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Archived questions from: June, 2011 (see latest in Health category)

Health: Help and advice

Can I kick start puberty?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

30 June 2011 (M) - Well! I'm nearly 14 and I have had no signs of starting puberty and its getting embarresing! I have had no growth spurts or anything and I'm getting self councious about it now and I was wondereing if there was anyway to kick start puberty and what ...

Every time I go on a diet I end up putting back on every single pound

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - I know this isn't a relationship question or anything, but I could do with some help? I'm 20 years old and having some insecurities with myself. I'm 5ft 4 and 10st, a UK 12-14 and hate it. My breasts are a size 34G and and cause me constant pain...

Will going on the pill mean I will put on weight? Or should I see a gynacologist instead?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - i'm currently in a relationship with an amazing guy. he's the first boyfriend i've ever had and the first person iv'e had any sexual contact whatsoever with. I also recently lost my virginity to him as well, and he wore a condom both times we'v...

Second-rate sex life, caused by my new found self esteem issues, or is it him? What to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - Hey Aunts, I'm currently with a guy who is almost perfect. Caring, respectful, extremely nice, cute... just one problem. We've been together almost two years and aren't very sexual. Some of it comes from me, because we were friends first and while ...

Does anyone have any advice for me until my doctor clears me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - I was raped two years ago, and the guy gave me HPV. I have been cleared of the virus, but I still have cancer cells that my doctor is trying to remove. He just performed a procedure where the cells were frozen. He has instructed me not to have sex ...

How do I boost my self confidence? Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - Hi. Am female, 21, about 4 ft 11 and am not physicaly developed and because of this, i really lack self confidence. How do i boost my self confidence and how can i dress in a way that will flatter me. Also i have stomach fat, folds and love handles, ...

My girlfriend is becoming more and more distant, does she still love me? Does she not want to be with me because of my illness?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

29 June 2011 (M) - Hello everyone Thank you for takeing the time to read this. A lot has happend these last few months, i got diognosed with skitophenia (sorry still cant spell it) lost my viginity with my girlfreind. Been hospitalised three times for epi...

Is it safe? Or am I getting paranoid about accidently getting pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - Ok, so two of the guys I've slept with can't figure out why I have to jump up and stop them before they put their fingers inside me after they just came and, long story short, got a little bit or even a lot of come on their hands. And if I was blow...

Empty nester thought she found the one.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - I met a nice guy almost 2 1/2 years ago. We are both 46. I have been divorced about 16 years. He was just getting a divorce when I met him on yahoo personals. This was his second divorce. I asked him at the time if he needed time to sew his wild ...

I felt ditched and now I'm angry

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4900 days ago

29 June 2011 (M) - so this will be a simple and basic question. I was at the beach with my friend, she said she was on her period I guess as a way to justify being mean to me? is that fair? I was saying I want to leave this club because it wasn't fun anymore but she ...

My job is being threatened because of my pregnancy, has anyone else been through this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, currently I'm four months pregnant and I inform my job the doctor gave me a letter stating that I can't lift twenty pounds, no strenuous activity, and no exposure to toxins. So they told me they cant accommodate me. Now let me say, This ...

Depression has gotten worse now that my BF has broken up with me, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - My boyfriend has broken up with me, because I recently I have been stuck in a depressive episode, due to a load of family crap with my parents. Over the last 2 years I have had 2 nervous breakdowns, 8 different anti-depressants, counsell...

Has anyone else ever experienced this? Any ideas what it could be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship, seeing each other every couple weeks, so I go long periods w/o sex. I saw him yesterday and we had sex a couple times and it hurt a lot. I was wet enough and I gave him a bj to make getting ...

Did rough sex cause me to bleed abnormally, or did it jumpstart my period?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4900 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - Last night I was at a guys house (we've been sleeping together on and off for over a year now) and we had a quickie; however, this time it was a bit rougher than normal. I got a text from him later that night while on my way home, with his swearing ...

15 years old, boner problems!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

28 June 2011 (M) - Hey, first post here. After countless other questions asked anonymously, I thought I'd make an account so I can look back on all my previous, stupid questions later in life and have a good laugh. But as of right NOW this is no laughing matter.. ...

Nice Guys

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - Nice guys- a lot of us have overlooked them, rejected them, or simply ignored them. Then, we become interested and they're married. So, it's like a chick flick scene where a pretty girl tells her nice guy admirer that he's too much like a brother ...

Did I break my hymen inserting a tampon?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4901 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - So the other day I was inserting a super and i think I might've broken my hymen. It was one of my last days and i was going to the beach so I put in a super. I used a cardboard one and had some difficulty putting it in. When i peed it kinda stung ...

