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writes:Here is the thing, i love a guy who is studying with me but he has a girlfriend, but i feel like he cares too much for me and i don't know where this is going! any help? or advice? or whatever? i am really desperate with valentine coming up and i have no boyfriend.
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reader, kirra07  +, writes (26 January 2011):
Whatever you do, do not pursue him while he is with someone else. If you do, first you will get a reputation as a relationship wrecker. Also, he will either lose respect for you, or he will cheat/and or leave his gf for you and you will be with a guy who is not faithful or loyal. Valentine's Day is just another day of the year. 2 years ago, I had just recently broken up with my bf before Valentine's Day, and was really upset because I had to go to a concert that day without him because we weren't together anymore. But it turned out to be alright, just went with a friend instead. Valentine's Day with a bf is extra special when you're both in love. This close to Valentine's Day, it's unlikely you'll find someone and fall in love, and then it probably will be awkward (same as when you just start dating someone before Christmas and you wonder if you need to get them anything). Just relax, meet some new single people, and see if maybe next Valentine's Day you will be celebrating while in a steady relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2011): My advice is moreso on being "desperate" with Valentine's day coming up. It's a couples holiday yes, but that doesn't mean you're pathetic for not having someone to spend it with. Millions of people worldwide are single and don't do anything for the day, there's no shame in it. You'll get a boyfriend on your own time, you don't need to rush anything just because you want someone to send you flowers on Valentine's. It's simply one day out of the year, and more often than not... boyfriends don't need to use the day to do something sweet/romantic for their woman when they have the entire year to act on those feelings.
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reader, fairygal77  +, writes (25 January 2011):
Either wait til he decides on his own to leave his gf or put ur interests into someone else cuz as of now he's taken. If he really wants to be with you he will make it happen on his own and until then date around (theres always a good chance if he see's you with someone else it might open his eyes)
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