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writes:I think I'm bisexual not really sure I've been married for 16 years and I have a pretty good marriage bit I have always wondered what.it would be like to be with a woman Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (13 July 2012):
 have you talked to your spouse about it?
I'm bisexual. I am with a man now who would be fine with me having another woman for a sexual partner but I've opted not to do so since I do not want to give him the same option...
because if he says "yes you can have sex with another person" how can I deny him the same? I can't in my mind although there are plenty of folks out there that think that same sex behavior is acceptable but hetro sex is cheating...
double standard fully.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (13 July 2012):
 Hi there, I guess you have to decide how important exploring that aspect of your sexuality is now. Have you buried that part of you for this long? Was your husband aware of your bisexuality when you married him?
You say your marriage is "pretty good," which sounds like it's not all that great, actually. Is it possible that you are looking for ways to ignore the problems in the marriage and for some reason you have latched onto this? Or is it that your marriage is only "pretty good" because you have ignored or tried to block a fundamental aspect of yourself for all of your life?
Really, more info is needed to give you any guidance. All I can do is ask questions to help you figure it out for yourself.
Good luck.
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