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writes:I have never been so happy today as I was. I have known my guy friend for two years now. We can’t stop this thing we started. He has always seemed like he liked me some days and other times he didn’t. I was really confused and everything I tried to make him see that I liked him but it never changed our friendship or did it? I gave him a gift for the first time last Christmas and he thanked me right away. Then I gave him a hug on my birthday and he just smiled. He never texts me like he used to but I think it’s because he’s busy or just doesn’t like to talk online. At school in shop he barely pays attention to me except sometimes I see him staring across the room. He has all these girls who he’s friends with and I used to be really jealous but I notice now that he treats me different. Ever since I met him I have felt this connection and closeness. Things have been weird lately. He said that he would never get a hug from me but he did. Today I was sitting on the bus and he came down the isle and did something unexpected. I always thought that he would never sit with me but today he asked if he could sit with me and I said sure buddy. He smiled when I said that and the whole time I felt great. We talked the whole time about things we like. We talked also about our interests. He basically talked about cars and how he’s busy next week doing different organizations. I listened to him the whole time and I actually liked his attention. I really think he cares about me but won’t admit it. He never admits to anything. I’ve never really hung out with him but someday I hope we do get together. I was really mad at him for a while but now all that hatred has disappeared. I have forgotten crying because I thought he was ignoring me for the longest time. All my dreams have come true except us kissing and getting together. I feel like I’m getting closer to him and I hope he does finally see he belongs with me. I’m getting closer than I ever thought I might. I can’t fight this feeling anymore. I really don’t care that he’s not good looking and he has a lot of flaws. I try and look past those things straight to his heart. He has a good personality and he charms me. The other thing I like about him is that he really makes me laugh and smile. We can always pick on each other and it never bothers us. We seem to agree about a lot of things. He always smiles when I touch him and if I make fun of him he just laughs it doesn’t bother him. He ignores emotion type stuff like feelings and doesn’t like to talk about them. Sorry about this being really long but it’s a good description! What would you do if you were in this scenario? Should I let it just play out and see what happens?
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reader, BreannaH +, writes (27 February 2010):
I was in the same position. But everytime I tried talking to him he had a girlfriend. So I played it out waiting for 2+ years. All of a sudden he started changing. We hung out so much. Then all of a sudden he asked me out. We dated for 6 months. Just wait. And when you just cant take it anymore, tell him. Fight for him.
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