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Archived questions from: March, 2009 (see latest in Forbidden love category)

Forbidden love: Help and advice

I was pretty sure my promotion had something to do with sleeping with my manager

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - Hello people. I've been at my current place of employment for three years now. I consider myself a trust-worthy, hard and efficient worker and have been working hard towards a promotion. I've always been slightly distracted by my manager. She's only...

I really really want to get over my teacher... why can't I?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - Hey, Might remember me from two posts about me liking (well loving) a teacher? Well you may also remember I sent the first post in december of last year. 5 months on and nothing has changed. Well not nothing... the feelings have progressed ...

I think my teacher is in love with me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5649 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - i am in high school and i think my algebra teacher likes me. first i want 2 say i do not like him other than a teacher and nothing more. but him i am not so sure about. he always is staring at me and flirts with me. one time i was absent for like a ...

Religion is getting in the way of our relationship....How do we make this work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

28 March 2009 (M) - im dating this girl who parents are jehovas witnessness and she is too but not my choice anyway im not in anyway relgion n she isnt supposed to be seein guys or even me but we been sorta datin under the radar for awhile i find her really amzing ...

Once I graduate I'll never see her any more... what will I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - I know there are a lot of questions on being in love with teachers, but I wanted to create one of my own and see the kind of answers/help I can get. ok so I think I'm in love with my teacher, or madly like her? It's crazy, I never had a thin...

Does my teacher like me or is it me??? :D

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - i am in high school and i think my algebra teacher likes me. he is not married and he told the class that he does not have a girl friend. he always stares at me and flirts with me. i think he is like 46 and i am 17. one time i was sitting next 2 my...

Why can't I get him out of my head? What's up with that?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - Why can't I get him out of my head? I've been browsing the archive of 'teacher - pupil' topics, and none of the posts described a situation quite like mine. I first met the teacher in question when I was 11 years old, the first year of sec...

Situation with teacher and me and I don't know what to do.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - I haven't spoken in a year (to my teacher) had a bad time with him, I am leaving school in 4 weeks and I somehow want to talk to him and ask why he never spoke back to me when he promised he would never ignore me when he did so harshly. I want to...

Teacher Love?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - ok...do i hear anybody? *tests mic* ok...good. Listen please, i really need help. My teacher said i'm sexy and i'm only 13, he's 29. i love him, and i know all the risks i'm taking if i do love him. (The whole teacher can loose his job thing) Yea...

Help me before this teacher crush turns into a obsession....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - Well firstly I was one of the first people to meet him years ago. I think it was love at first sight (I know it sounds cheesy but just bear with me) I developed a crush on him for months because he was the sweetest guy I'd ever met in my whole ...

He's not a teacher, just a trainee teacher and not that much older than me. I think this is more than just a crush.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - Hi, everyone :) Here goes... For a while now, I have had feelings for a male member of staff at my school. He's not a teacher, but a trainee teacher who takes classes as a supply teacher from time to time. He looks to me in his early twenties...

I want to call him just to say hello, and see if that connection is still there between us.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - I have a boyfriend who is relatively new. We get along great, and I have a lot of fun with him. Also our relationship has a lot of passion in it. But I have realized that passion is only temporary, and I'm starting to think What's going to ...

Could someone help me interpret a recurring dream?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - I'm really curious about a recurring dream that I have and I was wondering if there is anyone on this site who knows how to analyze dreams? It involves me and a friend from college (whom I'll call Fulano) This is a strange dream, I know. I k...

Having an affair and I am confused right now. Help?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) - I have been with a guy for several months now. We are both married. We were friends first so our discussion we had at the beginning was of course friends with benefits. Neither of us can afford to leave our spouses since we both have kids. So my ...

I must wait a year for him... so he says. What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - There's this guy in my life who after 4 years has re-entered my life, I met him when I was 17 and he was 18 we were seeing each other, our family knew about us and everything was well. I stopped seeing him as in those days he was very immature and ...

Teacher fliriting..checking out my butt?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5723 days ago

18 March 2009 (M) - Okay well lets start off by saying that im a bi guy. Okay i'm a freshmen in highschool, and during the orientation over summer, a teacher would be glancing at me and smiling once in a while. Okay i didnt really consider anything that day but las...

