lesbian am totally happy with that and have been since I was younger - now almost 23! But recently I moved jobs and I now work next to a guy, let's call him bob. Bob started coming to talk to me and we hit it off as mates from...