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Archived questions from: August, 2010 (see latest in Forbidden love category)

Forbidden love: Help and advice

I am pretty sure that I have fallen in love with a co-worker.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

31 August 2010 (?) - I am someone can give me some advice. I am in a dilemma that I cannot goto anyone else in my life for advice. I am pretty sure that I have fallen in love with a co-worker. We instantlly clicked and he makes me feel things I have never felt before ...

Is it wrong for me to fancy my cousin?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - hi im 17 my cousin is 25 my whole family (all aunts uncles cousins etc.) went out 4 a meal and a few drinks in the hotel afterwards , my family and my cousins family were still there late in the night when i was going i said goodbye 2 my cousin and ...

How can I let go of this' office' attraction when it's going nowhere?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - Mod note:OP's own title I have a situation with a guy at work, we are both married and there has been a very strong attraction beween us for 14 months . We are at the point where we are wanting to touch each other whenever possible although n...

Question about dating my third cousin

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

30 August 2010 (M) - Ok I'm dating my third cousin. Now I look things up and found out by time it your third cousin it like if you had it with anyone else now here my problem her grandpa and grandma were cousin and since my mom was the 9th child of my grandma her bro is ...

A love that's wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

30 August 2010 (M) - I wanted to share my story with somebody as I'm in a situation that is eating away at me, causing me sleepless nights and affecting me in a way I never thought anything would. The cause of my problem is that I am deeply in love with my wife's s...

How can I get people to accept I am with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5236 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - Hi, im a 19 year old female and around 5 months ago at a work function i ended up hooking up with my 36 year old manager. we both decided against going home together and it happened under the influence of a serious amount of alcohol. but after that ...

Does not sleeping at the same place while on vacation mean that he is sneaking out and about?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - My bf and I visit our parents once in a couple of months.. The thing is that every time we come down to visit our parents we go apart. Right now we came for 10 days and I am staying at my parents and he is staying at his parents. My bf says that ...

I have fallen in love with my ex wife's cousin

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5236 days ago

30 August 2010 (M) - I am stuck between a rock and a hard place. I am a divorced man 38 yrs old with 2 great kids. I have been divorced for 10 yrs. I have recently fallin in love with my xwifes cousin. I feel My xwife has turned my kids against me. We stopped seeing ...

I stupidly love a married man. How do I move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - I met a married man in my local pub a couple of years ago. We struck up an instant, flirty friendship and that continued for ages. Just recently things have progressed and we have had sex. I don't ring or text him and we never arrange to meet, it is ...

I'm in love with a youtube sensation!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

29 August 2010 (M) - I really need help on this issue I have. I'm a 17 year old male, and I'm gay. I've dismissed the idea of love to focus on my school work, but during early this year I fell in love with a youtube sensation. I really love him, I really do. When I ...

I wonder if there is a future for me with this man

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - i've been in an relationship since October 2009. I'm white, and my boyfriend is from Bangladesh. I love him deeply, he's the most amazing person I have ever met, he always makes me laugh,he's so sweet and kind it's almost unbelievable. but i have ...

I am in love with my deceased Uncle's wife! Is this wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

29 August 2010 (M) - hi everyone. i have previously posted my question but i would like to hear more advice from people so i am reposting it. thank you very much! i am in love with my aunt. im 21 and shes 34. my uncle passed away 3 years ago and shes been single sin...

In love with my aunt..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

28 August 2010 (M) - hi. i am in love with my aunt. im 21 and shes 34. my uncle passed away 3 years ago and shes been single since. it happen one night when we drank and kissed. we both realise it might not be acceptable by somebody, but i dont feel any guilt out of it. ...

I think I'm in love with my therapist

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

27 August 2010 (F) - I googled this topic recently when I started to have strong feelings for my therapist recently. I read all about transference and many other cases where patients have felt these strong feelings toward their therapist so I know it's not uncommon. I ...

I'm truly in love with my teacher, should I wait 2 years to be with him?

This question has 37 answers - newest was posted 3639 days ago

26 August 2010 (F) - I'm in love with my 35 year old maths teacher... and, please don't tell me it's just a crush, because I've researched into what love feels like, and I asked my mum (not telling her about my teacher though) so I know for sure that I'm in love with ...

HELP I want to sleep with my dads best friend

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

25 August 2010 (F) - hi i am in a bit of a pickle my dad is 42 and his best fried is 38 i was introduced to him when i was 12 but now i am 18 i am a adult and my feelings to him have got stronger he is single. i think he likes me too he comes over to our house ...

