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Health: Help and advice

About to have my period, but still want to make HIM happy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - This is going to sound weird. But im supposed to be going to my boyfriends tomorrow for the weekend. And i was not expecting my period until the 11th...So i was wonderin.. 1. What ways can i please my boyfriend, while im on my period? 2. (for g...

I wonder what's causing this ?.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5689 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - Last week,my period was really heavy for the first couple of days,then for the last three days there was a little bit of blood,then it stopped abit,then there was just abit of blood again.And during the first couple of days,i noticed blood on the ...

I took the morning after pill

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - I took the morning after pill on the third day of my period. Is it normal for a heavy period that usually lasts for around 5 days to completely disappear after taking the morning after on the third day?...

What would happen if I went on a water-only diet?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - hey all. i hear that starving yourself makes u only lose water so what i want to know is what happens if i go on a water-only-diet? wil i lose the kilos? im 90kgs and i wud like to be 50 by the end of may. please help...

My daughter is taking drugs how can I help her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - Hi i dont know if any of you will be able to help me with a problem i have with my daughter here goes. A few weeks ago my daughter went away for the week end and she was not back in time for the baby sitter to go to her exam they spoke on the pho...

Looking for the best female gyneacologist!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - I would like to see a female gyneancologist. but i dont where can i get one. im living in johannesburg,gauteng. i found one at lenmed clinic at lenesia but i dont know if shes the best!...

Experiencing an abnormal amount of discharge and pain during sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5690 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - Hi im a 19 year old student. im dating a 20 year old student. im having this problem...im having an abnormal disharge at the moment and i experience pain during sexual intercourse. after sexual intercourse i feel pain inside my vagina and its ...

Is light bleeding normal while on the pill?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - I'm on birth control and just started taking it two weeks ago. Is it normal to have light bleeding throughout the month(not on your period.) But just bleeding through the month when you're on birth control? Like I said, I just started it two weeks ...

What is this lump? Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - hello I feel quite embarrassed asking this question and I understand that you aunts are not doctors but I would like some advice. Well... just above my clit there is this small lump and I know it isn't a spot, I do shave and haven't yet come across ...

Is it normal to bleed the second time too?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - Ok so I already had sex for the first time and it hurt so bad lol...but why did the second time hurt and I bled a little my second time too.. is this normal??...

Homeless and depressed, how can I improve my lot in life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

29 April 2009 (M) - Hi everyine my name is Paul and ive been going through alot lately. Im not sure what to do. Right now im staying at a homeless shelter and im trying to get back on my feet. Its like i keep getting knocked down for some reason. I was currently ...

How do I tell my dad I'm pregnant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - I have to tell my dad i'm pregnant tonight, and I havn't got a clue how to start the conversation. How would you react if your 17 year old daughter told you she was pregnant? I took precautions, and still ended up in this situation, so i'm hoping ...

I cant get this girl out of my head....Am I just feeling rejected or is this something more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5689 days ago

29 April 2009 (M) - Right... now I can't get this girl out of my head. We met about a year ago, I was going to the pub she worked at to see a friend play guitar. The first night I saw her I’d mentioned to a mate that I thought she was hot and that I was going to h...

Lied to him about smoking and now he doesn't trust me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - when I met my boyfriend we were both smoking until I fell pregnant and decided to stop for my babies sake. a year ago my Mom passed away and the stress made me start again, I have have been smoking for a year now, lied to my boyfriend that I have ...

Recently self conscious about my labia

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - I'm a female in my late 30s who has recently noticed that my labia looks different from others in adult movies or pictures. My lips hang down a bit. I'm not tight like those I've seen in pictures. Before someone asks if it's from excessive use ...

Could I get pregnant after only 1 depo shot?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - I just took my first depo in January and I'm do today for my next. If I had sex yesterday is there a chance I could be pregnant?...

I think my dad self-harms, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - Okay, well I'm 18 and recently I caught a glimpse of my dads arms while he was playing with my younger sister and I saw self-harm marks. I know that they're self inflicted because I used to self-harm when I was younger and they look the same as ...

All I wanted was to be loved and so I let him use me, any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5691 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - Ive stupidly let my ex boyfriend use me for the last six months! Ive being so silly and and fool. Ive been so in love with him ive let him do whatever he wanted so i was afraid of losing him. We spilt cos he wouldnt give me commitment. We were ...

