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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I think I'm in love with my bestfriend. I have a boyfriend of almost two years and I am very confused. She often teases me saying she is gonna rape me and other stuff but I'm not shore if she is flirting or not. She calls me boo baby tells me she loves me and misses me and all that and we pretend like we r lovers in school. I'm goin to visit her this upcoming week and I really wanna tell how I feel or at least kiss her and see how she reacts. Wat should I do :(
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reader, kevin3007 +, writes (1 March 2010):
 DON'T do it don't make the same mistake that i've done (when i kissed him and told him that i am gay i lost him )....well you the girls can hug and tell each other crazy stuff with out thinking that you're gay not like us when you touch you have to pay ....i am going to give you a plan since you're going to visit her this week....
1/try to look your best this time i mean if she's intersted to you she'll be attracted to you
2/try to set with her in her bedroom (in her bed) well you can guys read some fashion magazins or what ever stuff you like to do girls
3/when you guys will have nothing to say and you start staring to each other KISS HER but IN THE CHEEK and say:"i love you" if she freacks out hurry up and say :"does it bother you to tell you that i love you i mean we're friends right?"(say it as an angelic way) and if she doesn't try to get closer to her so you can kiss her(in the lips) if you notice that she's gonna stop you and get some kind of uncomfortable than you have to stop and say :"sorry i am just drunk " (use alcohol as a reason i always use it ..it's a really good savior) but if you notice that she doen't mind the idea to kiss her than girl make your move and give her the best of your kisses (when you girls are kissing don't try to touch her private places she might be new in this field you can even freck her out)........good luck honey and don't forget to send us the news
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo  +, writes (1 March 2010):
 Try to talk to her before trying to kiss her, if you feel like you can just sit her down and ask her if she had any feelings for you other than friendly relations. if she does then you need to think about if you are willing to give up what you have with your boyfriend, to try and make it work with this girl. good luck =] x
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2010): I know how you feel.. I really do minus the boyfriend part but I liked one of my girl friends for a year and she had a boyfriend but I told her through a text and she was like 'oh okay', and thats it.. We are still friends even though it took us a while to get back here. She just left from spending the night.. We sleep in the same bed which is a twin and, she says she loves me and miss me all the time, and that we are soul connected but then say we are 'cousins'... so yeah a part of me still likes her and a part of me don't cause she's just not into me.I think you should tell her, and see what she says because sometimes it's hard to tell when it's two girls who are friends. As for boyfriend thing you are young be with who you want to be with... Just really think about it, and be careful.
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