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writes:ModNote: two questions combined, as clearly about the same issuesI love my man and even though he's younger than me.He makes a fuss about things and everything he say is true and I'm always a liar. We get together and he pick some of the most smallest things to fuss about. I try to compomise and he be stuck about what he say. I used to look forward to see him and now I want to get away from him to get a breath. But i miss him so much and I enjoy the things he do, so I can watch him perform as a artist.how to love a man that i want to be with, but he's so selfish and can always finds fault in me and never with himself. I got to prove to him about every little thing or their'll be a fuss for something so small. now i rather get away from him than getting to him but sex is great and i am older than he is but he seems to know everything and his word is true. how to deal with this relationship? now or never.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (25 January 2012):
 Sounds much like our relationship I am older and my partner is nit-piky complaining about EVERYTHING...
Personally if you are unhappy now and can get out... DO IT.
People do not change as they get deeper into relationships they tend to let the truth show more and more... that means his behavior will continue to be nit-picking and mean to you.
you will continue to feel bad about yourself spiral down into depression and become self-destructive as a way to get out of a relationship you don't feel you can leave.
this is not about his age but his personality which will NOT change.
does he compromise? does he give in? can you pick back at him.
I have chills because you sound much like me and I've choosen to stay in my relationship but I'm telling you... RUN.... RUN NOW.
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