Breast pain...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - Hi everyone. I have a REALLY bad pain in my breasts. I have had it for 2 weeks. The nipples are really sore, and if I havent got a bra on the pain is just terrible. Any advice? Does anybody know what it could be? Thanks x...

What is this milky liquid? Is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm married since a year. we have great sex and love life. My question is.... while Im in climax though my breast some milky liquid comes out. Is it normal or what?? we do not have children yet and Im not pregnant. Please advise thanks....

He was caught with drugs that were not his.....now he thinks he doesn't deserve to be with me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5692 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - Well, I met a really nice guy. He makes me feel almost invincible it seems. Treats me better than anyone could dream of. But before we met he got in a little bit of trouble on his birthday. He was caught with some pills that weren't his.. I met ...

I've told him no more female friends

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - I have been with my partner for almost 15 years, we were both quite young when we men 18/20. I was his first sexual partner. All couples have ups and downs, we have managed to get through most problems. Of course the usual things bother me althou...

I don't want my fiance to have a stripper!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - I'm engaged to my partner (we have been together several years), and he said the only reason he won't be having a stripper on his stag night is because i'm really paranoid (I have a mental illness). So, I said that I thought he was doing it to ...

Excess skin "down there"..normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5692 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - Hi, quick question...apologise if it seems strange to some people. I was self pleasuring this morning and noticed a bud of excess skin between my vagina and anal hole. Is this normal? Ive tried to google it but havent found any information. Im ...

I don't want to get depressed again..pregnant and can't take certain medicines..help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - Hey I sort of have a problem I think. I have been diagnosed with bipolar disorder and borderline personality disorder. Apparently you can't have a personality disorder without being bipolar, but you can be bipolar without a personality disorder. ...

I feel rejected and am getting really depressed about it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5692 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - This probably sounds really stupid. But, I feel really rejected. I feel like nobody evr wants me around, and that everyone is always plotting against me, and giving me bad school marks on purpose, because they don't like me. I don't really get on w...

He's my best friend but he never talks to me about my depression

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - Okay, so at the moment I'm just about to finish counselling for depression. Personally I don't think I'm ready to be through with it, but my counsellor knows best. I suppose. I've been having a hard time at the moment coping, naturally my close ...

Was supposed to be moving right after surgery, but it's been four days ...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5692 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - i know i should be checking with my doctor but i just wanted to see if i could get any advice here first, make sure i'm not panicking too much, and you guys and gals seem to be fabulous at common sense and life experience...i had an operation on my ...

Broke up and I just don't know what to do..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5693 days ago

26 April 2009 (F) - Okay... Sorry this is so long. The boy i posted about on 30th March, he broke up with me about three weeks ago, and when i asked why i got this reply: ------------------------------------------------------- Him: riiiighht.. look tas...

I hate my body makes me feel bad about having sex

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

26 April 2009 (F) - Hello. I feel so stupid. I hate my body, and my looks. Let's just say I've never been the pretty one. No men ever flirt with or hit on me. This has caused me several self image issues. I hate porn and media images, etc. I feel so ugly when I see ...

STD tests.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5693 days ago

26 April 2009 (F) - I just found out my bf never got tested for STD's, so i told him he has to - since we are a little -active- and we are going together, i have no idea how these tests go or how it is done i mean do they take blood ! or just examination or what !! and ...

Mental illness/trust issues

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5693 days ago

26 April 2009 (F) - I am looking for advice on what to do about a relationship which seems to have become very complicated due to mental illness/trust issues. The main thing is that I love him a lot and it would have been 8 years together this year and to me it see...

Advice on cleaning up the bikini line?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5693 days ago

26 April 2009 (F) - I just wanted some advice on removing hair from the bikini line, cause its really affecting my self confidence at pools and stuff. Ive tried shaving my bikini line but it gets red and bumpy where i have shaved. Going to a professional place isn't re...

Did I bleed because I'm on birth control?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5694 days ago

26 April 2009 (F) - I started taking birth control pills about 2 weeks ago. I had my period the first week and ended after about 5 days. But today when I went to the bathroom, there was some blood. Not heavy, but light blood. Could this be because of the birth control? ...

