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writes:Hey everyone,I am 23 years old,lately I have been very curious about having a sex with a girl..is it because I want to experiment or I'm just curious or bisexual I don't know..I have never kissed or made out or even done it with the girl,but before I settle and get married to a guy I would want to experiment!Is this wrong!I mean has anyone experimented??how was it?Do your regret it?or was it fun? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2012): Hey i'm 23 years old as well and yes i have tried it and i liked it and im still with her its been 2 years theres nothing wrong with it so if u wanna try it i say hey go for it
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2012): Hi,
I completely understand you... you're in your early 20s so now it's not just a phase, it's at least bi-curiousity.
If you feel emotionally and sexually attracted to women and feel the need to experiment with them, do. But as someone said earlier, be honest with yourself and other people. Is that what I want? Is it ok with her? Don't start anything misleading e.g. get involved and not say you're just interested in experiment/the physical. After all, you may find that the girl likes you and hopes to have a relationship with you etc.. Also, do not act on those feelings if you are already in a relationship, it'd be cheating. Now you're a free agent and the decision is yours. Good luck!
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reader, glcop  +, writes (14 July 2012):
You know...I don't want to sound like someone that's judging but experimentation only leads to confusion. You're 23 and sometimes you will get different thoughts about sexuality but if we act on every thought we have...we all would have penises in our butts, vaginas in our mouths, toes in our belly-buttons all day long(lol). Your mind and body are made for a good man.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2012): Its not wrong as such, I mean its not against the law or anything and if its what you want to do then you have the right as a free thinking spirit to do so.
You will probably only find out the meaning of your desire to do so, after you've done it (Hence why its a curiosity at the minute)
Just find a like minded person who is willing to experiment with you.
Try not to find someone who will take this too seriously and expect more from you, just in case it turns out to be a mistake.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (13 July 2012):
 It's OK to experiment, as long as you aren't cheating on anyone. If you are in a relationship already then it is not okay to experiment with other people, regardless of gender.
Try it out. I did. It's definitely something you should do before you settle down and marry, or else you'll always wonder and it'll always be on your mind. Try it out, so that you at least have that one experience to look back on. Live life with no regrets!
I'm bisexual, and I really enjoyed having sex with a girl the time I got to try it properly. I could definitely do it again, but even if I never do it again I now know what it is like.
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reader, BondGirl72 +, writes (13 July 2012):
 I agree with Sprite that having feelings or an attraction to both sexes is normal emotional and sexual growth. Of course I have thought about what it would be like to be with a woman, and I have even fantasized about it. I have just never wanted it in real life. So, I consider myself heterosexual. Whatever you decide to do, I agree that honesty is the best policy. You could have friends of both sexes fall for you and then you have to work out your emotions with them. Be honest and considerate when dealing with any sex.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (13 July 2012):
 Oh right, safe sex! Learn what you need to do to minimize your risk there! Good call, So Very Confused!
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reader, sprite  +, writes (13 July 2012):
When I was really young I had feelings for a woman too. I think it's all part of emotional growth. It could be that you are bisexual but later on you may find that you will only want to be with one sex or the other. Ask yourself who you would rather have sex with right now. Is it men or is it women? You need to be sure before you embark on a serious relationship.
It's not wrong to experiment as long as both parties know where they stand. It wouldn't be right if one partner wanted a serious relationship and the other was just experimenting as someone would get hurt.
As you get older you will probably sort things out in your own mind but in the meantime just have fun. Be kind to yourself and your friends.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (13 July 2012):
I don't think there's anything wrong in exploring your sexuality. You are in your mid-20s, you are an adult, you aren't dating or in a committed relationship, so why not see what happens?
The only thing I'd say is that you have to be honest with people. Don't lead anyone on, if you aren't interested and don't promise something you don't intend to deliver.
Good luck to you.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (13 July 2012):
 If you are interested and curious, it's not wrong.
I'm bisexual. Girl play is fun. I will miss it. I'm engaged now and cheating is cheating even if my guy says I can have a girl I won't do it.
If you are not attached and take the right precautions (meeting people, safe sex (dental dams) and such... then I say GO FOR IT
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