In a lesbian couple with differing sex drives. How can I make myself want it more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4901 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - Ok so i am a female with a female partner, aka. we are a lesbian couple. Our sex is great and i love it, just not as much as her. She wants it every second. I am lucky if i want it at least once a week, and it's getting me down as, although she...

It always hurts when he first goes inside me, is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4901 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - Hi well im a bit worried about my health. Me and my boyfriend started having sex about 2 months ago, im 17. Well everything was fine and we were having great sex, then one day it was taking him a while longer to orgasm and so the sex went on for l...

Boyfriend is suffering from PTSD and won't seek professional help, any suggestions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4900 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is a Marine and worked in Bosnia back in 1999 as a "peacekeeper". He's 33 now and is still having some issues...he can't go into cities, he still carries a gun on him, and he has horrible nightmares time to time. I'm the only person h...

Want to have oral sex but worried about the smell coming from my vagina!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4902 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - I have an issue. My boyfriend wants to give me oral sex but i'm afraid of what he'll think because lately i'v had a wierd smell coming from my vagina. He keeps insisting but i'm too nervous! Advice please?...

Boyfriend wants me to gain weight!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4902 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of 2 years told me today that he wants me to gain weight because I'll look more beautiful. He has always told me before we started dating that he's into bigger girls. I have a small bust (wearing only a 32B). My measurements are ...

I have inverted nipples. Will this change?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

26 June 2011 (F) - Hello, I am a 14 years old girl with 34D breasts and I have retracted nipples. I wasn't born with it only came about when I started going through puberty and growing larger breasts. I am happy with the size of my breast but having retracted nipples ...

Is it right to want a relationship when you have a chronic illness?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

26 June 2011 (F) - I hope you can help me, since several years I am in a strange situation. I have a chronic illness that allows me to do much less than other people. Actually I was severely affected for some years, mostly bedbound, now it improved but still I can do ...

Do guys shave their pubic hair or not? And why?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4901 days ago

26 June 2011 (M) - Im a 15 Year old male and i would like to know if I should shave all of my pubic hair off or just trim down there?...

Is there any hope for this relationship or is Gambling Addiction the real problem?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

26 June 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I recently broke up over some confusing circumstances. Background : We had been together just over a year, I am 28 he is almost 24. After first meeting we were together practically 24/7 and we were very happy. 7 Months into the ...

What should I do about my drunken mistake?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

26 June 2011 (F) - Okay, so I don't really know how to explain this, so I'll just jump right in. About a week ago, I met the guy one of my friends is talking to. We all hung out with some of our other friends one night. Since me and the guy(let's call him Dave) w...

He doesn't trust me and I don't know what to do about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

26 June 2011 (F) - Ok, so I feel like I have a little dilemma here. My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year now. We have known who each other was for over 10 years now, but ran into each other again last year and started dating. We are both divorced, ...

He packed up and moved out without an explanation!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4903 days ago

26 June 2011 (F) - my boyfriend of almost 3 years packed up all his stuff and moved out while i was at work, then called me after he had already moved out, supposidly he is living with a guy from his work but he didn't really tell me much except that he loved me but ...

Could it be that alcohol makes his personality better?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

26 June 2011 (F) - I've heard women complain that when they're husbands drink they become obnoxious and abusive, but has anyone ever heard of alcohol actually making someone's personality better? My husband had to quit drinking 2 years ago for health reasons. He ...

Women only, I need your advice.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

25 June 2011 (F) - Hello ALL!! I need some help, this is aimed at women only!! A little advice would not go a miss. It's about the dreaded pubic hair...im a teenage girl and i choose to shave my pubic hair. However, i have never once been able to shave without ...

I want to lose weight but not become too thin. Any advice?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4903 days ago

25 June 2011 (F) - Sooo this isn't really a relationship question, but I just need some advice. I'm 5'3, I use to weigh 5 stone. I went to hospital and put on 4 stone, the medication I was on had a side affect of weight gain. Since then I've lost 1 stone; so I now ...

How do I help and support my wife now that she's confessed she was sexually abused but has not sought therapy? Do I insist she get therapy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4904 days ago

24 June 2011 (M) - My wife has always had issues with sex in our marriage. There were times when she enjoyed it, but never really any times when she really let go. For instance, she doesn't like oral sex (giving or receiving). She doesn't like to kiss very much. Sh...

My husband has just gone into a home and I am missing company from the opposite sex. Is it possible to have a male friend whilst being broken hearted over my husband?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4905 days ago

24 June 2011 (F) - I have just recently put my husband into a nursing home and i am just one year retired. I have been his advocate for various health issues for 15 yrs. (HE is 71 AND I AM 63) I AM in my early 60s not looking for a mate just get togethers with the ...

Is this marriage worth fighting for?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4905 days ago

23 June 2011 (M) - We're in our late 30s and we've been married for a decade. She was a little overweight then, and became moreso, and has now been (my best guess, she won't ever tell me real numbers) 90-100 lbs overweight for most of our marriage. It tears me apart...

