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Archived questions from: February, 2010 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

Troubled relationship...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5403 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - I liked this guy for 2 years. He is a year younger than me. We were in middle school and we had the same spanish teacher. He was the kind of guy that you love him but you don't think he would ever even think about liking you. So I kept it to ...

I think my best friend's boyfriend may be hitting on me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - I'm wondering if my best friend's boyfriend's behaviour is appropriate? We often all go out together,we have all been friends for many years, but when he has had a few drinks he becomes very tactile with me. He hugs me, grabs me and strokes me and ...

I like him but he is so hot and cold!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5410 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - I met a guy through a mutual friend a few months ago. He told our friend that he really likes me and I feel the same about him. The problem is he seems to be blowing hot and cold. He has told a number of people that he is interested in me and when I ...

He's unreliable and I don't want to work with him, but want to keep the friendship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5410 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - I have a friendship with a man. We were almost an item but it didn't work out but we have continued to see each other for dinners etc (but not FWB). We get on fine so there's no problem. I have my own business and he is looking to change his life a ...

I have strong feelings for my best friend's partner, and I'm worried he might feel the same way about me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5410 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - I have strong feelings for my best friend's partner. They have been together for 22 years and I have felt this way for all this time but it has never been a problem, until recently. Over the years I have lived away from home and been in relation...

My friend is mad that I started dating a guy she used to have feelings for! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - I recently got out of a bad relationship, my ex was always demanding sex and using mind games to make me feel like s**t. I found hope in another guy, he's amazing and always telling me how perfect I am. He listens to my every problem and never asks ...

I'm 13 and have been with my boyfriend for 4 months. I worry about our relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - [MOD Note: Multiple questions from the same user combined.] Im 13 and iv been with my boyfriend for 4months and I have some questions. 1. We havent realy done anything he's said he wants to kiss me but every thime we go to kiss we both get nervis ...

How can I overcome shyness?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - I'm a really shy person when i don't know people very well, and often find it awkward and don't know what to say, I've heard that this has come off to others as me thinking I am too good to talk to those people but it's not that at all, how can I ...

A disturbing confession by my friend's 11 year old daughter

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - Last night i babysat my mates little girl who is 11 and found out something im really not happy about.... Now heres the situation. They have hardly any money-Her partner works part time and she doesnt have a job-basically they are l...

He's got someone else, but I'm in love with him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - Hi, I've been good friends with this guy, he's so sweet and charming. But the problem is, he's already committed. I know all his secrets because he told me that he "love" me, but when I confessed that I love him, he told me to just let my feeli...

I confessed I was attracted to him and now he avoids me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5410 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - hi i'm a 30year old lady,my closest friends r all guys i seem 2get along gr8 with almost any guy i meet,bt its always just friendships.About 4months ago a stranger was welcomed in2 our 'friend circle' and from da very 1st sec i saw him i knew i ...

My best friend has told people she never thought of me as a boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

28 February 2010 (M) - She already told other people that she never thought of me that way. I can talk to her about any and everything. We both consider each other our closest friends. This is the strongest i've EVER felt about a girl, and i think i love her. Should i ...

Uh oh, I have a boyfriend but think I am in love with my best girl friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - I think I'm in love with my bestfriend. I have a boyfriend of almost two years and I am very confused. She often teases me saying she is gonna rape me and other stuff but I'm not shore if she is flirting or not. She calls me boo baby tells me she ...

My guy friend seem to be checking me out, is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - This might sound ridiculous to some.. but i feel very embarrassed when i find random guys eyeing at me while i'm walking with my friends (boys mostly). I'm one of the two girls in our friend pack.. and the rest are like 6 boys. We're treated as ...

Hooking up with my friend... still.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - So back in August 2009 I hooked up with a friend. We decided to continue hooking up, but to just remain as friends. Well 6 months later we're still in the same boat, however I guess you can say the ocean we're sailing in has changed. Over the months ...

Worried about him using my friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5411 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - Hey guys, I went on here for my own problem once and have never been happier and all my problems were solved. Since then...Iv even become a little agony aunt for my group of girls..but one im really worried about. Ill tell her story, no real n...

He has a girlfriend but gets jealous when my friends give me a hug

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - I've posted questions before and my love life is still complicated. im sorry if this is long... A guy and i have been talking for a while. I've stated this in my recent questions also. Even though he is in a relationship he still tells me he love...

