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writes:I really need help on this issue I have. I'm a 17 year old male, and I'm gay. I've dismissed the idea of love to focus on my school work, but during early this year I fell in love with a youtube sensation. I really love him, I really do. When I first saw him I knew it was instant infatuation. A lot of other girls like him as well, but I never gave up the idea that there would be the slightest chance. However, I'm starting to loose faith after 7 months. I love him so much it hurts sometimes. I can't talk to him because we're geographically separated and he's too famous that he is constantly bombarded by his fans. I really want to be with him. In fact, I've already decided after next years final exams I would fly to the America and find him and tell him how I feel. This is very stupid, but I just can't stop thinking about him.What should I do?
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reader, jc2008  +, writes (29 August 2010):
woah, you will be telling us you love Justin Beiber next! Ok, without meaning to be too harsh. I know one UK YouTube sensations Brother and one of my coworkers sons went to school with another (accually he is the UKs most famous YouTuber) Basically, these guys have few real life friends and seldom have a relationship. Thats how they ended up on YouTube in the first place. It is easy to see things with rose tinted specticles and also you only see what they have editied for the internet audience and not what they are really like. TV, Facebook, Internet, Phone. Your only seeing one side, the side they want you to see. Maybe part of this is because being gay isn't accepted where you are too. If you get the chance to move to somewhere which is gay friendly for University or whatever, go for it. Get to know people in real life, that way you see them in 3D if you get my meaning!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2010): Do you actually know who he is? Like you said earlier it was "instant infatuation", which isnt the same as love. You should focus on school right now. I dont think it would be a good idea to go visit him because what if you dont find him? What if he doesnt want to talk to you? What if hes not the person you thought he would be? Is he gay? There are many questions and little answers. Of course what I just said was a bunch of "what-ifs", so who knows. But if you do go be careful and dont get upset if he doesnt feel the same way for you. He doesnt even know you!
P.S can you give me the site of this youtube sensation so I can get a clearer picture? What did he do to make himself a youtube sensation?
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