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Archived questions from: June, 2008 (see latest in Gay relationships category)

Gay relationships: Help and advice

He says I'm the only one he's had sexual feelings over, but in reality he is not gay. I've fallen in love with him, now what?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5971 days ago

30 June 2008 (M) - Well I'm a 14 year old, gay guy and one of my best friends is 16 and doesnt exactly know his sexuality yet. Me and him have made out a lot and I've given him bj's (sorry 4 the tmi). He's told me that he's straight and that im the only one that he's ...

Could her actions mean she has feelings for me too even though she said otherwise?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5974 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - I have a crush on one of my friends and I told her the other day. She told me she didn't return the feelings but I wasn't expecting it because she had a boyfriend. I just wanted to get it off my chest because she's too good of a friend to keep ...

I'm confused as to whether I'm lesbian, bi or straight...what should I do??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - Hi, there is loads of questions on this subject. but i just want to ask my own question. i dont know if im a lesbain, Bi or straight. i have strong feelings for my english teacher and i find girls attractive in some ways but then other times i mi...

I self-identify as straight, so why do I have these urges?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

28 June 2008 (M) - I self-identify as straight because i have sexual feelings for girls and am repulsed be the idea of anal/oral/kissing a guy; however, I've been having sexual feelings for my MALE best friend Could this be just because of a dry spell relationship...

I think I might be gay - or psychologically disturbed

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

27 June 2008 (M) - Okay, so I think i may be gay. Gay porn really turns me on but I feel so gross. Its not because I'm gay, its because I fantasize about my highschool mates raping me. Is that wrong or are there others like me. And another question: how do I know if a ...

Does this mean he likes me? Or is he just being a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5992 days ago

26 June 2008 (M) - Ok there is this guy I like but I am not sure he likes me... Ok this guy says he is straight but... I catch him stareing at me all the time and we lock eyes.. He calls me or texts me every day.. He buys me gifts.. He checks on me t...

Am I an odd girl for not trying girl on girl sex at least once?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

25 June 2008 (F) - Am I odd? I`m a 28 year old girl and never experimented with girls. 80% of the straight girls I grew up with and girls in school and even married girls I know tried this at least once. I mean more than just kissing. Is this common for girls to try ...

I told her that anything could happen with me giving her a lift! Silence from her. I need feedback!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5990 days ago

25 June 2008 (?) - I asked your opinion before on this subject.. I thought I did well but guess what happen.Im in love w my best friend and we had kissed we spoke a bit about it and whe i asked if she was ok with it she hessitated and then said no...After that ...

I just kissed my best friend, who is also a girl! I'm really worried right now...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5983 days ago

25 June 2008 (F) - Hi, I have a little problem... I just kissed my best friend, who is a girl... and I'm really confused because i thought i liked boys but i'm not sure, and i know no one else saw, but i love my best friend like a sister but i don't know what to do no...

Any straight guys know what its like to give a blow job...?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1038 days ago

24 June 2008 (M) - does any curious straight male know what it feels like to suck a cock? Please tell me as I am interested in experimenting with my best mate....

Why do straight people develop romantic feelings for a friend of the same gender?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5992 days ago

24 June 2008 (M) - Does anyone have a psychological insight into why one can easily develop sexual/romantic feelings for a friend of your own gender even if you are usually straight? ...

I think my boyfriend may be gay !

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

24 June 2008 (F) - I think my boyfriend may be gay but I'm sure he would never tell me the truth if I asked. We have been together for almost 8 yrs. We were broke up for the good part of one year because he was arrested for threaten to kill me. He has since been ...

Might I be gay? AND my friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5978 days ago

23 June 2008 (M) - i'm a normal 15 year old boy , i am thinking that am gay but i dont know... i still like woman and everything but , the other day i was in my neighbor's house and i dont know how to tell.. but i think i like him, i was in his room playing wii when...

Do I act on these feelings for a male friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

22 June 2008 (M) - I self-identify as straight because i have sexual feelings for girls and am repulsed be the idea of anal/oral/kissing a guy; however, I've been having sexual feelings for my MALE best friend (wanting to rub cocks/jack him off). Could this be ...

Can a really straight guy be in love with me? I am a very discrete gay guy...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

21 June 2008 (M) - Can a str8 friend be really in love with his gay friend through their deep friendship? He say's he love me but I doubt it to be true. We have one of the greatest fight last night because we are arguing why I can't believe him saying that he loves ...

Should I trust him again after he vanished with no apparent reason?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5975 days ago

21 June 2008 (M) - me and a guy ive knew have just started "talking" but like a year ago we used to talk then and he must of just totally forgot, but yeah i went with the flow. last time we talked he blocked and deleted me with no reason what soever i tried calling ...

How can I tell if he's lying or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

21 June 2008 (M) - ive just started talking to this guy, he tells me that he has already gone off 2 other guys that he's known for months and is hooked on me. he's constantly busy with work its like a week job and only gets around 3 hours to talk. so yeah we t...