How do we deal with an unlabelled relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - Although we aren't "dating", my friend and I are definitely exclusive. We trust each other and care about each other. We never established a label on the relationship, so calling each other boyfriend and girlfriend all of a sudden is a bit strange ...

How can I find out if he is still interested without seeming desperate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - I started dating a guy about 2 months ago and he asked me out a week after we met. We got really close very quickly after we met but then he had some family and health problems going on so he was distracted so we didn't really get to see each other, ...

How reliable is a drunken proclamation of love?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - Are people more honest when they're drunk, or do they say things they don't mean? Last night around midnight, one of my old mates, who used to fancy me, called me while he was drunk. He told me that he really wanted to talk to me, and that he miss...

I am gay, and eveytime my male friend kisses his girlfriend I die a little inside

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

27 February 2010 (M) - ok let me introduce my self my name is kevin i am 16 i am a boy and i am gay but no body knows that i fell for this guy damn it he's so hot we're in the same class we're best friends and just my luck he got a girl friend recently and whenever we go ...

My friend is pregnant again, and I don't want to have to help financially again

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - I'm probably going to get alot of backlash with what i'm about to write so I want you to read this post properly. I have been mates with this girl for about 10 years. In that time she has has 2 children that were accidents 1 of which I'm god...

I want to move out of the friend zone and into being boyfriend material

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

27 February 2010 (M) - Hey every one, ive got two quite big problems that have been bothering me for a while.. i go to a college in london right.. im 18, and (not being big headed) im a good looking guy.. well lots of girls like me.. im REALLY friendly.. sometimes TOO...

Our friend is depressed because she can't pass her drivers licence

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - Morning, I desperatly need some advice. My friend who is 28 is trying to get her drivers licence, she has failed a few timesand after each test she is becoming more withdrawn. She hardly comes out with us anymore-infact my birthday is coming up and ...

My mother says I am sending the wrong message by giving a gift

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - ok, my mom said it means u like a guy when you give him a birthday present and he's not your boy-friend?? is that true? im 15 he's turning 17 and she wont let me give my guy friend a birthday present. i dont think it is true neither do other people ...

Should I pursue her even though she cheated with others in the past?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

27 February 2010 (M) - I need some serious advice from someone who can relate or can put themselves in my frame of mind. Quick outline of the plot to my story. My best friend is a girl. I have loved her for a long time. She has always known this. We met online 3 ...

I do have feelings for her but the situation is too complicated

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

27 February 2010 (M) - Hello, I have a lady friend that I have been cool with for awhile now. We had sex about about a month ago. At the same time I had a female that I was talking to nothing serious at all. Before this happened my lady friend was trying to work t...

I told my friend, who told a boy who told the teacher I had a crush on him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - I've had a crush on my science teacher for a while now, and one of my friends knows. A few days ago, she actually had the nerve to go tell one of the guys in my class!! And if you don't think that's bad enough, that guy went and told my teacher....

How can I let my guy friend know I like him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - Alright, so I'm friends with this guy and I'm starting to like him.. He's nice and has a great sense of humor, he has respect for women and he's just a wonderful trustworthy guy. I know he would never do anything to hurt me and I just want to be ...

Where do I go to find a wingman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

27 February 2010 (M) - Hi, i am 20 and would like to ask you your advice on something if that is ok? I am a bit worried about getting a girlfriend because i have never had one before and pretty worried i won’t get one if i do not take action. I don’t really know how to go ...

I've watched her cry after bad relationships, I've told her how much I love her and yet she still wont give me a chance

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

27 February 2010 (M) - I have been asking out the same girl for the past 4 years and she has turned me down every single time I have watched her cry coming out of the relationships she's been through and i'm afraid that she's going to be hurt by the wrong guy I ain't ...

We are meant to keep things casual but I am having feelings for him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - Well i've been seeing this guy for nearly 6 months and in the beginning we agreed to keep things casual but in the past couple of months i've started to have feelings for him but i haven't told him this. He has said that what we have is just a fling ...

Should I just sit and wait and see what happens?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5411 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - I have never been so happy today as I was. I have known my guy friend for two years now. We can’t stop this thing we started. He has always seemed like he liked me some days and other times he didn’t. I was really confused and everything I tried to ...