Do teachers ever have crushes on their students?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - Hello, all! I'm looking to hear from any teachers out there (especially young and/ or male ones) on the subject of student/ teacher relationships. I've noticed that there are countless posts on this website of students (especially females) declari...

Married man pursuing young girl...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - There is this married man that keeps calling me. I don't understand why he wants to talk to me (he got my phone number through a friend) since we have nothing in common and the age level is too far apart. Well yes I do because he probably just wants ...

I think I'm falling for her...help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5729 days ago

15 March 2009 (M) - Ok So heres the thing i need some help and advice. Theres this girl shes been with her boyfriend for 4 years there engaged, shes been texting me bad stuff and says she wants me and i really turn her on. her and her boyfriend are on a break at th...

My parents will FREAK if I tell them how old he is. Does age matter?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - A four weekends ago my girlfriends and I were out for drinks and I accidently dumped into this cute business type guy and spilled my drink on him. We started talking and he told me I owed him a dance for getting him dirty. We danced and ended up ...

I have a thing for a girl at work, but I think I've been stabbed in the back. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - Please offer some insight I am confused. I am a bisexual,I only kissed a woman and -I am not open about it, only with a few close friends. Since before christmas, I felt a connection with a coworker she is woman a married woman, and I am a singl...

Is this the right way to do it for the first time? Does he make sense?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

14 March 2009 (F) - Hiya, im 18year's old and i met this guy through the net he's 28. he's always been straight with me from the start.we're different religons and will nt be able to get married hesn ever lead me on. now before you think fo me in a bad light i want...

Can't fit in

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - Some may think I’m exaggerating but I’m being totally honest I’m 14 and I’ve been very confused cause I feel a little out of place at my age. I have lots of friends but that’s exactly why I can’t fit in any social group. Everybody thinks I’m 17 sinc...

I had sex with my cousin - what should I do next?!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

12 March 2009 (M) - Okay basically I'm 19 and havn't seen any of my cousins since I was really little, but 2 out of the 3 of them are identical twin sisters and for the first time in years I saw them at newyears. It was their 19th recently and I drove down to wh...

Confuse feelings for a teacher

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - I'm just very confused right now about my feelings towards one of my teachers. At the start of the year I didn't pay much attention to him, and didn't really like him that much, but now as the school year is going by, I'm starting to develop some ...

Why did he do this? I'm confused.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - Im really confused. I have what i thought was a good friend in Reno, we have known each other for two years or so, but have grown closer over the last couple of months (in a 'friends' way...)we both have partners. However, lately there has, if im...

Should I return my big sister's love

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

11 March 2009 (M) - hi, im kinda falling for my sister and i want to know if its alright to return the same love to her. im 18 and shes 20. we always hang out alot, tease each other, and support each other. when I was younger, i never really had any friends, i was ...

Incestuous thoughts - I know it is wrong, please help me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

11 March 2009 (M) - Hi, last post was rejected, too explicit :( I just need peoples opinions. I have always hated my sister (I am 34 she is 30) I am divorced 2 kids, she is single 1 kid and I have been turned on by incest for the past month or so. anyways, to ...

This is a story of 3 sisters (subitle: Is there a spot in Hell for me?)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

10 March 2009 (M) - I think I may have seen something similar to this posted here before. This is a story of three sisters. The first one I met was the middle aged sister, I'll call her "2". We met at a party a little over four years ago. We exchanged number...

I have a huge crush on my teacher - but will not act on it

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

10 March 2009 (F) - I have a huge crush on my teacher. It's completely harmless and I would never act on it, but honestly, he is exactly what I think a compatible partner should be. Most guys i meet are superficial, or lack hamor and morals. They are not very smart o...

Will it ruin our friendship if I confess my feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

10 March 2009 (M) - I'm deeply in love with one of my closest friends. She is a co-worker. I think that she has feelings for me as well, and the major reason nothing happened before is that we worked in the same office. We no longer work in the same office however ...

