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Archived questions from: January, 2007 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

He tells me I can date otheres, even though we sleep together! What should I make of this guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6132 days ago

31 January 2007 (F) - Sorry, I know your probably sick of hearing about my "relationship" of the guy who Im friends with and sleep with but, I had a conversation with him a few nights ago before I went away on holiday and he said I could sleep with another guy if I ...

I have a close friend I really like but want to know if she feels the same way...how do I do this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6534 days ago

31 January 2007 (?) - i have a close friend i really really like. well she always invites me to places when she goes with mates etc. but i just dont get that feeling that she likes me. is there any way to find out? any signs? i dont want to show her i like her coz she ...

My friend is a compulsive liar...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6534 days ago

31 January 2007 (F) - My friends a complete liar. She just lies like its no big thing. If you confront her about it, she says ''what have i lied about''. But the thing is, shes lies about so much you just cant remember to tell her. She thinks her druggie brother is ...

Is it really possible to be friends with an ex-lover? Any insights?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6533 days ago

31 January 2007 (F) - This is an uncomfortable situation, but here goes (deep breath). What is the story about the woman with whom your boyfriend had an affair? Is it ever possible to be friends with her? My boyfriend was seeing his brother's girlfriend's sis...

I never see my best friend - she's always at this farm doing drugs and getting laid!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6534 days ago

31 January 2007 (F) - My best friends got no respect for herself. She spends most of her time over this farm near her house. Her brother and his mates and loads of other blokes get drugged up over there. She thinks they're all so cool but they're not and i dont think its ...

We're good mates but she refuses lifts to work...and she accepts them from people she despises!! Do I ask her why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6534 days ago

31 January 2007 (M) - Why would this be happening.? I work in a factory that works very odd shift hours. There's this girl i work with who lives in the same town as me. We're good mates and get along great together. Really good friends. Because of the unsociab...

My friend's bf will go up to three weeks w/out calling her! Does he really want to be w/ her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6527 days ago

31 January 2007 (F) - Something is not quite right about a friend's new boyfriend - should I say something? My friend met a guy on the Internet who then became girlfriend and boyfriend. They have been together for 5months. The problem is it can be up to three weeks ...

After we split, he wanted to remain friends. Then I found out he's in a relationship w/ someone he'd been seeing since before our split!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6534 days ago

31 January 2007 (F) - A month ago, my boyfriend of 4 years wanted to split up. I agreed it was the best thing as I didn't want a future with him. We both said that we'd always be friends but then he started to ignore me and when we did talk was extremely nasty. Instic...

Someone keeps hacking into her internet account and she thinks it's me! But I'd NEVER do that! How do I convince her without looking guilty?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

30 January 2007 (F) - i need some advice. someone keeps trying to hack into my friend's internet accounts and i think she thinks it's me. It's the way she says things like "well the person hacking in must be a close friend because they have my password, know when I'm ...

Help! I'm stuck in a love triangle! Does he really love me, or should I ignore him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6526 days ago

30 January 2007 (F) - Okay right.Yeah i love my boyfriend but I also love my boyfriend's best mate who is going out with my best mate. But i think he (my boyfriend's best mate) loves me also. But anyway, my best mate's BROTHER has now tried to be secretive. Texting me ...

Not sure whether guys don't like me because I'm 'big' and not very girly. Or whether all guys are jerks! Which is it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

30 January 2007 (F) - I've got two problems: 1. My best friend (call him person A) is a guy and every keeps saying we fancy each other and I'm not sure if they mean or are just messing around. Whenever someone asks me if I fancy person A, I never know what to say beca...

She just wants to be friends...so how do I find ways to spend time with her,after school. Any ideas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

30 January 2007 (?) - i really like this girl in my school. i've known her for years. she is a close mate now since 6 months ago. once she found out i had a crush on her so she was really weird and didn't talk much. but as soon as she found out i fancy this girl and ...

