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writes:the guy i love said he kind of liked me and then said if he got to know me a little better he could start to love me and i was really happy. then he asked me how i want him to get to know me right after he said that. i thought in my head it sounds like he wants to get to know me, so me and him could go out.then my friend found out i liked him and asked him out and he said yes i cried all day at skool and alot of my friends hate her now cause she did that to me. me and her are still friends cause she didnt do it to make me mad. she also liked him and just asked him out. so all weekend i cried and cried myself to sleep and my friends tried to help but it didnt work. me and him are still friends and i dont think they will be together for a long time cause they dont have any classes together and dont talk alot to each other. me and him have soc.studies together and we ride each others bus and we sit close to each other sometimes and we talk like 24-7 so i would think he would be better off datin me, dont you think?my ex boyfriend's best friend Nick* asked me out but i said no cuz im waitin for the guy i love and me and Nick dont go to the same skool so im scared of gettin hurt.so my ? is should i be mad at my friends since basiclly she did take him from me and what should i do about Nick asking me out? should i say yes and just date him to get over Alex*? and also i told Josie* - my friend who took him - i told her i never liked Alex (the guy i love). ive always loved him, ive never liked him, but i sure have always loved him. so what should i do? helppppppp me plzzz* names changed
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reader, xLEAHx  +, writes (30 January 2007):
 Hunny,
This guy alex who said he'd like to get to know you better,couldn't of wanted you that much to get together with your friend, my advise would be to forget him because
if he was ever interested in you he wouldnt have chose your friend over you, especially when he knew you liked him.. as for love you say you have for this guy its proberly more of a crush not love hunny,as regards to your so called friend josie that knew you liked this guy alex, and crept her way into asking him out is no friend, more of a bag stabber and you don't need so called friends like that who go behind your back and hurt you, so i'd forget your so called friend josie and the guy alex you have the crush on and move on and take this guy (nick ) up on his offer why not give it a go...
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reader, AskEve +, writes (30 January 2007):
 The boy you love was quick to go out with your friend when she asked him so I certainly wouldn't wait for him. There's no reason why you can't go out with Nick and be friends with him and see what develops. If the guy you loved really liked you then (like you) he would have said no to your friend Josie but he didn't, which means he was all talk. If he does like you and wanted to go out with you, he wouldn't be long telling one of his friends or one of your friends for that matter so you would know.
As you said, your friend Josie liked this guy too and you did only tell her you liked him (as I'm sure she told you she liked him too.) Forget it, he's not worth it love. Don't jeopardise your friendship with Josie for a guy who is only "lukewarm" about you. Go out with Nick and have a ball. You are still very young and have years ahead of you to get to know different guys. The right one will come along when the time is right and what's more you'll KNOW he's the right one for you. ;o)
Eve
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