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Archived questions from: January, 2011 (see latest in Forbidden love category)

Forbidden love: Help and advice

Recently reconnected after 20 yrs. Should I give up on this relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I am in need of some advice. I recently got back in touch with my first love through facebook and we spent hours talking and texting. I am in the very beginning stages of a divorce and and he is completely single. This is a long distance relation...

What are the signs of a student-teacher affair?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I want to know what is the sign of an teacher-student affair. If a student get poor result, and she wrote a sorry letter at the back of her exercise worksheet to that teacher saying that she should work harder later, then that teacher didn't g...

Fell in love, married, had children, & struggled with monogamy. Now the wife wants to leave. Why are we doing this to our kids?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - Is "male nature" setting us back again? No where in the animal kingdom do we see monogamy more prominent as we see it in human nature. Or is monogamy just something woman have come to believe as true? I, like most men, fell in love with a beautifu...

This girl likes me and my friend, but ended up dating my friend!

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30 January 2011 (M) - Well i am really confused on what to do because i really really like this girl and she likes me too the same way she likes her boyfriend who is my friend, they went out and i am really jelous and i still like her so much and i dont know what to do?? ...

We both have partners, but we're in love! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - My situation is awkward! I have been close friends with a guy in another country for a couple of years. We get on great together, have so much in common, and have met a few times in real life, which were fantastic. The problem is he has a partner ...

My boyfriends parents do not accept our relationship, and I am engaged to someone else!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - (Moderator note: please note the nationality of the question-asker before answering) I have a boyfriend. I love him alot, but his parents torture me and are abusing me. They hate me but my bf loves me alot and I also love him But his parents do n...

My gay best friend traded me in for a new girl friend!

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30 January 2011 (F) - i have been going through a on and off friendship with my best friend guy... he is gay.. we were so well in the beginning of last year but ever since a new girl came into work with us... he has change he spends more time with her.. and seeing them ...

How do I win him back when he has a girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - okay well i have been on and off with this guy for the past couple of years and now. we have dated at least 4 times. but ever time we break up i always go to the begging him back thing. our last break up he just kinda ended it, i accepted it at ...

In lust with a married man

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - Hi. I need some help. I really don't know what to do anymore. I am in lust with a married man and I can't get out. I can't stop wanting him! I know he can never be mine. But yet I still want him. It's been a year and a half that we've been friends....

He left me saying there was no future, but I love him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5055 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - Me and my beloved were together from the last 2 years. 6 months back he left for another country. He left me saying that there's no future(and was trying to ignore me from last 3 months). Yeah,i know we two are from different caste and his family is ...

Should I continue waiting for my married lover, or am I being taken for a ride?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

27 January 2011 (M) - Greetings All! I have worked with this person for two years and have always had a mutual great feeling. We began an active relationship last year. I was in process of a divorce, but the feelings for her were very real and true. She put forth the ...

I had sex with my mother's friend. I'm worried she will find out!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - Hi. So I'm a bit a stuck with a situation and I don't know how to get out! My parents are both in their mid 40s, I'm 18, and I have a 4 week old daughter. I've been through shit (I guess it's relevant to say), and my parents have recently been ...

Should I tell her that her fiance cheated on her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - Last summer, I met a guy. Well, we were just friends. We hung out with each a few times. He introduced me to his friends and introduced him to my sister. I thought we were going to begin a relationship. Well, he went home to visit family. A few da...

I love him & he loves me, but he has a girlfriend! How do I win him over?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - My issue is confusing me. I'm absolutely head over heals for this guy at work, but he has a girlfriend. Truth is he has been with this girl almost 2 yrs and he complains about her every single day to me. I'm sure he cares about her, but he has just ...

Maybe he could be mine on Valentine's Day?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - Here is the thing, i love a guy who is studying with me but he has a girlfriend, but i feel like he cares too much for me and i don't know where this is going! any help? or advice? or whatever? i am really desperate with valentine coming up and i...

Boyfriend claims he love me. So why does he sleep around?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - If my boyfriend says he loves me, then why does he engage in casual sex with others? ...

How do I stop comparing him to how he was when we just had a sexual relationship to now being in a real gf/bf relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - I need some advice. I have been seeing this guy for a few years but we were both married at the time. Now we are both currently divorced and want to try and make this a "real" relationship. I can't help but feel so insecure and jealous when he says ...

