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*addy1990
writes:hi all, this is a long story so i'll try to keep it brief.Basically, about 9 months ago me and this girl became friends. i did know her before from college, but never really spoke to her. after a while of being friends and getting along really well, she admitted that she used to like me before and after she was with this other guy, and dropped a massive hint that she still liked me now. Things were fine after that, we saw a lot more of each other and she did flirt with me a lot, but we never actually asked each other out, even though it was obvious to each other that we both liked each other.One day i decided to tell her how i felt about her. here comes the bombshell, literally an hour before i asked her out, she said yes to another guy. Needless to say i was completely devastated but i carried on with normal life. 3 months on, shes still with this guy and says shes in love with him, but recently they've been having troubles with things involved with her past.i cant stop thinking about her and i think im in love with her, as every day i think about her. while she's been with this guy, i've noticed her personality changing dramatically, and secretly i think she'd be better off without him, but that might just be jealousy.i still think she holds feelings for me, but i cant bring myself to ask her about it. please help! what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2007): Dont worry, she might not even like this guy, she could just be tierd of waiting for you to ask her out so trying to make you jealous, don't tell her that you think she'd be better off with out him as she may think you're trying to split them up, and don't try to split them up, see what happens, no ones going to get married or anything, just see what happens and if they split up you wount feel guilty about making your move!
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reader, cd206 +, writes (24 January 2007):
 To be honest I think if she really held feelings for you she wouldn't be able to be with another guy. She'd have waited until you saw the error of your ways and liked her as much as she liked you. Just remain friends and be there for her when they break up. If she really has feelings for you they won't last that long.
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