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writes: Okay so I've been on here before. I confessed to my best guy friend that i had bi-sexual tendencies and that i was attracted to him. And me telling him was after i had kissed him out of the whim. Yeah after that bold move..(stupid of me)..he ignored me for a couple of days. But then he let me in his house and we talked about it. He said he was okay with it...and to my surprise he admitted to having feelings for the same sex too. SO we decided to test it..so we made out, like really made out. And he was turned on by it.. and ever since then we've just been normal friends to the outside world but been intimate secretly.(just kissing though) But 4 days ago, I don't know what happend. In class some kids were talking about how they hate gay people and stuff, quote "fags should die". Yah i wasn't very happy happy with what they were saying.. but if i said something they would've accused me of being gay,(which is not too far off). But after class Devon (the guy that i kissed) walked right passed me without saying anything like he was mad or something. And now he's been a real jerk to me. First he wouldn't pick up his phone, then he started not talking to me at school..and now he's telling me to stay away from him. I don't know what went wrong. And now I'm lost for what to do. I really liked him. Now i don't have a best friend or what i desired for the future. I really miss and i can't be without him. can anyone give me any advice?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2010): wow you are in quite a pickle right now. Since there seems to have been a drastic change in your relationship, its important that you talk it out.Personally, i had a secret, intimate relationship with my best friend. Personally, i knew she was extremely embarrassed about doing things with me and every time she heard a topic related to this, shed get really anxious and nervous. I pursued the relationship and she just kind of followed along for the ride. At this point, our sexual relationship has ended (partly because we both have super amazing boy friends who also happen to be best friends 3) but our deep best friendship has continued and we are very very close to each other. At this point, I suggest dropping the romance and just do what comes naturally. and think about it, would you rather lose a romance that never was or a person who you care deeply for? I decided the best thing to do was to end our romantic relationship and start building up our best friendliness to make her happy 3 Her being happy was the most important thing to me and still is and I know there will always be a little spot in my heart devoted to her even though i cant have her.
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