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writes: Am i being paranoid..my b/f went on a trip last year for a week..he said he hung out with mostly with this one guy from work and this other guy..a lot of the other guys are older...but recently one of the older guys calling to go ride motorcycles possibly and i would go too..and then the guy mentioned my b/f's kind of friend from work..and my b/f said no he doesnt wanna invite him, he is kind of annoying..i remember on the trip..my b/f did say a few things about him BUT towards then end he said, everything is fine with him, he seems cool..For some reason, my mind is thinking does he not want me around this guy b/c he might slip and say something(maybe my b/f did something he wasnt supposed to on this trip and thats why didnt want to invite the guy this time knowing i was there) What if they go away again and he mentions this guy is going..why is ok for a trip with him but that time we might have met up, my b/f didnt want to invite himAm i just completely reaching and digging too deep? Reply to this Question
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reader, cd206  +, writes (24 January 2007):
 Don't let paranoia ruin your relationship. Forget it. He's not cheating on you unless you have definitive reasons to suspect him and right now you have nothing.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (24 January 2007):
 You're digging a DEEEEEEEEP hole. "What if they go away again?" That is big what if. By the way, there are amillion others too. Pick another to worry about. It is endless. You trust him or you don't. I know it's easier said than done but if you argue the point in your head, you'll always come up with the evidence you need to come to either a good or bad conclusion.
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