In love with my older cousin. Should I tell her? How?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

25 August 2010 (M) - i'm 15 and for almost a year i have like my cousin, she makes me feel very turned on. she is about 21 and looks amazing . I want to tell her how feel about her but idk if she'll understand or mabye ill just make it worse My question is ho...

Two years age difference..not bad at all right?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

25 August 2010 (F) - okay soooo.. i have been talking to this guy since the summer before i was going into eighth grade it's the summer before tenth grade now, and my mom still wont let me date him.. i'm fifteen and he's seventeen.. its TWO YEARS! why wont she just lig...

We are not wanted together!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5242 days ago

24 August 2010 (F) - This guy and i are really in love but the problem is we arent wanted together my many people. We have liked each other for a while, and he is in the wrong kind of group thanks to his parents who show no interest in him or his problems what-so-ever, ...

I'm 8 months pregnant with his child, but he has a girlfriend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

24 August 2010 (F) - I am dating this man for 11 months and am 8 months pregnant with his child i know he have a girlfriend and they have a 5 year old daughter but i want him to live here and be with me and our child what can i do? ...

Older woman w/ a younger man

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

24 August 2010 (F) - is it wrong for me to have a relationship with a 17yr lad i am a 33yr woman with 2 children, i don't look 33 and he doesn't look 17, we both are very much in love so i wanted to know does age really matter if you're happy?...

A black guy asked me to home coming but my stepfather is racist!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

24 August 2010 (F) - I am 15, and this guy I really like just asked me out and suggested we go to homecoming together, there's only one problem...he's black. He's a really great guy, and I'd love to go with him. I don't think my Mom would mind, but it's my step-dad and ...

Confused student- Teacher Relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

21 August 2010 (F) - Hey, I'm new to this. First post. Before I start I guess I should give some background on my situation. For the last 8 years of my life I've lived with my mother, who has untreated mental problem, we think it's bipolar personality ...

Update: "How can I truly rid myself of this married man?"

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

20 August 2010 (F) - Update: I am the one who asked "How can I truly rid myself of this married man?" Well, I haven't "shaken" dude away from me yet. I keep going back and forth. He came over to my house (no, we weren't intimate). I started to cry because I wanted to be ...

Teachers can just dismiss a confession email, right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

20 August 2010 (F) - I sent an email to a teacher at my old school, just quickly saying that I have a crush on him. Here is what I put: "I'm pretty sure you don't know who I am, so you must be wondering what in the world this is. I've got a crush on you. Obviousl...

Recently I fell in love with my best friend's wife!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

19 August 2010 (M) - hi i am jon, i love my wife vary much but recently i fall in love with my best frind wife, i dont know she love me or not, but she like me, we talk many hours everyday over phone, she never disclose her fleeing about me but i indirectly infromed her ...

I'm in love with a famous guy and wonder what this means about my long distance relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

19 August 2010 (F) - I am in love with a famous guy, he is not really a celebrity. I have a boyfriend in wich we have been in a long distance relationship for 5 years, and I am afraid that I might lose interest in him. This famous guy tht I am having feelings for, I ...

Advice on secretive ways to keep in touch

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

17 August 2010 (M) - Hi guys, Well, My girlfriend recently moved from New York To Arizona. I am stuck here in New York. Her mom never liked to see us together. EVER. She tried to separate us many times. Of course, we always got back together. Thats love. You cannot...

She has a Boyfriend, but I can't stop thinking about her!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

17 August 2010 (?) - I have liked this girl for a while and she has a boyfriend and the other day she came to a party at my place on a Sat. At the end of the night we got together and on the Monday she said that it was a mistake and she just wanted to forget it. i felt ...

Is it normal to have sexual urges/ fantasies about my cousin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3076 days ago

16 August 2010 (M) - I am a 17 year old boy and I have an obsession over my older female cousin who is 19 and really hot. We've both live together for many years, and when we're at home, she would wear only her underwear (bra/panties and sometimes a shirt) around the ...

Dating my cousin. How judgemental will society be?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

16 August 2010 (M) - Hello, I am a male and I'm dating my cousin. She is not blood related to me, but do you think that people will still judge and criticize us? I love her very much and I want to be with her. I just hope people won't judge us....

Am I attracted to my own twin sister??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

16 August 2010 (F) - hi, im having an overwhelming problem. i have a twin sister, who is the love of my life, literally. i have been attracted to her for a few months now, i would normally think, why dont you ask her out? but this is my SISTER! i am bi, and as a mat...

I'm addicted to other men's wives.....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

13 August 2010 (M) - I am addicted to other men's wives. I love sex, but honestly, only when it is with a married woman. There is just something so taboo about it. I have no boundaries, I've slept with co-worker's wives, , the neighbor's wife, two of my three brot...

