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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hey, i think i might be bi. you see i really really like guys but in the past year i have started getting turned on by girls (i am also a girl) but only certian girls like ones i have known for a while. an example is me and my bff (she is bi) i have known her for about 8 and a half years and have always played around like to show off infront of a couple guys (before she came out) but then when i found out she was i kinda started thinking about if i was and i thaught i was at the time so i told her that i am too. well this made our friendship very interesting. now we play around but insted of doing it for attention from guys we do it because we want to. then theres another girl who is nothing like me and my bff because she doesnt know i might be bi but shes lezbo and i know for a fact she has a huge crush on me....but i dont want to act on that because in joco (abv. for my county) being gay in anyway is frowned apon big time! so what i want to know is that just because i play around with my bff and think my other friend whos a girl is attractive and all...does it mean i am bisexual?
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reader, Uncle Sneaker  +, writes (15 June 2008):
 There are dozens of similar questions here - and I've answered several of them, so I'll give you the abbreviated version:
Your sexuality is changing at your age. Wait a bit before you "label" it. No rush.
Experiment, a little. Not too much.
Explore your feelings. Enjoy them. Don't worry about them.
Never, ever, try to deny to yourself what you feel because you are worried what someone else might think. Your sexuality is your business not anyone else's. You have no obligation to make it public whatever it is. It's your choice.
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reader, supermum +, writes (15 June 2008):
 You need to look at yourself.... you are really young and could be going through an experimental faze, which there is nothing wrong with.
give it some time, and accept your feelings and try not to worry too much
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