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writes: i am a girl aged 19 and recently i met this girl through a site.she is 25 years old..and we talk a lot on msn..she has a boyfriend with whom she has a live in relationship but she is bisexual..we talk to each other a lot and now she wants to meet me..we have exchanged pictures and spoken to each other..do u think its a good idea to meet her..because this is my first time i have never been with the girl before..so should i proceed???
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok thanks a lot emily!!
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (15 June 2008):
Well you don't have to tell them she's a girl, or you could just say you are meeting as friends, but make sure you have someone looking out for you. Better safe than sorry!
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionoh my god i havent thought about all these facts at all lol..i dont know what to do..i cant tell my friends because they dont know that i am bi..
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (15 June 2008):
Well follow the usual rules of meeting internet people. Do it in a public place and tell friends or someone where you are going and tell them you will text them every now and then to show you are not kidnapped / murdered.
You aren't a little girl meeting a strange older man, but at the same time you need to be careful. You don't know this girl, she might be lying about the fact she's in an open relationship. She might want her boyfriend to be involved. She might be a serial killer.
If you want to meet her then go for it but go with a suspicious mind.
If you only want to go so you can try stuff with a girl then I suggest going to gay bars or groups so you can meet people that way and flirt and snog and get to know girls that way.
Be safe!
Good Luck!! xx
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