Impossible Love and Missing Her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

13 August 2010 (M) - I am married to a good person. We actually get along well and try to take care of each other on a day to day basis. In many ways I feel as if I am married to my sister or to a favorite aunt who also happens to be a workaholic and who has virtually ...

Deeply in love with my cousin, don't know how she feels and it's making me depressed.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

13 August 2010 (M) - Hi, This is probably the most awkward and most frustrating problem i probably have had to deal with my whole life. I Will start it off by reciting the story. I moved to the US at age 2 and i was born in South India ( Kerala). I usually go to India...

Is this considered incest?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

11 August 2010 (M) - [Mod Note - OP's own title] I recently visited my cousin during my vacation in LA. She's my first cousin and she's a very attractive girl. We're both also 29 years old. While we were hanging out I asked her about the night clubs in LA. She said...

In love with a married man. Know it's wrong but don't know what to do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

10 August 2010 (F) - Oh help me! I met a man online in January. We hit it off right away. We can talk easily, we laugh, etc... A couple of weeks into it I guessed he was married. He said he couldnt lie and that he was - unhappily. He tells me they only have sex on...

I like my oldest step brother but my mum told me not to fool around with him!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

10 August 2010 (F) - I'm getting 2 step brothers and I'm sorta starting to like the oldest one, B.he's the same age as me and about a month ago he wanted to fool around but I stopped it cause my mom had a chat with me saying it was wrong to fool around with each other ...

Is my teacher interested in me? And will he still be thinking of me even though its been a few months?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

10 August 2010 (M) - im 16 years old and ive always been into older men. i hope that i dont sound crazy. i was in acting class and my acting teacher stared at me and gave me this sexy smile like he wanted me. when he told us told do an certain exercise he put his arms ...

I am in love with my brother!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

9 August 2010 (F) - Me and my brother are in love with each other. He is not that related to me but from the same kindred. The problem is that we can't tell each other how we feel and its killing me inside and even if we should do, we can't date cos he is my brother. ...

Unreqited love - best friends

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

7 August 2010 (M) - what should i do? so.. a few months ago i posted another question, cause i had a problem.. i started having feelings for my best friend (female best friend) and we were almost like brothers we were best friend, i wanted to tell her what i feel but...

what do guys mean by take care?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2655 days ago

7 August 2010 (F) - Mode Note OP's own title: I have a close guy friend,we've agreed we have feelings for each other but he isnt single and Im not prepared to take things further in this situation. We crossed the friendship boundary once but have gone back to frie...

Will it be strange to continue to see my old teacher now he has moved positions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5257 days ago

5 August 2010 (F) - I have liked this tteacher for about 2 years now. It gets me really depressed sometimes but then again i think its good because i focous on my studies more and stuff.He has now moved to a different position within school so i dont get to see him as ...

Cousin might propose to me. Our families don't know. Suggestions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - What do I do if my cousin proposes to me before our families know about our relationship and before he goes to the military?...

I love my teacher & I think he likes me back. Any advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - MODS NOTE: OP's own title. Okay first off I'm new to this site, so if its in the wrong category, my bad. Anyways I had this teacher 1st semester. At first he was like a normal teacher, then after the 2nd semester started he started to act all funn...

How do I ask my cousin if she will go out with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

4 August 2010 (M) - I'm in love with my cousin, and i'm pretty sure she feels the same way about me. So what I want to know is: How do I ask her if she'll go out with me? I've been with other girls, but it's just not the same......

I'm only 15 but I really like this married man who lives opposite me! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - Hi, my names Sara and im now 15 at school. I really like this man who works at a supermarket but he also lives opposite me as well. It makes me feel stupid that i like him so much, especially when he is married and has kids but i dont know why i fe...

Feelings for my step-cousin.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

3 August 2010 (F) - is it wrong to fancy my 3rd step cousin???...

I think I am in love with him but my parents have forbidden us to see each other! How do I cope?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

3 August 2010 (F) - Okay, so I'm 16. I met this guy this past school year, which was my freshman year of highschool and his senior year. We became pretty good friends. I ended up falling for him. Too bad he's 18. He finally admitted that he has feelings for me, this ...

I have a crush on my teacher but now he is leaving, I want to get him a thank you card but don't know what to say in it....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

2 August 2010 (F) - This new teacher came to my school about 2 years ago..He has been my tutor for 2 years and he was my english teacher last year. I didnt start liking him till about 6 months of him teaching me,but it got worse and i eventually stopped talking to ...