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Archived questions from: December, 2011 (see latest in Friends category)

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How do girls really feel about shy boys?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4697 days ago

31 December 2011 (M) - Girls tell me that they love me but they say that's as a friend. What is their fucking problem? 2nd Question: what do girls feel for shy boys? ...

Would texting him at midnight on NYE be a good move? we fell out, but he said to try things again in 2012

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

31 December 2011 (F) - i really like this boy and we've been meeting up, texting and stuff like that. we fell out but we are ok now, he said to try things in 2012.. seeing as its new years eve i was thinking of texting him how i felt at midnight? but i wouldnt know what ...

I feel lonely even when I am with my friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4700 days ago

31 December 2011 (F) - I don't know why, but even when I am with friends I always feel lonely, like they will always include me in everything, but I still feel so lonely, even when I am with my best friend, and it isn't like I just met them, I have known them for years.. ...

Why do my mates' girlfriends keep trying it on with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

31 December 2011 (M) - This sounds like I'm being paranoid but about a year ago my mates 5yr GF told me she likes me to much! But I shook it of and blamed it on the drink then 6 months later we all got drunk at a party and I tried my hardest but we shared a proper intense ...

Do you think she and I will ever be friends again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4701 days ago

30 December 2011 (M) - Hello aunts! Even if I'll try to sum up my story in the best way possible, I think this will be long. Thanks in advance for reading. I met this girl like a year and a half ago in a one-week summer activity we both signed up for. She is from Japa...

Was it wrong for him to change my password?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - Heyy, well to start with my boyfriend knows my facebook password and i know his, today an old friend of mine was talking to me and he was saying some pretty inaproprate things to me, my boyfriend saw them and got mad i begged him not to say anyt...

First just friendship and after a few years it is suddenly love?

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30 December 2011 (F) - ok I have 2 friends to who this happened: a guy fell in love with a girl but the girl just wants friendship about 2 years later the girl also wanted a relationship. it lasted about 8 months and guess who ended it? the girl! now nearly the same hap...

My best friend said he'd go out with me and kiss me if I lost weight. Is it worth the effort?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4701 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - So there's this guy I like, and we have been friends for about 2 years. He's my best friend, and I love him. Well a couple weeks ago I told him that I liked him. Which he thought was a little weird,thankfully it wasn't really awkard. Anyways a ...

Is this an awkward relationship?

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30 December 2011 (F) - My bf once lived in an old man's house for a month (as a lodger) and ever since then the man continually texts my bf asking for a catch up over a drink and meals etc. When he sees my bf he kisses him on the cheek and is really funny acting and ...

Is it fair to trick someone into doing something that you know they won't like

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4701 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - I am an anti social person and always have been all my life. I am happy this way and enjoy reading, my animals, gardening and generally have a quiet lifestyle. My husband of two years and I do not live together as we have jobs in other parts of the ...

He has a girlfriend. Should I ask him to hang out anyways?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4701 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - I had a conversation with this guy 2 days ago on facebook. We're friends but I think I kind of like him too. Is it too soon to start another conversation? I also want to ask him to hang out but just as friends because I know he has a girlfriend...

I love her and I think she loves me. What next?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4694 days ago

30 December 2011 (M) - Scenario: Me, a jovial, good looking 30 year old bachelor who is living abroad on the other side of the world for a year, until May. Her, my best friend. Me, I think about her every day, morning and night, and I've now been away 7 mont...

How can I stop this suspicion???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

30 December 2011 (M) - Hi all, I was lucky enough to gain some help from you a while back and it was so helpful - I am grateful for that. There’s no short version of this so for those who take the time to read I am really grateful! Having got out of the relationshi...

I had feelings for her. How do I forget?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4694 days ago

30 December 2011 (M) - how do i forget about a girl i had some fealings for? we had been talking for about 2 months flirting and all of that... at one point she asked my brother when i was home from work cos she wanted to talk... she had personal heart to hearts with m...

Is there any point in trying to remain friends with these people?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4696 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - Simple question. I've come back from university and none of my college friends made the effort to see how university life was or how I was doing, except for one. I guess it does work both ways, as neither did I. But I contacted the few I was cl...

Could we ever go back to being bestfriends after I admitted my feelings for her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

30 December 2011 (M) - So a while ago my best friend asked me if I had feelings for her, I said I did. She had her suspicions because she thought I cared too much and came out and asked, and I answered truthfully. Before hand I knew she didn't like me that way because ...

Why has my mate suddenly changed?

