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writes: I've got two problems:1. My best friend (call him person A) is a guy and every keeps saying we fancy each other and I'm not sure if they mean or are just messing around. Whenever someone asks me if I fancy person A, I never know what to say because I never really thought about it2. I'm a bit bigger than most girls my age and I don't get on with girls so I hang around with guys but none of them like like me. I don't know whether guys don't like me because I'm 'big' and not very girly. or whether all guys are jerks.please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2007): Let's say the world has 3.2 billion men. Wow, that's a lot of jerks, including myself.
[ponders]
Sarcasm aside, you're at an age where looks are important and come directly first for many teens looking for relationships of that sort. This cannot be helped. It is also possible you are going after the type of boys who are like that in the first place. The expectation that all men or boys are anti-chubby is very inaccurate. This depends on quite a few factors of attraction.
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reader, kenny  +, writes (30 January 2007):
 I woulden't go so far as to say all guys are jerks, admittedly there are jerks out there, but there are some nice guys too.
If a guy dosen't like you because you are big, they are not worth it anyway. Find someone who likes you for who you are.
Do you fancy person A?. Do you think he fancies you?.
People obviously think there is something between the two of you because they ask you if you fancy him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2007): for a start off does person A like you and would you consider a relationship with him forget what other people think.
and as guys mot liking you cuz your big well i would nt give them the time of day one day you will meet someone who will like you for you and not for your size as long as your happy, people who have a problem with you have nothing better to do with their lives. i would rather spend time with the lads any day than girls girls are bitchy lads can be better mates without strings attached
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