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writes:Hi guys,Well, My girlfriend recently moved from New York To Arizona. I am stuck here in New York. Her mom never liked to see us together. EVER. She tried to separate us many times. Of course, we always got back together. Thats love. You cannot talk to her mother. She doesnt care what you say to her. So forget about reasoning with her. I tried that. Its sad because whenever we got together somewhere, we would have to go into a room upstairs, or the basement, away from everyone, or even outside to get away from her mom, and spend time together. She would always WATCH us. It really annoyed me.Anyways, my girlfriend just got a cell phone, which is great news. She also made an email. Now we can keep in touch until we meet again!! She cries and cries. She told me she hates her mom. I assured her that we will be together again. Until then, we will email, call and text each other. (Secretively) We both want her mom to remain clueless. We dont want her to know that we are talking to one another. Technology is our only hope. If she finds out, then its all over. Her mom allowed her to make an email. Knowing her mother, I have a feeling that she will be reading her emails daily. A friend of mine suggested that I make a fake email, so we can talk and she can tell her mom that its a friend from back home. I want to call her, but I'm afraid of my name and number showing up on her cell phone bill. The bill goes straight to her parents. What do you guys think about me calling her and talking to her from different places. That way I'll be all over, and her mom wont be able to know its me. If you guys know of any secret methods of talking to each other without getting caught, please let me know!My friend also suggested texting her from my itouch. Thats not a phone, so my name shouldnt show up on her bill. Thats what I need right now. Suggestions, secret methods, words of hope.We are both deeply in love, and we will not let her mother keep us apart. Technology is too advanced. (Honestly, her mother is sort of 'technology retarded' Thats were we have the advantage. She doesnt know how to use ipods, or many features on a computer. But she CAN read. If you guys can give me some inspiration about using technology to keep our hearts together and stuff like that, it would mean A LOT. Any other secret methods of communication are welcomed! I love her with all my heart!!
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reader, Deena Powell  +, writes (18 August 2010):
 if you can't visit her, call her, and email her ! right letters to her !! if you love her, and she loves you, it will work out. her mother sounds horrible!!
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reader, romany +, writes (18 August 2010):
 Can i ask, do you know what is her mothers problem with you? and also how old is your girlfriend?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2010): . face book
.buy a cheap cell phone pay as u go ect
. use a forum or messaging system on a website
.good old fashion letter,
.pay phone
. via a mutual friend
I really dont see how the mother can object tho, beyond a certain age? how old r u both? did u do something bad or are they just old fashioned?
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reader, DiamondGirlx +, writes (18 August 2010):
 i completely understand where your coming from same thing happened with me and my ex, well actually it was my mother who was the crazy one.... anyway make sure your gf renames you under her contacts ... if her parents know your number then it would be wise to change it... facebook is always a great way to keep in contact, just make your profiles private, also try to communicate at hours that you know her mother wont be around, ermmm carnt think of other things at this moment in time... if i doo il just answer again, hope yu get things sorted dude x
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reader, Charleybabes0811 +, writes (18 August 2010):
I'd say maybe using different phones to call her, numbers her mom wouldnt recognise...With texts and cell calls, you can always go really old schoo and save you as a different person's name. If she's likely to read them then tellher to save it as another guy's but if she'll just look at who they're off she can save you as a girl's name and put her moms mind at ease...To be honest though, you should just tell her and try to work through it. If you're both at a reasonable ages then theres no reason you can't date.Hope it works out okay, x
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