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Archived questions from: July, 2012 (see latest in Gay relationships category)

Gay relationships: Help and advice

If I don't fall in love with a girl does that mean I'm gay?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4526 days ago

30 July 2012 (M) - hello there guys im so confused right now because i recently liked a girl and then just stopped suddenly. this is not my problem. my problem is that now im starting to think i will never fall in love with a girl and i really want to and have chi...

She's not sure what she is and I never experienced that, how can I help her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

30 July 2012 (F) - I have recently met this girl in the past few weeks where I have started to work, we've hit it off instantly exchanging numbers and emails etc. We have since been in contact constantly and a few comments she makes I did question whether or not she ...

We both love each other but I am jealous about the men he hooks up with!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4524 days ago

30 July 2012 (F) - I am 18 and have been seeing a boy on and off for well over 2 and a half years. We're both in love with each other but about 9 months ago I found out that he thinks he's bisexual. At first I was so shocked and thought he was jokin with me. We had a ...

Did he want a threesome or was he testing me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4519 days ago

30 July 2012 (F) - okay so when i was in high school sophmore year i kissed a girl just a peck it was like a dare and i never kissed a girl ever again so 2yrs. after i met my boyfriend i told him about it and now 4yrs that we have been togeather he asked me ...

I like him but am unsure if he's gay and wonder if I'm misreading his body language?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4494 days ago

30 July 2012 (M) - I'm unsure if this guy in my welsh class likes me, the truth is I'm 15 and Gay nobody knows so it makes it harder for me to be able to bite the bullet with this situation. I think he's rather good looking and I've always seemed to talk to him with...

I don't see myself as bisexual, and I don't want to have a relationship with a woman, I just want to have a sexual experience with a woman.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

29 July 2012 (F) - I'm currently in a very happy, fairly long term relationship with a man, but I can't get the fantasy of sex with a woman out of my head. I dont see myself as bisexual, and I dont want to have a relationship with a woman, I just want to have a sexual ...

Should I pursue an online relationship with him? Not sure what to do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4527 days ago

28 July 2012 (M) - My problem isn't really directed at one person although there is a person at the minute. Sometimes, I want to be in a relationship and I see the benefits, but some times I just like being single and don't have the energy to put effort into it. I'...

Questioning My sexuallity for Years? How can I Know? If I have never been with a girl?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4472 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - I'm a 20 year old girl. From My Childhood even until now I have really only had a couple male friends and even. Now it's pretty safe to say I don't have any (that are close to me anyway) I remember having crushes on only guys until I was 13 and h...

Should I have my first homosexual encounter with this woman?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - Hey everyone I am 23 years old,and I would say for the past 4 years I'v been bicuruious and I would really want to know how it is to be with a girl..I don't know if I can go all the way and have sex but I think just first base to see what I feel ...

I think my husband had gay sex with our dinner guest!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - I have a bigger problem than my last one now! I think my husband of 4 years is having a gay affair! Ive talked to him, but to no avail, we just end up arguing, let me start from the beginning, 3 weeks ago, he kept making excuses to go out, 2 weeks ...

Girls who like girls. what are the main attributes that attract you to girls?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

25 July 2012 (F) - Girlies question time...........! Based on personal experiences, have you always had an idea you were a lesbian? I mean I have always known, I didn't go through a teenage curious stage I just took mine with the flow. I just wondered whether you'...

My friend hit on me and now she's angry because I rebuffed her advance!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

24 July 2012 (F) - is she still angry cuz she still has heavy feelings for me and she knows she'll never have me in the manner that she wants me, otherwise i dont know why she wont speak too me. i had this friend who came out the closet...that didn't bother me...

Is this man too old for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4494 days ago

23 July 2012 (M) - I'm 18 years old gay guy and I've something like a question about situation in my life. I'm receiving attention from a man who's much older than me. He's 32, actually very handsome and he does all he can to get my attention. Several times he has ...

He knew I had feelings for him and I"m the only one he's told that he's gay. It hurts being friends with him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

22 July 2012 (F) - I have been in a very difficult situation lately. I met this guy almost two years ago and almost immediately we were in contact every day. It wasnt long before I developed really strong feelings for him, to be honest I thought I had finally met the ...

My partner cheated and says he doesn't know why but it was 4 different times!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4494 days ago

18 July 2012 (M) - Ok so here goes...After 9 years together and nearly two years Married, My partner has had a so called affair. I found out in June that he met another guy from an IPHONE app called Grindr, and this fella he met came into our home on 3 occasion...

Please help, I'm in a love triangle and don't know what to do!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

18 July 2012 (F) - Hi i am 23 years old and im Bisexual and im a relationship with a Girl but she has a husband she has a girl and a guy and i cant quit cheating on her cause i feel left out shes got both and i only have one i dont think its fair please tell me what i ...

My first lesbian relationship. Am I missing something, because now she does not seem as interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4537 days ago

17 July 2012 (F) - I got involved with a female/lesbian. It has only been 2 weeks and we just spent our first weekend together and we had intimacy. This happened just last weekend, and now I kind of feel that things are a little different between us; maybe it's jus...

Is to okay to experiment with girls?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

13 July 2012 (F) - Hey everyone, I am 23 years old,lately I have been very curious about having a sex with a girl..is it because I want to experiment or I'm just curious or bisexual I don't know.. I have never kissed or made out or even done it with the girl,but bef...

After being married 16 years I wonder what it would be like to be with a woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

13 July 2012 (F) - I think I'm bisexual not really sure I've been married for 16 years and I have a pretty good marriage bit I have always wondered what.it would be like to be with a woman ...