Is there something going on between my mother and my cousin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - It may sound wierd at first but ... just hear me out. So Last year I went abroad with my mum to meet family and since we hadn't seen them in 3 years or so. We stayed over my cousins on my dad's side. My dad's mum's brother's house...so basically my ...

I want my professor!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5081 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - If the title i suggested is shown, you know what this question is about--I want my professor. Before anyone tells me how terrible this is, don't do it, you'll ruin his career--here's some info: He's a 27 year old Grad student working on his P...

My wife has webcam sex chats with men, and hides things from me. Should I be worried?

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

22 January 2011 (M) - My wife does webcam sex chats and hides a lot of stuff from me. Should I be worried? ...

Reality versus Illusion

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5053 days ago

22 January 2011 (M) - In reflecting upon a relationship I had with a girl last year, I think a source of the many problems I had was my confusion of the illusion I had of her and what our relationship was with the reality. I thought I would relate a little bit about it ...

Tell me if she is interested in sex with me, and then how do do that?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

22 January 2011 (M) - I'm 18 year old. I'm very intrested in sex. But i yet didn't do that. I have an aunty with a child.she is a village girl with less education. She is so sexy. White looking and have amazing boobs. I want to do sex with her. I want to know if she is ...

Should I tell my teacher how I feel about him?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - Basically I'm in love with my teacher, yeah you've heard it all before I understand, this is just typical, he pays me special attention, touches my body like waist and arms. He makes jokes that can be taken in different ways and says things I could ...

This guy runs a mile everytime I see him, what have I done?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - Hello everyone who takes the time to read this. Im sorry it will probably be long and maybe confuss you but Ill try to keep it short and simple. Ok i go to University and I share a Maisonette with 12 people (including me) we are seperated by 2 fla...

I can't seem to get over my first love

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - I can't seem to get over my first love. We've known each other since high school, we never were a couple. I was in love with him when he was not in love with me, then the tables turned several times during the course of what is now a 20-year ...

Is this relationship illegal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - hi i am 16 and i have feeling for my 1st cousin who is 18 and has feelings for me. Is it illegal in the UK to start a relationship with him or should i just ignore my feeling ? I am worried what will happen and what otheres will think but also what ...

In love with my boyfriend, but I still feel drawn to my ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

20 January 2011 (F) - I have this problem and it’s more of an emotional problem. My boyfriend and I have been happily dating for almost a year. During that time, my ex has been talking to me a lot and begging for me back because he hasn’t given up on me. He doesn’t do ...

Younger woman said she loved me, but now that she's single, she is avoiding me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

20 January 2011 (M) - Ok, I met a girl about 6 months ago at her work, and when i walked out the door to leave her manager came outside to tell me that this girl said that I was going to be her husband one day. Well after about a week or so me and this girl exchanged ...

Sleeping with my friend's boyfriend!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

20 January 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid I'm young girl whose feels like I'm not a true friend to my friend. First of all i don't want to be judged cause I'm only human. I've been cheating with my friend's boyfriend and no i don't have a boyfriend. The thing is this guy want...

I told him "thank you" but I don't think that's enough!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

20 January 2011 (F) - There is something that happened to me 2 days ago. I was in an accident of car crash. I'm ok cuz I was just release a break when a bicycle suddenly came and blocked my path. Do you believe it that it cross another car that was in the opposite ...

I'm a teen who's in love with a married men, but I need to get over him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3149 days ago

20 January 2011 (F) - This is probably going to be a long question, so i'll just get straight to the point.. i can't stop thinking about this married man. I'm 16 and he's in the his mid 30's, he lives near me so my parents are quite close with him and his wife. Although, ...

I surely like my best friend's uncle!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - My Best Friends uncle is very handsome but he's 7 years older than me. On New Year's, we'd had a drink and shared a kiss. We now talk from time to time over text and he puts kisses and calls me beautiful and speaks fondly of me. Does this mean he ...

Do I go for broke and tell her how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5086 days ago

18 January 2011 (M) - I'm in a situation that is really frustrating me. I'm a mature student who has returned to education and I'm currently at university. My problem is like this. I attend a tutorial class once a week where a post-grad student tutors us. Well...

21 year old dating a 16 year old... how do I make people understand we are serious?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

17 January 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid, I've recently been seeing this girl who is the sister of a work collegue. We get on like a house on fire, shes sweet, thoughtful and drop dead gorgeous but there is one thing holding me back and that's a gap between our ages, i'm 21 and...

