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writes: I have recently found out that my girlfriend has said, 'she would not have gone out with me' if 'i'd have had girls as friends or a girlfriend before i met her'. She has said she wouldn't have liked it if i'd have had girl friends or a girlfriend, yet, she had a boyfriend before she met me who was a total idiot and she had boys as friends before she met me.When I started college I started too make friends in my class, who some were girls. At this time I was not going out with my girlfriend just talking and she got very upset because she found out I was talking to a girl. I get the impression that she thinks she can talk too other lads and it not be a problem as she always states a number of times that 'She loves me more' and 'She feels more strongly about the relationship'. When she says this i tend too get fed up and I find it quite off putting.I found most of her comments unfair and its been on my mind for a number of months. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2007): You have to have a level balance. If it is ok for her to have male friends then it is ok for you to have friends too. How long have you two gone together? If it is a new relationship then these things need to be sorted out from day one! If you have been together for a while then why have you left it so long like this? Have a chat with her and point out just how you feel and find out why she if feeling so insecure.
Take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2007): You have to have a level balance. If it is ok for her to have male friends then it is ok for you to have friends too. How long have you two gone together? If it is a new relationship then these things need to be sorted out from day one! If you have been together for a while then why have you left it so long like this? Have a chat with her and point out just how you feel and find out why she if feeling so insecure.
Take care
xx
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (30 January 2007):
 You both need to sit down and talk. It sounds to me she's very possessive of you. SHE can talk to other guys but you're not allowed to. Come on... what's good for the goose so to speak. She needs to trust you more and grow up a bit. If she can't give you some space then maybe she's not the right one for you. Talking with a girl is very different from being unfaithful to her, let her know that. She has the problem here, not you, and if she continues to be too jealous and possessive of you then I think you'd be better looking elsewhere as this relationship (the way it is) will only bring you misery.
Eve
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