Should I just stop talking to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

12 July 2012 (M) - Well, I'm a 17 year-old whom has been talking to a 20 year-old man. He's openly gay, trying to break stereotypes associated with gays, which really inspires me, and I really like him. I felt like we really connected with eachother, we both have ...

What can I do to make myself less upset about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

12 July 2012 (F) - I started dating my best friend (of three years) two weeks ago. She is currently in a different state and has been gone for a month. I have seen her once in the month, and I think not being able to see her more often is causing me to become ...

How do I tell my gay friend I like him as more than a friend without ruining our friendship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

11 July 2012 (F) - i have a gay friend who is a boy how do i tell him i like more than a friend without destroying the friendship we have at the moment?...

I'm having strange fantasies about my female friend....what does this mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

11 July 2012 (F) - Im gonna try to be as short as possible. To be honest i never thought i wud ever fall in love with a girl. Since my childhood ive always loved boys and never a girl. I just realised yesterday when this friend of mine (girl) came to my house party, ...

Why won't she look me in the eye?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

11 July 2012 (F) - What is under the surface? There is a girl that crossed my path a few months ago. She randomly got my number and started texting me. After awhile I found out she has a girl friend. We've never crossed any lines. No flirting which is odd for...

Our parents don't know about each other yet, what excuse can we use for him to come and visit me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4546 days ago

10 July 2012 (M) - I finally got a good boyfriend but the problem is he lives 1 state away. We need an excuse for him to come down when he gets his licence to be with me on the weekends and a place to stay. Our parents dont know about us yet so it kind of complicated...

How can I find out if he'd like to go for a drink with me, I don't even know whether or not he's gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4494 days ago

9 July 2012 (M) - OK. This might sound comparatively trivial in light of some other posts, and perhaps a bit of a cliche as well. Anyway. There's a guy in a shop in my town. He's very attractive, has a great smile... you know the thing. I've been in there severa...

Why does he want to keep sabotaging my healthy lifestyle?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4494 days ago

9 July 2012 (M) - I am trying to lose weight. I am not huge at all, but I am too big for my frame and would feel more confident if I lost weight. I also can’t eat a lot of sugary things as they make me feel ill and give me bad skin. My boyfriend knows this, ...

I think I'm bi-sexual but I'm not sure what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4547 days ago

9 July 2012 (F) - Ever since I was little I've always liked boys but there's also something that has made me admire some women more than normal. When I was 6-7 there was a female teacher that I really admired (though at that age I doubt it meant anything) but there ...

Is he attracted to me or am I looking too hard?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4545 days ago

9 July 2012 (M) - Dear agony aunts/uncles, I am into guys but only one person knows (I'm in my final year high school and living with my parents). He is one of my best friends and I have a crush on him, lets call him Bob. I have never told him that I like him beyon...

My best friend and I have admitted to being attracted to one another

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4547 days ago

9 July 2012 (F) - One of my best friends and I admitted an attraction to each other one night, we are both girls and her dad is completely homophobic. She led me on to think she wanted a relationship and we kissed. she broke it off 2 days later at school. about ...

Can anybody find me...somebody to love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

8 July 2012 (F) - I am a twenty seven year old lesbian. And still a virgin. I feel ashamed by this. I'm kinda shy and insecure, because I don't look like some of the lesbians that I see around where I live. It's depressing me, and I want to know if there are any...

I'm on my own, sulking in depression and loneliness

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4547 days ago

8 July 2012 (M) - How do I deal with being alone? I've been alone all my life and I fear I'll always will be. I'm a closeted gay 17 year old boy who's never been in a relationship, never had a first kiss. I feel like I'm so far behind everyone else. I have so much ...

I work with her, she has a GF and she's not my type. So how can I get over my Crushing for this girl?.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

6 July 2012 (F) - Ok so, I'm tired of analyzing this situation myself so I am reaching out for advice. I started a new position about 6 months ago and there is this girl at work who I knew was a lesbian but seemed disinterested in getting to know me, so I never b...

Can someone please define what typifies a bi-sexual girl? I just don't know if I am bisexual

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

6 July 2012 (F) - Okay so I'm 20 years old and I'm in need of help in defining if bisexual, I've been thinking about this for a while now I'm in a 4year relationship with my bf, I've never been with a women in my life but, I get turned on mor by like women than men...

My girlfriend and I want to adopt, but friends and family are against gays' raising children. Advise please?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4549 days ago

6 July 2012 (F) - Hi Im a gay woman who is in a very healthy relationship of 3 years and recently I have became really broody and would like to adopt in the near future with my girlfriend, we have discussed children before and she also would like to have them one...

Don't want to drift apart from my straight colleague.Should I send her a letter to express my true feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4551 days ago

5 July 2012 (F) - I have started to develop feelings for a friend. This wouldnt seem so bad except i am a gay woman and she is 'straight' and has.a boyfriend. I explained to her soon into our friendship, after a few too many drinks thay i liked her and wanted t...

Am I gay? Going through a midlife crisis?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4555 days ago

1 July 2012 (F) - Hi, I am sort of involved with a lesbian. We first started flirting and texting; but we have kissed in several occasions now. We have expressed our feelings for each other and we are both strongly attractive to each other. She is very masculine, ...

He's denying anything happened. I know it did (just a little) . So should I just let this drop since he can't be honest with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4494 days ago

1 July 2012 (M) - Ive asked questions about my best mate a few times on this site and wondering if he is bisexual or gay and if i had a chance and up untill now nothing has really happened between us except some flirting.. If you havn't read i'll sum up... Basica...