A
female
age
26-29,
*weet_lover101
writes:Well firstly I was one of the first people to meet him years ago. I think it was love at first sight (I know it sounds cheesy but just bear with me) I developed a crush on him for months because he was the sweetest guy I'd ever met in my whole life. Like the time I was hungry, he bought me something and gave me money for lunch. God he was so sweet. He didn't do anything perverted or anything flirty sexual crap. It's just that weird feeling every time he talks to me. I kept it inside me. I WAS DYING INSIDE, SUFFERING. I couldn't hold on much longer so I decided to let it all out to my best friend. But just the time I was about to tell her, she told me she liked him. From that moment on I turned into a silent girl. He was so sweet, always giving me advice and defending me from perverts. Just by thinking of him it he always makes me smile :) Just by writing this I just realise to keep snapping out of it because in the past I was in love with another teacher (well I thought I was because I was only a silly year 7 girl who thought I was deeply in love) Now I just look back and thought "What the hell?" So I know the consequences on what's going to happen if this turns into another obsession.I don't want to get deeply hurt again :(God it hurted be so much in the past I went into a depression and it affected me as a child like my health eg I got thinner, getting bad grades in school, social life was boring because i had to appetite to talk to people. I always felt tired. Please I really need your help :( x
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reader, sweet_lover101 +, writes (25 March 2009):
sweet_lover101 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks for answering! I hope you'll get over him soon! (
A female reader, anonymous, writes 24 March 2009)
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reader, kitty_3  +, writes (24 March 2009):
 trust me. i get it. i'm in a very similar situation right now. what i'm trying to do is hate mine-- not let it affect my work in his class, but just dislike the teacher. find any flaw-- no matter how tiny-- and focus on it. i don't know if that's the kind of thing you're looking for or not...
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (24 March 2009):
 Try to funnel all this passion into your class work, that will pay off in the end, whereas a deadend crush does you no good. Get involved with your school activities as well because that looks good on college applications and keeps you busy at the same time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2009): Well, I'm in a situation similar to yours right now, except it's ten times more complicated than yours. This teacher sounds a lot like my teacher, he was always defending me and looking out for me. I think he might have some feelings for you, but don't get your hopes up. I could be wrong. For now just keep the crush a secret until you graduate. Just enjoy his attention. Keep it professional for now, and see where you two are come graduation.
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