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writes:I am/was pregnant for about 3-4 weeks. I began heavily bleeding and I had a miscarriage. Do I have to go to the doctor, cause I haven't been yet? I really don't want to. And how do i tell my bf? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2009): You said that you started having heavy bleeding. OK, but how can you be certain that you had a miscarriage? Did you see any evidence of that, or did you just see blood? Bleeding in pregnancy is of course abnormal, but does not always mean that you miscarried. You would need an internal scan to confirm that the pregnancy ended.
Some woman have bleeding in pregnancy, even heavy bleeding and still carry their babies to term. I would suggest that you contact your doctor as soon as possible. Good luck.
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reader, xxkissxx  +, writes (25 April 2009):
hey hunni, u need to question yourself then is he good enough 4 u, because u need support at times like these, what will he be like when something does happen xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks everyone. I told him today and he doesn't seem to be very supporting. But whatever he'll come around. I've kinda been laying around all day and not feeling good, so i'm getting back off thanks, XX
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reader, xxkissxx +, writes (25 April 2009):
im really sorry to hear about your terrible loss, make an appointment with a doctor just to check things through just to be on the safe side, i also advise u talk to your bf because he can help you thriugh this terrible time, you can help eacother and you both will get stronger xx
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (25 April 2009):
 I am very sorry you had a miscarriage, I have suffered two and totally understand that your hormones are probably all over the place right now! Generally there is no need to go to your doctor unless you have signs of an infection (on-going pains, discharge etc). It may well take a while for your body to get back to normal. Next time you do see your doctor you may wish to mention what has happened. If you have recurrent miscarriages then you would need to be investigated for reasons why this is happening. In my case I have medical conditions which make pregnancy difficult - but obviously not impossible as I have a son! I didn't see a doctor the second time I miscarried because I knew what was happening and didn't feel the need for intervention.
I would say you need to tell your boyfriend what has happened. If the pregnancy was unplanned then you both need to discuss contraception.
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