She doesn't want to date me and ruin our friendship. How can I convince her otherwise?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6535 days ago

30 January 2007 (M) - i jus asked a girl out and she said she doesn't think it would work between us because we are gd friends she said she dosn't want to risk the loss of a good freind how do i get her to take the risk and go out with me???? ive never liked someone ...

I don't think the bf wants back with me, because of what his freinds think. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

30 January 2007 (F) - I recently broke up with my boyfriend of one year. well.. he broke up with me. We have problems with jealousy and fighting. I think that we can get past the immature fighting and jealousy. We have had some pretty heated fights... but i think this ...

I like her but she's with someone else. Should I stay friends with her or move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6535 days ago

30 January 2007 (M) - Is it better to be friends with someone who you care about and have feelings for and want to be your girlfriend with her knowing your feelings about her and she feels the same but is involved with someone else, or is it better to just tell her i ...

Cross gender friendships...it's okay for her but not me?? Is that fair?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

30 January 2007 (M) - I have recently found out that my girlfriend has said, 'she would not have gone out with me' if 'i'd have had girls as friends or a girlfriend before i met her'. She has said she wouldn't have liked it if i'd have had girl friends or a girlfriend, ...

My friend's on/off again bf got married and she found out while pregnant w/ his child!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6535 days ago

30 January 2007 (F) - my friend has a child with a man she has been dating on and off for years. they are still in an on and iff relationship and she just found out that the man married another woman he's known (or maybe been in a relationship with) for even longer. my ...

We want to have children together as friends - is this a good idea?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

30 January 2007 (F) - So this is a wierd situation. I met my soul mate. We are completely in love. We have the same values and morals. The thing that keeps us from being together is our sex life. It is horrible!!! And when i say horrible i mean it. We do not mix at all. ...

Two of my closest friends hooked up with my ex... multiple times!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6520 days ago

30 January 2007 (M) - I just got the biggest shock of perhaps my entire life tonight. Two of my closest friends on the planet hooked up with my ex-girlfriend, several times over the past year. I knew that this girl had issues, but I still loved her, and even though I ...

How do I get w/ a coworker who works in a different department? I don't want to scare him off!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6534 days ago

30 January 2007 (F) - Oh my, I find myself lusting after a guy at work that physically any girl would pass up. However his personality drives me crazy; in a good way of course. He’s not the best looking crayon in the box, but he is so confident, that; that makes him s...

My husband tries to impress the new girl next door when she visits - and I caught him looking down her shirt!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6519 days ago

30 January 2007 (F) - I wonder if my cheating husband will cheat again??? He’s this alpha male and just draws girls to him with his sweet talking and charming ways. He’s cheated on me before and I made it clear that if he cheated on me again I would leave him. Howev...

My friend asked the guy I like out and my ex's friend asked me out! I don't know what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

30 January 2007 (F) - the guy i love said he kind of liked me and then said if he got to know me a little better he could start to love me and i was really happy. then he asked me how i want him to get to know me right after he said that. i thought in my head it sounds ...

She told her ex that I was a gentleman like *him* and she loves Subway like she loves *him*! I think she still feels for him. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

30 January 2007 (?) - i went out on this date with this girl i really really like. she really enjoyed it etc. she even text me later thanking me for it. basically my mate her ex was helpin me get with her. he was askin her how our date was etc. and she said stuff li...

Is a piece of very expensive clothing, a much too personal to give someone else's husband?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

29 January 2007 (F) - I am married to a very handsome and successful man. A neighbor, newly single, gave us gifts at Christmas that were larger than I expected. They gifts for me were items for the house (the price stickers were highlighted so I suspect that they were ...

My friend is being negative about everything and eating less since her break up. How can I help her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6536 days ago

29 January 2007 (F) - Hi there! This is more for my best friend from school who has recently been dumped by her bf. She seems to be doing better, but I'm still worried. She had been dating this guy since the beginning of the school year in September, so she really liked ...

