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writes:why is it that when i was in my teens, i would masturbate at least once a day and now at 20 years of age, i don't as much? now i do it at least once a week instead of once a day? what is up with that? i just don't get that feeling to do it ever since i turned 20. Nothing really turns me on anymore! it's weird and i am a tad depressed. perhaps that has something to do with it? advice please?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2009): There is not a thing to worry about, I'm confident there is nothing wrong with your body, from my own experiences there can be any number of factors that would cause this. Jobs, school, hobbies, even having a crush on someone can hamper your drive because unconsciously you don't want to think about them in that manner or your want to save yourself for them. Or maybe its because there simply isn't enough time to enjoy it. That is not to say I disagree with what other people have said, they are all likely solutions to your problem! My recommendations for when you are "down" is to go exercise and engage yourself in a risky sport, like football, lacrosse, rugby, etc. The extra stamina and adrenaline may send your body into a frenzy
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2009): So you are depressed bound to hit you were it hurts (in the nuts) amoungst other things. I would say this is natural and nothing to worry about. Sort your depression and things will get better.
I know this is a curved ball but what is your diet like? Eat well, Go eat lots of veg, fruit and vitamins (take a multivitamin for a few days and see if it helps) - they will all lift you. If you are lifted and full of energy then guess what other part of your anatomy is also lifted...not only that but you will feel better.
Star.x.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2009): Thats exactly the same as me!! Only Im Female..lol..Ive been worried theres something wrong with me too because nothing seems to turn me on that much anywmore..but i think Samantha is right..after 20 all our crazy hormones settle down and we then find out wether we have a naturally high/low sex drive. I think mine is naturally low, and unfortunatlly my partner has a high sex drive which cause arguments alot of the time.I think if your feeling sligtly low/depressed tho maybe see a doctor about that or talk to someone as its not healthy to keep things botttled up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2009): Wait until you are over 50 - you probably won't bother at all and prefer to play golf instead!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2009): If you are feeling a bit low, then that will most probably have something to do with it. It could also be that, now you are a bit older, the crazy hormones that go wild when you are a teenager have calmed down! Or, you just might naturally be the way you are. Everyone is different when it comes to these things, and I don't think there is a "normal" way to be, it varies from person to person.
If you are feeling very low though, then it might be good to tell someone how you feel, so you are not alone, and so you can be helped and supported.
Hope this helps.
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