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*ammi91
writes:So I met this guy about 2-3 years ago. Ever since we first met we automatically started texting each other. This has been happening on and off for the passed couple years. His and my parents are actually really close but we met each other in different towns not even knowing we were from the same town. He has always talked to me pretty sexually through texting but we had only slept together once and that was a year after we met. Since then we have seen each other here and there. He is sometimes extremely sweet and caring and other times he's just a typical guy. We have a 7 year age difference. I am 20 and he's 27. He does sometimes play the age card but then says he doesn't care about it. I am just wondering why he keeps me around when for one he's not really getting any; 2. he doesn't really seem like he cares except for the fact that he's always the one to contact me after we've stopped talking for awhile; 3. It's been 2 1/2 years!!!! someone help me, I think I love this guy and desperately need to get over him because I don't want to go another day thinking of someone that never thinks of me.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (29 December 2011):
 every time he puts out his feelers you give him positive feedback.
IF you want him to stop then you need to be the one to take the actions necessary to stop it....
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (29 December 2011):
 And why should he stop . He got some, didn't he :it may happen again. And if it does not happen, who cares, no big deal. He is not making any heavy sustained effort to make it happen, and he is not particularly hung up about the result , or lack of the same.
What IMO you fail to see is the difference between daring the fury of elements on a Captain Achab - like whale harpooning expedition - and lazily casting a line in a stream while you are dozing on its flowery banks , admiring the landscape, and enjoying a picnic. If your bait catches fish, cool, - if it doesn't, you are just killing time and chilling anyway , it's not like you particularly want or need that fish.
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