I'm scared for my friend who has casual sex with any age guy who asks her. She's only 15!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6536 days ago

29 January 2007 (F) - hi i have a problem its my friend she is well seeing this guy who is 28 years old and engaged and well she knows this and she is only 15 yrs old and shes having sex with him and many others ever since she turned 15 she has being having sex with who ...

When I got w/ her, I ditched my mates. Now we've split and all my old mates have new lives. I'm so lonely!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6536 days ago

29 January 2007 (M) - Hi, i know this is kind of not in the same catagory of relationship but i don't really know what to do. I split up from my 2yr g.f about a month ago and well the thing is, when i got with her i ditched my mates which was the worst thing i could do! ...

His ex made it hard for him to trust girls - how can I show him I'd never mess around on him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6536 days ago

29 January 2007 (F) - this is gonna be a long story but im gonna start from the beginning ok im gona call this guy xxx about 10 months ago when i was with my 2nd bf i met xxx and his gf. we hung out a bit and when me and this guy was alone usually for like 2 mins we f...

We are best friends.. How do I find out if he wants to take this to the next level?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

29 January 2007 (F) - Hi, i've known my best guy friend for practically 3 years. He's sort of like a player, always needs a girl around him. In fact, he never had a girl best friend all his like...and i'm his first ever girl best friend. We can talk about anything..but ...

Don't know if I love him or if I just really like him..which one is it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6536 days ago

28 January 2007 (F) - how do i know if im in love? iv known this lad 2 years and iv never met anyone like him we get on so!!! well lol its just he lives about a 3 hour drive away so we cant have a relationship, its just i always think about him and always want to see h...

I love my best friend's bf...do you think he likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

28 January 2007 (F) - Okay. I love my best friends boyfriend. Yes. Today we was all out together, Her, her bf, me, my bf. It was great! Then i said to her bf 'HUG ME' cos i scream it all the time lol And he did, but he gripped me so tightly its like he didnt wa...

Friendship loyalties and trouble among friends!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6524 days ago

28 January 2007 (F) - Me and this guy...We fancied each other for ages, about three months, but never went out. Suddenly he went out with one of my best friends. It's causing secrecy and lies in our friendship group, her and another friend feel they have to go off in ...

I really like my friend...should I wait until his fling is over??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6537 days ago

28 January 2007 (F) - I need an objective mans point of view, please!!! The problem is simple - I really like one of my good guy friends. What makes it complicated - our history as friends! Friends for 5 years, met in college - pretty much both liked each other but ne...

Two guys who are best friend both like me. I feel guilty for coming between two good friends! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6538 days ago

27 January 2007 (F) - Boy #1 and Boy #2 are best friends, both completely besotted with me. For one I cant understand it, I dont feel amazing, even when they tell me so. I'm best friends with Boy #2, and I dated Boy #1, which really made Boy #2 sad. After a little while ...

Having some trouble with Tami! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6536 days ago

27 January 2007 (F) - Hello everybody i would like to ask what to do about a girl I know Tami, a friend of mine who is just back from NY, I introduced her to my friends sometime ago so she got in our gang, she brought another girl Chris sometime and she was a attracted ...

How do I get her to completely trust me, after what I did? Any good advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6538 days ago

27 January 2007 (M) - The worst year of my life It all started with the internet oh the internet yea the internet Well me ,my mom, brothers ,and my dad was living in Kentucky, We weren't making much money, not enough to live on so we had internet...at the time....and ...

Does this guys just want to friends or does he want more? Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6538 days ago

26 January 2007 (F) - This guy , seems to make a big effort to chat with me, like he'll talk to me on msn when he's offline , and look for ages in the play ground to find me . Does he just wanna be mates ? ... or ? ?...

There was a slight misunderstanding between us but then she threatened to have me arrested!!! Is it just me or did she over react?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6539 days ago

26 January 2007 (M) - I am a divorced man, live alone, and have my kids every other weekend. There is a woman who lives a few doors down in my same complex. She appeared to be friendly, and we spoke occasionally outside when we ran into each other. The other night at ...

