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30-35,
*itty_3
writes:I have a huge crush on my teacher.It's completely harmless and I would never act on it, but honestly, he is exactly what I think a compatible partner should be. Most guys i meet are superficial, or lack hamor and morals. They are not very smart or academic. I imagine it must be rare to find someone who is smart, funny, mature, respectful, and humble. And who seems to share all of my extremely odd values, but i've found him.
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reader, justme..x  +, writes (7 April 2009):
 hey :)lol i am in a pretty much identical situation to you. i love my english teacher and he seems so perfect for me, but i will never act on it, 'cause i know it will all be ruined and i'd lose the (little) that is already between us.Good luck to you, and hey, hopefully when we leave school .... :Pxx
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reader, loveprincess +, writes (27 March 2009):
 like anonymous wrote on 12 march
once you leave school there is nothing stopping you
you just need to wait a bit
good luck
G x
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2009): I'm probably going to get lots of stick for writing this... but what is there stopping you from doing anything with this guy when u leave school?x
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reader, kitty_3 +, writes (10 March 2009):
kitty_3 is verified as being by the original poster of the question in response to anonymous, none of the guys my age seem to think much about me. i'm quiet and smart and weird... which they don't get.
also, i like talking to my teacher even more than my friends. he's super cute and mature and seems to understand me more than any of my friends have. (he was like me when he was in school)
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reader, wonderingcat +, writes (10 March 2009):
 Brilliant girl, Kitty!
Keep his address, email, and other contact information. When you graduate, or when you are in college, or when you have a family, or any special days in your life in the future (yes, wait until after you graduate from this school), drop him a line over email, or send him a nice card by post. Tell him how you appreciated him as a wonderful and inspiring teacher that he was to you in high school. Teachers love to hear from their former students, and especially if the former students remember them as the people who played a part in the students' most significant and positive changes in their life!
Bravo, Kitty!
Cat
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reader, don't take his shit 1 +, writes (10 March 2009):
Hey girl,
Don't ever feel bad about having a crush on your teacher. Oh my God I did.And he was so ugly and uncool.But he was MY so ugly and uncool.
When you are 30- 40 ish...you can re-lay all your lurve feelings to your female friends,and they will tell you of the teacher they fancied too.It's so normal.All girls fancy their teacher.- It's safe, and you can gaze at them all day long,and fantasize till you are blue in the face,yet no harm is done,and you're exercising your girlish charms.Oh yes,a very good thing indeed !
Just don't spoil it by telling him ! A big NO NO !
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2009): I know it is probably hard for you to like him this much and not act on it, so i'm just popping on here to say you sound very mature, and you should praise yourself for that. Why not go on a few dates and see if there are any men your age who are like him? Until you find someone who is good enough to take your mind off this guy there is no harm in imagining anything happening with this guy, just as long as you don't act on it, which you have already said you won't. Whatever happens good luck for the future and i hope that one day you find the perfect guy =] xxx
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (10 March 2009):
 I'm pleased your not going to act on it, that shows maturity and respect for him and his job. There are far too many girls with crushes/in love with their teachers, that want to make their feelings clear to them.
This normally results in the Teacher telling the Headteacher who in turn, will remove the student, from that teachers class and inform the parents... All very embarrassing.
But now you have a bench mark to aim for in future relationships, and don't worry there are more guys like him out there!
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