My female friend asked me out, but I'm not gay!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

21 June 2008 (F) - i think my best mate (whose also a girl) fancies me, shes asked me out but i dont feel the same way, and im not gay. help!...

Does this confession about his past mean my boyfriend is GAY?!?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2618 days ago

21 June 2008 (F) - Ive been going out with my boyfriend for a while and recently he just confessed something to me that hes never told anybody. When he was younger he had a gay friend (he didnt know he was gay). One night when he stayed the night at his friends house ...

How wet is normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

20 June 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm a 17 year old lesbian girl. And I am madly in love with my girlfriend. She's amazing and I can't wait to finaly make love with her. We talk about sex alot and tonight she asked me if the wetness I get in vagina is excessive or normal. I ...

Got dumped by my bf. Should I move on? It will be hard to find someone like him in the gay scene!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5997 days ago

19 June 2008 (M) - Its been 3 months my ex broke up with me. I still think about him EVERY day, i miss him a lot. We were a gay couple. Together for 10 months. Right after we broke up, i tried talking to him about we being a great couple, that we couldnt finish s...

First date with a woman... how is it different than a date with a man?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5997 days ago

19 June 2008 (?) - m going on a fisrt date with awoman and is also my first ime ever... is it just the same as being in a date with a man... or is just like going out with your own friends... ...

My wife has recently told me about her fantasies with another woman what do I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5991 days ago

19 June 2008 (M) - I am married, my wife has recently told me about her fantasies with another woman, and she has been sexually active with her. We have a very honest marriage and I appreciate this. I said I don’t mind and still don’t the, hole thing turns me on and ...

We are in love, but her mother won't allow it. help me out please!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5998 days ago

19 June 2008 (F) - I'm 15, and i'v fallen in love with my best friend. She loves me too, and we've been going out for 2 months now, but the problem is, when her mother found out, she freaked. My girlfriend isn't allowed to see me, but we go to the same school, so we ...

Question about how straight guys act...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

19 June 2008 (M) - Hey, Got a question about how str8 guys act. i`m a gay man , i`ve written before about this guy, but theres more unsure things about him , or maybe i`m just confused about how the str8 mind works lol this guy makes it clear that his girlfrie...

Is it possible for a 22 y/o 6'3" gorgeous Italian boy to be interested in a 38 y/o cauc. guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5999 days ago

18 June 2008 (M) - I am a bi-sexual guy. I am 38 y/o today. I met a 22 y/o guy several month's ago. He was a student of mine, he no longer is but he has kept in-touch with me. Even more recently, we seem to be spending a fair amount of time together and we are ...

Should I tell my divorcing friend that I love her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5999 days ago

18 June 2008 (F) - i need some help and i dont know who to turn to, so maybe y'all can help me. About 5 months ago i met the most incredible woman. We started talking and we just clicked. We both admitted we had feelings for each other but she is married. I told her ...

My boyfriend had a gay relationship. I have prayed and I have been patient but he won't open up to me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5999 days ago

18 June 2008 (F) - I am a woman in my 30's and I have been in a relationship for 4 years now. My boyfriend is 9 years younger than me which could have posed a problem but it hasn't. Anyway, a few years ago I was on my boyfriends computer do my school work and I ...

I'm the first guy he ever kissed but he does not accept his sexuality! Is it all worth it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5999 days ago

18 June 2008 (M) - I have been with a guy for 3 months now. I am gay and open, he is not. He is VERY straight and i'm the first guy he'd even kissed, let along slept with. He is 26 and i'm 23. He says that the way he feels at the moment he won't be telling anyone, ...

Should I risk telling my friend I love her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

16 June 2008 (F) - I've developed feelings for my straight friend, who's also a girl (S). She doesn't know this yet, but I want to tell her. I know that most teenagers go through this stage of sexuality confusion (we're both 15 in our last year of school), and it's ...

caught my boyfriend of two years cruising for sex at an adult book store. Plese advise!!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6000 days ago

16 June 2008 (M) - Last week I was coming home late from work, when I noticed my boyfriend's car parked outside an Adult Book Store- I knew immediately he was cruising for sex. I waited outside the store, and noticed him circling around the building looking for sex. ...

Have a crush on my best friend who treats me like dirt! Am I a lesbian?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5999 days ago

15 June 2008 (?) - I think I have a crush on my best friend. She treats my like total crap but theres something i really like about her when im all vulnerable, but i know that sometimes she makes me feel really bad about myself. is ther something wrong with me? i cant ...

Am I straight but curious or could I be gay? Please Help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6002 days ago

15 June 2008 (F) - Well.....I wanna straight to the point. I am in college now. I had been labeling myself as straight, but recently I have a strong feeling to my bbf. Yeah, we such a really good friends. I do love to be around her. She always makes me happy. We both ...

