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writes:Hi everyone, i just need some friendly and honest advice. I'm 18 years old and have been with my Boyfriend for nearly 2 and a half years. he's in his first university which is a big (difficult) change for both of us, at the beginning things were great, but i was a bit paranoid about cheating etc. and whilst i see him most weekends, lately i've been feeling as though i cant trust him and that his firends come before me! he recently visited prague with the boys for a week, and only told me the day before, he always goes out and never considers my feelings. am i kidding myself into thinking this relationship will last? or am i just being a clingy girlfriend? thanks xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2007): Thank you both for your help. it is really appreciated! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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reader, pink fraggle +, writes (25 January 2007):
 how long is he there? Another 2 long years maybe. I went to uni and had a boyfriend and much like your situation i started hanging around with people there and me and my boyfriend agreed it just wasnt happening. I think you need to get out girl and have fun. Keep your options open. I think the best thing is to start looking for someone else. You be honest with your boyfriend and tell him that you want your relationship on hold because you dont think its the best way for a relationship. Does that make sense! :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2007): I know what you mean in a lot of ways hun. Not trusting someone with no proof that he is doing anything is the hardest thing. Especially when he is not being understanding of how you feel. Have you tried tp talk to him about this?
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