The girl I have been chasing doesn't have interest in me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

16 January 2011 (M) - Recently, the girl I have been chasing doesn't seems to have interest with me (based on what we have been talking during a long conversation, and ONLY IF it is honest reply which I hope...) It has been clear that this girl have low esteem, she ...

Arranged marriage is ruining my life!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

16 January 2011 (M) - Aight so here is the situation. I had a girlfriend (Egyptian Muslim) who I really cared for and loved. Recently her mother died and she has decided that she is going to go through with an arranged marriage because her mom was trying to hook her up ...

I think he likes me, but I'll take being friends too.

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16 January 2011 (F) - Okay...So i like this guy. He was in my graphics class last year, there were a lot of hints thinking back to maybe he could just like me too. But now he has a girlfriend...My friends are aware i like him, obviously being my friends..Well i think th...

Single mom with her son's best friend?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

15 January 2011 (F) - Single mom with her sons friend? I'm a single 47 year old woman and I have an 18 year old son. I've been divorced for 5 years and haven't had sex since. My son has a very cute best friend who is also 18. They've been best friends for years. Every ti...

Should we keep it as step bro and sis or do we explore what could be?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

15 January 2011 (F) - ive recently become reacquainted w my "stepbrother" we havent seen each other in over 20 yrs. my mom married his dad and his dad adopted me and my sister. he has since past away. i didn't know my step brother growing up we only lived together about ...

In love with my manager, how do I get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

15 January 2011 (F) - A little background for you all: I've always been an obsessive person, when I fall for someone, I fall HARD. I'm 18 years old, and I've never had a boyfriend; I had very strong feelings for my best guy friend throughout my teens. In college when I ...

I'm I crazy for liking another cousin???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

14 January 2011 (F) - I'm I crazy?? I have just barely gotten over my second cousin. With whom I did not have a relationship with but liked him for a long time. The feelings were mutual for a time, but some things happened and I stopped visiting the family. This is a ...

Her family don't want us in contact after we texted. I'm wondering how I should address this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

14 January 2011 (M) - My lady friend's daughter snooped her phone and caught us cyber-sex-ting She is 72 and I am 69 and now they will not let me see her mother. Any advice? It was only texting and nothing being acted out. They say she has memory problems, which she does ...

I'm afraid I'm in love with my 1st cousin!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

14 January 2011 (F) - I am afraid I'm in love with my first cousin. I think he feels the same way but when he tells me he loves me in text messages and emails I am afraid to question it. We have been seeing eachother intimately for 4 months now. We have known each ...

Help! Get me out of the friend zone!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

12 January 2011 (M) - I've know this girl for about two months now and I've been trying to meet up with her one on one, to spend more time with her personally rather than in groups and that outside of college. The thing is, I have ended up in the friend zone. ...

I asked out my best friend, she declined and started dating some new guy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

12 January 2011 (M) - I love a girl a lot who is my best friend and I asked her out but she refused and went out with another guy. I told her everything I did I do it for her including when she was upset that another guy took two weeks to decide to ask her out, I w...

Is he just a girl magnet?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

12 January 2011 (F) - Ok.. So i'm only 15 and I don't have much experience with relationships but I really like this boy that lives on my street. I see him almost eveyday and he's best friend's with my sister so he comes to my house a lot but he doesnt fancy my sister b...

Can sophomores date freshmen?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

12 January 2011 (M) - This may seem like a silly question when compared to the degree of severety other questions on this website demand, but I am doubtful of my own reasoning. I recently have acquired an infatuation for this girl who's a grade below me. She is very ...

Every time I go to ask her out, she is always telling me how she likes someone else!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5093 days ago

12 January 2011 (M) - Hello. I've been talking to this girl, let's call her Kia, on a friendship basis since about late September, early October. I've always kind of liked her before, but since we've been talking I'm really liking her a whole lot, and I thought she liked ...

My boyfriend wants to be a father figure for this other girl's child!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

11 January 2011 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for five years and weve hit some rough spots every now and then. 2 years into our relationship he cheated on me with this girl he worked with. we ended up working through it and stayed together and since then he has ...

My crush is moving on up in the world!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 January 2011 (F) - Dear cupid. i dont no what to do. the guy who have the biggest crush is leaving school for collage about 2 months. im heartbroken because ive been crushing on him for about two years and now hes going and i cant move on everything i do reminds ...