Discharge problems for about 3 years..help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

25 April 2009 (F) - Sorry this is a health question, I do not know where else to ask. I have a discharge problem. It's been there for about three years now and is becoming very stressful. My discharge is extremely pasty and white. I know it is not normal. It does...

Do I need to go to the doctor?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

25 April 2009 (F) - I am/was pregnant for about 3-4 weeks. I began heavily bleeding and I had a miscarriage. Do I have to go to the doctor, cause I haven't been yet? I really don't want to. And how do i tell my bf?...

I masturbate much less often since I turned 20, is this weird?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5692 days ago

25 April 2009 (M) - why is it that when i was in my teens, i would masturbate at least once a day and now at 20 years of age, i don't as much? now i do it at least once a week instead of once a day? what is up with that? i just don't get that feeling to do it ever ...

I feel so lost, and it feels like my life is a mess. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

25 April 2009 (F) - hey to the person reading this, i need some advice and hope you can help once i get this off my chest as this place has been helpful in the past.. okay, so up until last year i was a happy, confident girl. yes i had things i didnt like about mysel...

What will happen when I go to get tested for STDs?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

25 April 2009 (F) - hey i'm now sexually active i want to go to a sexual health clinic and get a check up to see if i have any sexually transmitted diseases. but i havn't yet as i am worried about what they do! I am a female. What do they do? is it like a vaginal...

Strange period?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

25 April 2009 (F) - For the past week or so I have been experiencing mild cramping in my abdomen. I also feel twinges / pulling sensations in my pelvic area. While walking down the stairs one night I felt something pulling on the right side of my pelvis for just a ...

Has anyone heard of andropause?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5693 days ago

25 April 2009 (M) - Does everybody heard of andropause?That man over 40 gets like a male menopause? Or is this just a mYth? I heard many doctors don't believe it. DO any of you have any experince with this? That man stop having sex drive, have hot flushes. How come ...

I get majorly sore from sex

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24 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of almost 4 years and I have a great sex life, and honestly, we both like it a little rough. Nothing like whipping or biting or the like. Just HARD. Sometimes after a good romp, he will want to go again later in the day or the next day. ...

Still bleeding after smear test!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5693 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - hiii im 20 today i had my smear test. i was really worried about it. i'm still bleeding down there is that normal? i am starting to worry about it. someone please help and give me advice i am really worried. Thanks :)...

I just want this horrible pain gone and my friend back. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - One of my best friends hates me! It started yesterday, after we had athletics, and he was taking the mickey out of my running. I got really annoyed so I lightly kicked him. He was laughing at the time, but I was still really annoyed. Then, after lu...

I'm a man and I get really wet. Is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

24 April 2009 (M) - Before I start, apologies if this question has already been asked, but I couldn't find it. I've recently turned 20 and I'm not a very sexually active person. I've only ever had sex once, when I was a lot younger, so I didn't really think abo...

He is addicted to drugs but I still fancy him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - Hello, I have posted a similar question asking for advice but this is what has been happening lately. Please feel free to read and tell me what your honest advice is because I am stuck and soon I don’t know what to do. Thank you. How...

Can Ibuprofen stop your period for a few hours?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

24 April 2009 (?) - I have a question.. Im on my period.. and my parents are traveling for the weekend.. so I guess you all by now have guessed where this is going for.. I have heard that Ibuprofen can stop your period for a few hours. is this true? if so how doe...

Pregnancy test came back negative but still showing some symptoms!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - im really confused. in march i saw my period on the 3rd but had unprotecetd sex on the 13th for the first time in my life and on the 15th. my period came in on the 2nd of april immediately after i took the urine pregnancy test which came out ...

Unusual armpit fetish!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

24 April 2009 (M) - About 9 months ago when I woke up in the morning my face was buried in my wifes armpit.I loved it since then I do it everyday.why do I do it or is this normal...

The thought of sex really worries me now because I was scared to say no to my former boyfriends! Please advise.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - Okay so i am not a virgin. I lost my viginity at 13 (young i know). I have had sexual partners and i felt alot of pressure when it came to sex. My first sexual partner wasn't my B/F he was just a friend. We was going to have sex but i said no an...