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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes: i need some advice. someone keeps trying to hack into my friend's internet accounts and i think she thinks it's me. It's the way she says things like "well the person hacking in must be a close friend because they have my password, know when I'm home from work on my break" and things like that - things only I would know. She also asked if it was me in a jokey way but I know she was being serious. I would never hack into her account and im really upset that she could even think it was me. How can I approach her without sounding guilty because everything I say seems to make me sound guilty. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, cd206 +, writes (31 January 2007):
Why not tell her to change her password and not to tell you what it is? Tell her that it's not you hacking but that by changing her password she'll be able to stop whoever it is. By suggesting this you're showing her you care that this is resolved and someone who enjoys hacking surely wouldn't suggest this?
CD
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reader, AskEve +, writes (30 January 2007):
Tell her again that it certainly wasn't you, then suggest to her that she changes her password so even YOU don't know it! Are you the only one she's told her password to? Is she sure about that?
Changing her password is the simple solution here, that way, if she doesn't tell it to you then she'll know for a fact it isn't you.
Eve
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