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I've watched her cry after bad relationships, I've told her how much I love her and yet she still wont give me a chance

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Question - (27 February 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 27 February 2010)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have been asking out the same girl for the past 4 years and she has turned me down every single time I have watched her cry coming out of the relationships she's been through and i'm afraid that she's going to be hurt by the wrong guy I ain't saying i'm the right guy for her but I ain't saying i'm the wrong neither. Well anyways two weeks ago she asked me why it was so much easier to talk to her on the computer and text her than it is talking to her in person and it took me 45 minutes to tell her I love her and i honestly feel like I do and she said she's always known how I felt and she still won't give me the chance what am I suppose to do?

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (27 February 2010):

Stop chasing this girl No matter how much you love her, she doesn't feel the same way. She is attracted to bad boys, and that's why she gets hurt. There is no chance with this girl, and she has told you so. You need to move on.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2010):

This is going to be harsh:

If you have desperately tried to calm and coax her into a loving and healthy relationship with you and she's rejected you every single time well...then...do you really think she's worth all the effort if she won't even think about giving you the time of day? Some people just don't know how to accept help from others and stray away from it-unfortunately people like this are almost impossible to assist. She is obviously blind and possibly ignorant if you (a decent and caring human being) has tried to express and share your love with her and she turned you down every time. Find someone who will appreciate you.

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