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30 December 2011 (M) - me and my mate 'darren' are like brothers. we have known each other for like 12 years. neither of us are virgins any more, but we've both always thought that sex was for someone you truely care for. now he's started havin sex with girls he doesn't ...

I think he's 'the one' - But am I ready for that???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4701 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - I dont really believe in the idea of soulmates or "the one" in the sense that its my destiny or fate, but I do believe that certain people click together more so than others. And I'm pretty sure I've found that. The problem is that neither of us ...

What exactly goes through a women's head when they allow me to keep treating them like trash?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

29 December 2011 (M) - I am in awe at the way women let me treat them and I just don't get it. Ill see a girl I like and treat her like complete garabage but she still chases after me so I continue to do it because it works every time but I've had enough, I just don'...

How much help is too much help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4701 days ago

29 December 2011 (?) - A guy I met online is coming to town and he's asked me to help him rent a bedsit so I did. The thing is the bedsit is in bad shape and there is basically nothing habitable about it. He'll be arriving late on Saturday ( no shops will be open on ...

Is he attracted?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4702 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - I have this guy friend that I've been hanging out with casually for a few months. We get along well, and seem to have fun. We text all day, pretty much every day, and while there are no direct sexual references during our conversations, they are ...

I have no friends! How do I get out of this mess?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

29 December 2011 (M) - i feel like i have no friends at all they have all gone there seperate ways and just don't bother texting or even replying i don't get invited to any parties or anywhere anymore i feel really left out and feel like im just billy no mates. ive ...

I want to be first to him but his girlfriend is. How do I get him to put me first?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4701 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - Dear Aunts, This is killing me. To make a long story short, my best friend and I were close for a long time... like siblings, and we shared so many experiences, outings and moments together and I was always his ''best friend.'' He wants to get...

He cheated with me, now I am paranoid about people finding out

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - Well i met this guy the other night and the first time we met we connected like he was the one to say this too me and that we couldn't stop looking at each other... The next night him and his girlfriend who is one of my good mates came around to m...

Friends can cuddle... Right?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - Okay, I've been friends with this guy for a good few years now, I'll call him B. I've recently broken up with my previous boyfriend of 7 months, things just weren't working out. I hug all of my guy friends and all of them know a simple hug for a ...

My boyfriend wants these poisonous "friends" back into his life, but I feel as if my life is being turned upside down again. Am I being unreasonable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4697 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - I have been with my partner for 4 years and we have had a great relationship - he's stuck by me through everything even when my mum and brother passed away 2 years ago and everything was hectic. We are now living together, we both work and are very ...

He prefers to spend NYE with his mates rather than with me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - My question is quite a short one, and I’d love to hear lots of opinions on this – since I have been with my bf I have always felt that he likes to be with his friends and not me NYE. We tend to spend Xmas together and although last year we were ...

When I flirted with him he didn't flirt back, does he like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - - We kissed once. He was my first kiss. - Even when he was in another country, we chatted a lot. He always initiated them first. - When we were at a party, he'd follow me around (not creepily). - He was touchy around me and whenever we talked, ...

Am I in Middle School Again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - So I met this guy about 2-3 years ago. Ever since we first met we automatically started texting each other. This has been happening on and off for the passed couple years. His and my parents are actually really close but we met each other in ...

I'm not sure I am doing the smart thing with this older boy ...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - Hey. I am a freshman in highschool. This junior and I have been texting on and off for a few months now. He doesn't really talk to me in school. We just smile the casual hey what's up but not a real conversation. I really like him and I know he ...

My new boyfriend is really sweet and caring but I am in love with his best friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4703 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - I've just begun dating a new guy. I'm 17 (18 in 1.5 months) and he's 22. I haven't known him that long, we've only been together for 3 months. He's a really sweet and caring guy and he makes me really happy. The only problem is that I think he is in ...

He ends his messages with "love (his name)"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - When a man you dont know that well writes "love" and then his name at the end of a message, does that mean he is interested ?.We met last week and he bought me drinks and danced with me and he also said in the message that he would like to go out ...

He is himself around me, but with other girls he tries hard. What does that mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4703 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - I'm dating my best guy friend that I've known for almost two years already. We've been going out for almost a month now but we were talking for two months before that. Before me he dated this other girl for 1 year and some months but she broke it ...

I'm so confused by my friends' actions

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28 December 2011 (F) - I have this problem and i don't know what to do... There is this guy and he usto be my friend when we were little and then he started being a jerk a couple years ago and then he slowely made his way into our friends group. Before he started ...

