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writes:whats wrong with me i am with a man who is the most wonderful man i have ever been with its LDR been together for nearly 3 years we are comitted and loyal to each other and i am due to move in with him soon to end the LDR been tough but been worth every day now the star prize of been together as a couple so all is great there the thing is i cant say the LOVE word im not on about I LOVE YOU words i do say that no problem its the if he gives me a drink or passes me something i cant say ta LOVE or thanks SWEETHEART the lovey words i love this man to bits but i cant seem to say the LOVE word which annoys me cause if i knew of any women that could say LOVE to him say at work or when he goes shopping just a example that is or call him SWEETHEART or DARLING would really upset me cause even though hes the love of my life i cant say this ta LOVE stuff i could say it to my ex and i didnt love my ex half or 100 times as much as i do love my man i am with now just seem to come natural with him mind you he use to say LOVE a lot so maybe i sort of picked it up saying it but even with my ex husband i could not say the LOVE word to him and did love him he was my first love but we grew apart. but my man i am with now he cant say I LOVE YOU words he shows me with his actions and they say action speak louder than words i suppose but nice to hear them now and again so i told him of this and he said he will try harder so it reasures me that i am the love of his life even though i know i am with what he does for me thats what i need to do is try harder to say the ta LOVE when he passes me something or just in conversation with him i say to myself next time i see him i will say it i will say the LOVE word but when he offers me a drink i will chicken out and say oh thanks is that for me and really i want to say awww thanks my love show my appreciation hope you dont think i am being silly with all this but it does get to me i can say it in a text but not face to face why i hope you can give me some advice or words i could say to him that mean the same thing thanks for reading hope to have some replys
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (24 January 2012):
 why do you feel like you have to call him love?
we use HONEY, sweetie, darling... my gf calls her bf BABE all the time... my dad called my mom Bub
we also have pet names that we call each other so that when he's done something EXCEPTIONAL I will say "thank you Keeper" or when he wants me for something special he calls for his "Critter"....
does this bother him? has he said something?
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reader, fi_the_tree  +, writes (24 January 2012):
 Why not try calling him "dear"??
So when he hands you a drink say 'Thank you dear' It's not a scary as saying 'love' i don't think, but it's personal for the both of you.
Give it a go x
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