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female
age
30-35,
*nlovee:(
writes:I had sex with this boy, i really liked him but knew we wernt ever gonna be together, cuz i just knew basically... just whenever i see him in school now he holds my hand in a way of sayin 'you kool' sorta thing, like im just any girl to him, it hurts so much, I saw him today and all he said was you alright... i really liked him, i knew i wudnt ever be his girlfriend but i just felt like 'omg he actually must like me a little bit for him to want to have sex with me' ..im so dumb, it just hurts soo muchhhhhh, its not fair, i really like him, it hurts so much its proper painful, i just want to have a proper conversation with him at least, its like since we have had sex we have gone back steps, if you understand what im saying? he used to talk to me all the time on facebook and now he dont, maybe i just miss his attention he gave to me? but i feel soo much for it just to be that, argh, its sooooo not fair. i have so much more to write but cant get the words to match my feelings..xxxxxxxxxxx
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reader, sammi star +, writes (26 February 2010):
 You're not dumb, stop beating yourself up about this so much. This is so common at your age, girls mature a lot faster and while you may have been holding out hope of a relationship, he was just after the sex. I know it's painful but you can tell by the way he's acting that there isn't going to be anything between you now he's gotten what he wants from you. Stop wasting time on him and get out there and find someone who will show you a bit more respect.
It's easy to think 'yeah he must like me to want to have sex with me' because you'd rather have something than nothing but I really hope you've learned an important lesson here. Sleeping with guys doesn't mean they'll hang around, that's not the way to hold onto someone. Respect yourself and guys will follow your lead. I hope you get over this guy real soon before you waste any more time on him! x
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