Is he just a player, or does he really like me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - (Mod note: Titled by poster) Hi, there is this guy in my year and i really like him. We both are in relationships with people who go to other schools but when we see each other we always hug, grab each others behind, or just flirt. When we are in a...

I want to get over him but I like him so much

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - So here’s the story: I’ve fancied this guy at school for about a year now. We talk on msn a lot and have done for over a year. Judging by our msn conversation you’d think we were pretty good friends, sometimes a couple. The problem is that he’s shy...

I set them up but now I cant stand them being together!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - About a couple months or so ago, my friend had gotten out of a failing relationship, and she was really looking for someone who would treat her right. i was even looking for someone to treat her right. anyway, i met this guy and he seemed really ...

Do you think I should give him one opportunity to try and explain what happened and why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - Hello everyone, I recently found out that the guy I've been seeing for many years has been having an affair. I found this out after that wrenching, knawing feeling in my gut drove me to do some investigation work on the internet.. and sure eno...

Bothered about her interest in my friends!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

26 February 2010 (M) - Hi I've been seeing this girl for the past two months, and everything is great. We both just got out of bad relationships, and feel like we know what we want and don't want. We both communicate well together, and even the topic of jealousy h...

This MUST mean she likes me right?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

26 February 2010 (M) - Ok, well, I posted a question earlier about how I wanted to ask this girl out without being too cheesy. She just told me she's going to have the house to herself and proposed that I spend the night... I don't know if I'm reading too much into th...

Making my move...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

26 February 2010 (M) - I'm going to be making a move on a chick I want I'm thinking of going in like moving toward her then saying what would you do if I made a move and while all this I'm going in for a kiss then saying what would you do if I kissed you then kiss her...

She feeds off of making my life suck!!!

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26 February 2010 (F) - Theres this girl that i hate with a passion pretty much if i was a super hero she would be my arch nemisis, since grade nine she has beeen trying to do everything like possible to ruin my life , in grade nine this guy i liked (my current boyfriend ...

Confusion between friends and lovers...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5412 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - So I moved outta state almost 3 years ago and I am just now finding freinds. I have a friend at work and we always take our breaks together and text eachother (we haven't hungout outside of work yet) and I really like her. She's really cool and we ...

Why didn't he answer me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5412 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - I recently started to like a guy at my school. It's come to my attention that we have a lot in common. I wanted to talk to him about it but I had trouble because he was always surrounded by his friends. On Valentine's Day I was giving lots of ...

How do I make him more comfortable around me? He's just so shy.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5412 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - so i just started talking to this SUPER SHY guy. i mean SUPER SHY! he used to just stare at me, but then i started talking to him. hes friends w/ my bgf (best guy friend) and they talk about me and he likes me2. its just hes SOOO shy. he looks do...

Kissing with tongues is gross! Will I get used to it and like it eventually?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - Okay, so I made out with my best guy friend. He's 19 and I was wondering, is it normal for me not to like it so much right now? I mean I liked kissing but when we used tongue I thought the texture was kinda gross. Will it change once I do it more ...

Asian Indian girl asked me to become her brother?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

26 February 2010 (M) - I know a really nice Asian Indian girl who asked me to "become" her brother. Which is fine, because there's always been a platonic relationship going on.. but I'm worried that once that happens, I'm not even sure how it would work in future .. I d...

He's telling me to stay away from him after our encounter...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5412 days ago

26 February 2010 (M) - Okay so I've been on here before. I confessed to my best guy friend that i had bi-sexual tendencies and that i was attracted to him. And me telling him was after i had kissed him out of the whim. Yeah after that bold move..(stupid of me)..he ...

Is there any hope in convincing him that a relationship may be worth it?

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26 February 2010 (F) - There's a guy that I like. I like him a lot - I fell hard and fast for him (which is totally outside my personality). We've hung out and talked for about 4 months now and I recently got accepted into graduate school. He messaged me to tell me ...

She really likes me but it's her sister I fancy! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

26 February 2010 (M) - There is this girl(Anita) that shows obvious interest in me but i refuse to give her positive responses cos i'm interested in her elder sister. Anita is always around me especially when she sees me in public and i can't drive her away. Now, i've got ...

Since I had sex with him he seems uninterested.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5413 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - I had sex with this boy, i really liked him but knew we wernt ever gonna be together, cuz i just knew basically... just whenever i see him in school now he holds my hand in a way of sayin 'you kool' sorta thing, like im just any girl to him, it ...