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writes:Alright, so I'm friends with this guy and I'm starting to like him.. He's nice and has a great sense of humor, he has respect for women and he's just a wonderful trustworthy guy. I know he would never do anything to hurt me and I just want to be with him.. I've known him for like 4 years and we get along good.. My only problem is I'm shy! I don't know how to bring it to his attention that I like him. I'm very afraid of being rejected but then again I don't want to sit around and wonder 'what if'.. Sometimes i think there's a chance he might like me because he always texts me first everyday, but then I think maybe he's just being friendly. So what are some ways I could let him know I like him or some ways I can find out if he likes me?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (27 February 2010):
 Since you are texting each other everyday , you can send one text message saying you like Him.
Don't worry , take the plunge and I am sure ,he will accept it positively. If the response is good, ask him out for a date.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2010): Definitely ask him out for a meet up! I know how you feel, I was in the same situation! I even casually asked my crush out, but he turned me down very nicely, still I was devastated. Took a couple of weeks to get over rejection and to this day he is still my sweetest awesomest guy friend ever! Don't worry and don't regret asking him out, otherwise you might go nuts wondering what if!!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (27 February 2010):
I know you're shy and afraid of rejection, and I know that can be a real pain. But you're right about that 'what if'. If you don't say something, you can bet you'll regret it. Now he always texts you every day first, so he clearly likes you. So first thing you need to do is just ask him out to meet for a drink or something. Get to know him more whilst being together. See how he reacts. If he says yes, then continue with a couple more meets, and then tell him how you feel. Be brave, or you'll lose him and never know how he feels.
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