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She just wants to be friends...so how do I find ways to spend time with her,after school. Any ideas?

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Question - (30 January 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 31 January 2007)
A , anonymous writes:

i really like this girl in my school. i've known her for years. she is a close mate now since 6 months ago. once she found out i had a crush on her so she was really weird and didn't talk much. but as soon as she found out i fancy this girl and asked her for advice she feels really really easy talkin to me and talks alot about it etc. it show's me she just wants to be friends. i want to spend time with her outside of school. any ideas? i dont want it to be awkward or somethin like cinema. that's too close kind of thing. i just want to be friends. any ideas?

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A female reader, xkimx United Kingdom +, writes (31 January 2007):

xkimx agony auntjust ask her if she wants to hang out go places it shouldnt have to be akward your FRIENDS ! , iv got a best friend he is a boy and he fancies me but i dont fancy him but we will allways be bst friends , i can be the same 4 you's

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A female reader, AskEve United Kingdom +, writes (30 January 2007):

AskEve agony auntShe probably does like you as a friend and when she heard you had a crush on you it frightened her off. Now she knows you may like someone else she is fine again to be friends with you. Why don't you ask her to go bowling with you one night or even just to hang out and go for a coffee or a coke - as friends of course? Go to the funfair or for a pizza, anywhere where's there people around. Get to know one another better. I'm sure you'll both have fun together and if anything else develops along the way then all the better but take it slow, don't expect anything more than friendship from her or you'll scare her off again.

Good luck ;o)

Eve

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