Had baby with 1st cousin..no one knows

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

10 March 2009 (F) - ok this is hard i havent told anyone-my son is 2 1/2mo's old i got prego by my first cousin nobody no's who the father is its been a hard secret to keep for a year .in the past when i was 14 he was 19 we got caught doing it in a car he went to ...

I wish my teacher knew I liked him

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - Ok... so I'm 14 years old (I know, I'm "too young for love, shouldn't be thinking about this kind of stuff", but save it for someone else please!) and I have a hugehugehugehugehugehuge crush on my Civics teacher! I was just assigned to his class in ...

Falling in love with friends husband

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - I think i'm beginning to like my best friends husband. i know the stigma's involved with that, but let me explain the situation first. they have been together for about 6 years, married for 2, and both are quite young (i'm talkin early 20's). A...

Students falling in love with teachers whats your opinion?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - Students look up to teachers because they're smart. They are mature. They're possibly good looking. They've had interesting lives. All the things all people look for in a character. But students can't do anything about it So their own passion...

Why is my teacher starting to act differently?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - I've recently been noticing that one of my teachers has been acting differently. Here's some of the things he's been doing: When he walks around to check in our assignments, he stops either next to my desk and takes extra time filling in his ...

Am I in love with him or do I just love him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - I've liked this teacher for over 6 years. I'm 17 right now though. When my crush on him just began I would get butterflies in my tummy before his class but never know why, but looking back I know now that it was because I was starting to like him. ...

I tried to break it off with this married man but he still flirts with me, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - I began dating a guy at work a few months ago. He is married and I knew it from the beginning. (I know it's horrible). For the past few months, we've gotten relatively close. We emailed several times a day, went out on a few occations, (no sex, ...

I had a dream about the PE teacher and now I am always thinking of her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

8 March 2009 (M) - Ok. I am a 17 year old sixth form student. A few weeks ago I became really attracted to one of the female PE teachers at my school. I'd say she's in her mid twenties and she isn't the sort who makes herself look provocative. She has never taught me ...

I am obsessed with my senior colleague!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

8 March 2009 (M) - I am a 26yr old gay guy. not out n dont intend to be out as it is going to affect a lot of lives adversely. i think i have a deeply infatuated with one of my seniors. i am just too obssessed with him and cant stop thinking about him. i work very...

What can I do to woo my girlfriend and get these feelings back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5737 days ago

7 March 2009 (M) - My girlfriend says she is losing feelings for me. What are ways to get the feelings back so she don't dump me when I really love her?...

Neighbour trouble!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

7 March 2009 (M) - My neighbour is 10 years younger than me and I fancy her like mad. We are both married with kids. I told her how I felt last week and we have chatted since. She was surprised but didn't turn me down, I'd say she is shocked and confused. I cannot g...

How do I deal with "I wish you were older"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

7 March 2009 (M) - I have met a women at work she is 28 and i am 21, we started talking frequently and it has turned daily during lunch breaks etc i have got to know her alot and begun to have feelings for her, she is very beautiful so i did not tell her how i felt, ...

A married teacher who is middle-aged who is crushing on a student.. is it possible?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

5 March 2009 (F) - Right now, I am 13 years old and for the past year or so I have noticed one of the PE teachers giving me signs that he might have...particular feelings for me. He's married, but for the past month he hasn't been wearing his wedding ring. I tried to ...

Sexually attracted to my b/f's best friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5742 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - hello, first of all my English may not be good, but i try. The situation is that my boyfriend has a friend that i long ago am sexually attracted. I'm a 33 years old. I know my boyfriend for 13 years ago and at that time i also met one of his be...

I love my best friend's boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

1 March 2009 (F) - I have a major problem!I love my best mates boyfriend!He texts me all the time and one of my mates sarah is always on the one to him and apparently he sed "i mean i like Kay and everything but theres just something about Beth" Please help i'm so ...

Our first kiss, he felt me up! Is he using me for a quick thrill?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

1 March 2009 (F) - Ok, I have done a stupid thing, I am always very professional at work however, I have fancied this guy for like ever and we finally snogged but it wasn't right, what I mean by that is that normally when you kiss someone for the first time it's just ...