How do I tell my fiance he should only invite close friends to our wedding?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6539 days ago

26 January 2007 (F) - Ok so I am engaged and in the process of planning my wedding. I am working on the guest list and I am having some disagreements with my fiance. My fiance comes from a small town where everybody kinda knows everybody. He used to date this girl for ...

I'm concerned about my friend, she's the 'no sex before marrige' type and yet she's willing to give herself up in a relationship that has no future. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6539 days ago

26 January 2007 (F) - HI. This is actually about a friend of mine, I hope that's alright. Also, while it is a long story, I'll do my best to keep it as brief and concise as possible. Ok, here goes... This friend of mine is almost 24. She has had two boyfriends, before t...

I'm still in love w/ my ex - but he's talking w/ my mate! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6539 days ago

26 January 2007 (F) - right so this is kinda complicated but it's doing my head in. I USED to go out with this guy called Robert* and we've started getting close again, but he's talking to my mate Angela* and I found out they've been talking for ages now. It really p...

My friend told me she didn't like my ex - but she told others she did!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6539 days ago

26 January 2007 (F) - i went out with this guy for 8 months like a year ago now, but we have been on and off since last june, but recently one of my mates told me that he liked her... we have been mates for ages, and she has been with her bf for a year and a half, so she ...

My friends all have bfs and I'm feeling left out. How do I meet people?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6540 days ago

25 January 2007 (F) - Hi, it's quite depressing really, all my best friends have boyfriends but I don't. They spend loads of time with them and I always seem to be left out, I REALLY want one and there's loads of people I like, but they don't like me back. I really want ...

I fancy my best friend/ex bf but he's got a new girlfriend now! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6540 days ago

25 January 2007 (F) - Well its pretty simple... I fancy my best frind who is also my ex. We went out for a few weeks in June then i split up with him. Since then he has been obsessed with me an after everything we are now best friends. But he started going out with s...

She said she just now wants to be friends, but I want to give it another go, any ideas what I can do ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6540 days ago

25 January 2007 (?) - just before xmas i asked this girl out. she said she doesn't feel the same and she just wants to be friends now. i still love her, i talk to her everyday on msn. could i casually ask her out on valentines day? i just wanna give it another go. any ...

I think my bf didn't want me to meet his friend b/c he did something he wasn't supposed to while on a trip.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6541 days ago

24 January 2007 (F) - Am i being paranoid.. my b/f went on a trip last year for a week..he said he hung out with mostly with this one guy from work and this other guy..a lot of the other guys are older...but recently one of the older guys calling to go ride motorcycles...

I think she'd be better off w/out her bf, but is that b/c I'm jealous? Should I ask if she holds feelings for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6541 days ago

24 January 2007 (M) - hi all, this is a long story so i'll try to keep it brief. Basically, about 9 months ago me and this girl became friends. i did know her before from college, but never really spoke to her. after a while of being friends and getting along really w...

He helping his best friend open a strip club and this really bothers me! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6541 days ago

24 January 2007 (F) - Hi, Im having a problem or should i say a crisis in my relationship with my boyfriend of 6 months. Our relationship has been kinda rocky for about a month now and i don't know what to do. Im really stressed and i feel so alone in this whole thing. ...

I feel I can't trust my bf, but am I just being a clingy gf?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6540 days ago

24 January 2007 (F) - Hi everyone, i just need some friendly and honest advice. I'm 18 years old and have been with my Boyfriend for nearly 2 and a half years. he's in his first university which is a big (difficult) change for both of us, at the beginning things were ...

My friend who is only 17 is hell bent on having a child! But I think she's too young. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6541 days ago

23 January 2007 (F) - well this is about my friend, i'm not quite sure what to do. She turned 17 in october. She is in a long term relationship and she recently told me her and her partner had fallen out.They are still together though I asked her why and she said because ...