My ex used to insult me and ridicule my body to such an extent, that its affecting me even now, in my present relationship.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4905 days ago

23 June 2011 (F) - In 2007 I met my ex, who I was with for 2 years. During the beginning/insanely happy stage of the relationship he was lovely, but then he started to really insult me; no violence at all, but he used to call me fat every day. I wasn't, I was a UK 14 ...

Am I sick or evil for wishing bad things for my ex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4906 days ago

22 June 2011 (M) - ok, I hate myself right now. my ex was manipulative and lied and was insensitive and we broke up and now i look at her facebook page and see she is having fun, traveling with some new guy in Florida. and i cannot help but wish her BAD. i am je...

Am I delusional and overreacting, or is my boyfriend treating me badly? What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4906 days ago

22 June 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years. We have an 8 year age gap and sometimes I feel like that makes me behave childishly. We met at work and clicked straight away. We have so much in common. We started dating and I had family problems...

I want to build muscle but everyone will make fun of me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4901 days ago

21 June 2011 (M) - I'm embarrassed even to ask this. I want to work out and build some muscle (I'm kinda weedy). But if I buy some weights and stuff for home I know family and mates will think its funny cos I'm the lanky one and the last person they would expect to ...

I stress about my stomach making noises in class! Is there any way to stop me worrying about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4906 days ago

21 June 2011 (M) - When the classroom gets quiet in school I tend to lose focus because I worry about my stomach making noises. I try not to but I get nervous and worry about when it quiet in the class. My stomach makes growling sounds because I worry about it so ...

What is the truth about aging men, and their sex drives?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4907 days ago

21 June 2011 (F) - There are so many confusion about middle age man. I would like to know what is the truth. All middle age man have some change in their sex drive, and general sexual function, or there are man, who are not affected at all? They talk about man, who ...

I'm not sure myself how I feel about this yet, as I'm in shock. Should I wait until I've worked out whether I wish to keep the possible baby before speaking to my bf?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4907 days ago

21 June 2011 (F) - Hey, I really need some advice...I'm 30, been with my bf for 9 months and love him dearly. We don't live together, but he's talked about wanting us to 'settle down', get married and start a family in the next couple of years, but today I took a ...

Someone told me I coudn't grieve about my miscarriage!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4907 days ago

21 June 2011 (F) - I had a miscarriage several months ago. It was an early miscarriage, I didn't know I was pregnant till it happened. I'm still young, only 18 nearly 19, and although I've been with my boyfriend a few years I would probably have had an abortion as ...

I have to stay away from my abusive boyfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4906 days ago

21 June 2011 (F) - I have to stay away from my abusive boyfriend. Why do I miss him? I hate him!! Why do I feel bad for him when I'm the one that got hurt? Has anyone been in this situation before....you know someone is no good for you but your sick twisted heart ...

Pot Head GF choosing weed over me. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

21 June 2011 (M) - ok so ive been going out with my girlfriend for about 5 months now. she has a problem with smoking weed. it is to the point of addiction and don't tell me otherwise because ive seen it ruin peoples lives. i have talked to her three times about this ...

Is this normal or is something wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4907 days ago

20 June 2011 (F) - hello i need a quick help plz i had my period on the 8th june 2011 which lasted up to a week and then i had unprotected sex with my boyfriend but the next day i took the morning after pill and after 6 days of taking the pill i woke up with hea...

Will I be able to choose what contraceptive pill I go on when I visit the doctors?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4908 days ago

20 June 2011 (F) - Hello all, just a small question here, I am going the doctors tomorrow to ask to go on the contraceptive pill, and I was wondering how it works.. Do I get a choice of which contraceptive pill I get to take? Or will they just prescribe me a certain ...

He hoards things for too long. What can I do to encourage him to have clean out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4908 days ago

19 June 2011 (F) - HI there guys, May I ask you something? I really need your thoughts about this situation I am in. I am married to a man far more older than I am, a 20-year gap. We've been married for almost 2 years now. He has a lot of things in his house that he ...

How do I get over my ex? I'm struggling to do that. Still hurt and seething inside.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4908 days ago

19 June 2011 (F) - I am struggling to get over my ex, we were together over 2 years. He squashed my self worth and lied so much that in the end I had no choice but to leave. The problem is I am extremely bitter! I'm full of anger, hurt and sadness when I think ab...

I want to keep the baby but he wants an abortion!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4906 days ago

19 June 2011 (F) - Hello readers... I've recently found out that I am pregnant. I'm thrilled but really hurt at the same time. The father on the other hand is upset and want me to have an abortion. BIG PROBLEM, because I don't want to. I just don't understand how he ...