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anonymous
writes:I'm 15 and i go to a all girls school, there is this one girl who has a really short hair cut and i thought was guy, and since she looks like a guy i can't help but get all nervous when i see her, i think i have a crush on her. Does that mean I'm lesbian?, or Bi?
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reader, britney spears  +, writes (13 June 2008):
 NO! i have had this happen to me before! it jus means ur r very attracted to pretty boy types! but u know if u like girls or guys so its ok
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reader, deejuliet +, writes (12 June 2008):
 I think that the fact that she looks like a guy is the reason you are feeling this way. You are in an all girl situation with no guys there to direct romatic attentions toward. Here is the only person that, at least physically, resembles a guy, so of course you have some attraction to her. This is just because there is no one else to be attracted to. Dont worry about it too much.
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reader, Madam Taylor  +, writes (12 June 2008):
I agree with the others, your feelings are very normal, at your age it is all about experimintation, the only way you will ever find out what you really like in life. Fantasise away just remember some faantasy is meant to stay fantasy we cant have all the things we wish for. Follow your gut if you feel good inside about it then go for it.
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reader, Uncle Sneaker  +, writes (12 June 2008):
 No, no and no.
It doesn't mean you are lesbian or bi. It doesn't mean you are not lesbian or bi. It simply means that at this particular time you find that particular person particularly desirable.
At 15 your sexuality may not be fully developed anyway. You are probably still changing, and sexual emotions are still relatively new to you.
Don't rush to decide on your sexuality - or, a least, don't rush to put a label on it. Explore your feelings and emotions. The more you let your desires form fantasies you play out in your head, the better your understanding of your sexuality becomes.
Take your time. Enjoy finding out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2008): No course not i belive most girls have the same type of problem as you, so you will grow out of it hope that helps
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