He hasn't texted me at all today! Is he losing interest?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

28 December 2011 (F) - So this will be super long, but I don't really have anyone to vent to. Here goes: I've started talking to this guy, (we'll call him Steve) who is a co-worker of mine and a friend of my good friend John. My friend John says Steve has confidence i...

I met this girl but she has a boyfriend. Can we still hang out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

28 December 2011 (M) - Hey guys and girls. Happy holidays :D Hope you people had lots of fun. Alright here's the help I need. I meet this girl at a formal like around 1 week ago for like an Religious Catholic Organization. Alright I meet her, I don't wanna over board...

He wants to stop chasing women. So he dropped me. What can I do to encourage him to not just walk away?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

28 December 2011 (F) - Hi, I have been really foolish and now I'm stuck in a love relationship with someone who doesn't want to be with me. I'm 31 and female and met this amazing guy last year in a bar with friends, he's 3 years younger then me, funny, intellig...

My friend is interfering in everyone's love life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4533 days ago

28 December 2011 (F) - hello well one of my friend seem to be interfering everyone loves life like i use to like her one of her relatives and she didnt something for him to lye about your romance ..anyway so i like a new boy that so happpens to like her he flirts with her ...

I'm worried about my friend dating this creep!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

28 December 2011 (F) - A good friend of mine just told me she has a boyfriend. The more she told me, the worse my gut feeling got. He's been pressuring her for sex, and she's turned him down each time so far. She also says the way he talks is "too smooth" at times, like ...

My best friend just broke my heart

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4704 days ago

27 December 2011 (F) - Me and my best friend have known each other since we were little. I used to have a huge crush on him, but I got over it And we've been best friends ever since. We know each others secrets and I can tell him anything. But Christmas Day we hung out ...

I'm having trouble with my boyfriend's female friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4704 days ago

27 December 2011 (F) - My bf and I have been together for 2 years. Since the beginning i have always had trouble with his friends. I am not even talking about his male friends, but his female friends. Most of his friends have girlfriends, but none of these girls have ever ...

Is it a good idea to live with a platonic female friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

27 December 2011 (M) - So I'm 22 and recently moved back home after graduating from college until I got a job. Well, now that I'm finally working and receiving paychecks, I'm ready to be on my own again. I was recently talking with a great friend of mine and she is ...

Is this a good idea or too soon to make a move for her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4704 days ago

27 December 2011 (M) - I have been talking to my friend who I met at college last year we have never been best friends but recently I have helped her through a break up with her boyfriend and now a month later she is back to her normal self. She says she's over him a...

Was it right for my boyfriend to hide the fact that my friend was texting him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4697 days ago

27 December 2011 (F) - me and my boyfriend were at my friends house. we were all hanging out and than all of a sudden when he got a text message he pulled me close and started making out with me. i pushed him away and laughed it off. my friends thought it was cute but i ...

Should I wait for this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4704 days ago

27 December 2011 (F) - This might be kind of long, just a warning. I work with this guy and we've been decent friends for over a year. His ex girlfriend who is also the mother of his kids works at the same place as us but on a different shift. He would always talk to me ...

Is it normal for a guy who wants fwb to say he misses chatting with you ? Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4704 days ago

27 December 2011 (F) - I'm confused about this guy. He told me that he wants to be friends with benefits, but he also said that he is happy being just friends ( without the benefits ) if that's what i want, and he said he didn't mind either way which one i wanted, as he ...

How Dear Cupid has allowed me to be myself and express myself. How strangers saved me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4683 days ago

27 December 2011 (?) - Dear Cupid is one of the only places I can express myself; liberated from self-consciousness by the mask of anonymity, I can write from the heart. There was a time when writing was the love of my life; my understanding of the English language and ...

Would it be too awkward to ask her to share a room with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4704 days ago

26 December 2011 (M) - Sometimes, lately, I have been having feelings for a close friend. She's been like a sister, and i know we love each other in that way. Part of me wants more. But it isn't to be I feel. For a while I have wanted her to come and stay with me...

He teases me and can be sarcastic. But could he like me romantically?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4702 days ago

26 December 2011 (F) - We've been working together (I know, work is not the best place to get a crush, but I can't help it!) for about a month now, and in that time we've created a pretty friendly relationship. We're very jokey and sarcastic with each other and we tease ...

He's a really sweet guy. But now it's been 2 days of silence? Should I phone him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4705 days ago

26 December 2011 (F) - Hi, I met a very sweet guy online who I really got on well with. Due to him working abroad we spoke almost everyday for around 2 months before we met. We had our first date just before Christmas and I thought it went really well, we have lots in Comm...