Could I be homosexual?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6003 days ago

15 June 2008 (M) - I am a 15 year old guy and I am in love with my neighbor he is also a 15 year old guy. When I masturbate I think about me and him having sex he is so beautiful. I only have one problem he is straight I am also straight but latey I see guys my age so ...

Am I bi or just confused and curious?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6002 days ago

15 June 2008 (F) - hey, i think i might be bi. you see i really really like guys but in the past year i have started getting turned on by girls (i am also a girl) but only certian girls like ones i have known for a while. an example is me and my bff (she is bi) i ha...

Should I meet this bi older girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6002 days ago

14 June 2008 (F) - i am a girl aged 19 and recently i met this girl through a site.she is 25 years old..and we talk a lot on msn..she has a boyfriend with whom she has a live in relationship but she is bisexual..we talk to each other a lot and now she wants to meet ...

Am I over emphasising the sex thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6003 days ago

14 June 2008 (M) - I've been seeing my boyfriend for 6 months now: we say we love eachother and I certainly want him, but he is not really into much physically. He is more wary than me about any public shows of affection (though with all respect to straight readers ...

I'm in a sexual relationship with my (step) brother! Is it love?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6001 days ago

14 June 2008 (M) - Hi. This is really awkward, but I don't have anyone else to ask. I am 16. My step-brother is 17. We have always been close, and have been raised as brothers since we were small. We started fooling around sexually about two years ago. At first, ...

I'm attracted to another woman! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6002 days ago

14 June 2008 (?) - I am a woman attracted to my female friend.We have kissed and when I asked her if it's OK she said no, but there was hesitation in her words as if she wanted to say yes. We still hang out,go to dinner, have drinks. We speak for hours and flirt. i...

Does this mean I'm a lesbian or Bi?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6005 days ago

12 June 2008 (F) - I'm 15 and i go to a all girls school, there is this one girl who has a really short hair cut and i thought was guy, and since she looks like a guy i can't help but get all nervous when i see her, i think i have a crush on her. Does that mean I'm ...

Is he gay? Am I wasting my time by marrying him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6001 days ago

11 June 2008 (F) - I've been with my fiance' for 2 years now. We got engaged this past November. When we met, we lived about 3 hours apart. We did the long distance relationship for 1 year, and then I moved in with him. We got engaged a few months later. ...

Are we both gay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6006 days ago

11 June 2008 (M) - Um...I have a question. I'm 13 and my friend [who is also a guy] and I have been doing some stuff. We got pretty close last time. We gave each other blow jobs and he licked my ass. Is this normal, or are we gay?...

Do you think I should speak to my boyfriend about my lesbian fantasy? He has suggested a FMF before...

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5970 days ago

11 June 2008 (F) - I really want to have a lesbian experience just to see if I am bi or not At the moment I'm with a wonderful guy but feel myself fantasising about women more and more. I've always felt this way really, when I was about 12 or 13 I used to play a g...

Forbidden love with my best friend! Any advise?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6007 days ago

11 June 2008 (F) - Im 16 and Ive had a boyfriend for 5 months now.I dont believe i understand the full meaning of love at this young age so i think its fair to say im not 'in love' but i do have alot of feelings for him.he is always on my mind and he makes me tingle ...

How do we fix something that apparently isn't broken?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6006 days ago

10 June 2008 (M) - right, so my boyfriend has told me that he isn't sure if he loves me anymore. he says that i am the perfect boyfriend, and i have done nothing wrong, and that i do everything right. but still he says that there is a problem, but he says he doesn't ...

How should I deal with this very puzzling girl who has stood me up again and again? I think I'll be seeing her soon as she's on an event list for the company I work for!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6007 days ago

9 June 2008 (F) - OK I really really need advice on how to deal with a tricky situation!!! There is a girl who knew friends of mine and saw me out, she found me on myspace and started emailing me. Apparently I have been told I look like Anjelina Jolie (supposedl...

Is this love or just a crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6008 days ago

9 June 2008 (F) - I love this girl so much!!!!!! Ive had a crush on her for over a year now, and i think its real love. Im pretty sure she like me too cuz i always catch her starring at me and turns away quickly when i catch her with a smile on her face. I was ...

He behaves strangely...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6009 days ago

8 June 2008 (F) - IS MY GUY BISEXUAL OR GAY ? Dear friends, Please advise whether the following hints would make my 20 years senior guy a bisexual: 1. He stopped having sex with his ex wife, when she asked to have sex with him one night, but "he was too exh...

Can this feeling last forever?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6010 days ago

7 June 2008 (F) - I have always thought that marriage is a really bad idea. I mean, almost every couple I know is just a disaster. Nothing ever seems to last - and personally, I know myself, and I know how impatient I am. I'm not made for it. But now I'm hopeless...

Is he gay or just afraid of me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6010 days ago

7 June 2008 (F) - I apologize in advance for this being so long. I am in love with a boy I met in college, and as a result of his behavior towards me I am physically ill. I cannot sleep because I have nightmares of him leaving me, I cannot eat, I cannot function. I ...