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Archived questions from: January, 2008 (see latest in Forbidden love category)

Forbidden love: Help and advice

Anyone ever have a crush on a teacher?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

31 January 2008 (F) - Just wondering, have any of you had a crush on a teacher?...

Do I chose my family or the love of my life?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6158 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - i am a hindu girl.i am in love with a christian boy.my family is against this affair.they want me to marry a hindu .but i cant.we love each other so much.he is very sincere and loving.but then i dont want to hurt my parents.what will i do.i want my ...

First love...Does it ever end?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5973 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - Hi, I want to know if your feelings ever truely fade for your first love or do we hold those feelings for the rest of our lives!! I know the saying that you never forget your first love! My situation is that, I went out with a boy when I was 16...

Does my teacher have feelings for me?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5368 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - I've fancied this teacher at my school for 3 years, i've recently realised that I think i'm in love with him. Lately he's been making innuendo's that he may have feelings for me too. When i'm around him he constantly stares at me, and when I look a...

My boyfriends best friend makes me horny!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6153 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - hey people.... i really need help... basically,theres this boy iv liked for SOO long,and he knows it,,but now im going out with his best friend,he doesnt know about this,and at school he comes up to me ,,,and touches my but and stuff,,and it ma...

I love my married soulmate, but he is married and not to me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6070 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - Well....I met my soulmate backin 1994. He was determined to get my attention, and when he did, we were instantly in love. We were both young, I was 17 and he was 19. Of course, at the time, I had no clue he was my soulmate, but did know that I ...

My old friend has a wife and child now, but I love him from 10 years ago and want him back now

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6173 days ago

27 January 2008 (F) - I have been friends with this man since we were 15yrs old we are both now almost 40. I always knew he was attracted to me, i was also but was always involved with someone else and he was so painfully shy he never tried or said anything. The day ...

What should I do? I kept my part of the bragin but he never kept his...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6173 days ago

27 January 2008 (F) - I have had a boyfriend for 3 years, he was the best thing in my life i did everything for him. This year our relationshiop I feel is falling apart because what people say about us really hurts our feelings. On the first day of the second term ...

Have been engaging in flirtatious conversations with my mom’s younger cousin. Would a relationship between us be legal/moral?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6138 days ago

27 January 2008 (F) - OK, here is my situation…I am a college student, with a loving family. Recently I have found myself engaging in flirtatious conversations with my mom’s younger cousin. He is not married, and we have so much in common, we started out as close ...

Arranged marriage ruining my life

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6173 days ago

27 January 2008 (F) - i am very sad crying all the tears in my body, didnt realise i could cry that much.. they just keep flooding my cheeks.. i am in love with my boyfriend, in 6months i am leaving him and going back to my own country to get married, arranged...

I have a crush and my brother won't like it.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6102 days ago

26 January 2008 (F) - I'm 14 years old and in 8th grade and have a big problem. My brother who is a freshman in highschool had two of his friends over last night. I really like one of them but I don't know if he likes me back. I'm too shy to ask if he likes me, but the ...

Tormented by love for cousin

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

25 January 2008 (M) - First off I wanna say The bible says nothing about being with a cousin as bad. Actually there are stories of key members being with their cousins. Its bad when you're with a brother or sister, thats considered incest. Anyways I am in severe agony ...

How can I tell my cousin how I feel about her??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

25 January 2008 (M) - hi, I am falling in love with my cousin(my mom's brother's daughter). I am 16 and she is 18. We came close before 8 months. when we were watching movie i touch her body parts like lips, neck,waist, back, her butt, even when she was washing dish...

What shall I do?? I can't have him because his family won't permit it but I can't be without him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6155 days ago

24 January 2008 (F) - hello. I'm a 22 years old Muslim Asian girl (i'm a Malays). I'm studying in one private college in my country and it is the same place that i have met my bf. My bf is a foreign student from Arabs. We have been together almost 3 years. He is fro...

I'm so happy with my married guy...but love my bf and am not sure he would leave his wife.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6172 days ago

24 January 2008 (F) - I have been having a casual sex relationship with someone I work with; he is married and I have a bf. He had been cheated on in the past by his wife, and there are still problems. He just isn't happy with her. He and I started messing around o...

I'm falling for my friend and can see myself spending the rest of my life with her...but she has a bf.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6176 days ago

24 January 2008 (M) - I have a friend who I want to be more than friends with. The problem is, she already has a boyfriend. Her boyfriend is going to school overseas, so she spends a lot more time with me than with her boyfriend. I have told myself that I will tell ...

Our relationship is going downhill and I have always liked his cousin and I know he likes me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6176 days ago

23 January 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid I have been in my current relationship for 9 years. We have 2 kids together but apart from that the relationship has been going downhill for a long time. The whole time we have been together i have had feelings for his cousin. We both...

Is my Male friend to old for this Girl?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6168 days ago

18 January 2008 (M) - hi everyone i have a bit of a problem with my best mate i dont know what to do he is 36 nearly 37 and recently confided in me that he has been having a relationship (mainly just sexual) with a 16 year old... ok this sounds alot worse its making...

I'm so confused and Mum hasn't helped me. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6181 days ago

18 January 2008 (M) - Hi, I am a virgin in my twenties.I was suffering from anxiety for an year or so. This was due to working continually for night shifts in my job.I could not get out of it.My health had gone down.I remained away from friends and work. I am close...

I like him, but he has a girlfriend. I feel guilty. Should I?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6183 days ago

17 January 2008 (F) - Ok I feel really guilty like in bad guilty way...See I like this boy his name is Miguel and were friends he knows that I like him that way...He is pretty cool with it it doesn't seem to bother him..He has a girlfriend...Well today we were texting ...

We love each other and want to be together, but our parents don't approve. What can we do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6183 days ago

17 January 2008 (F) - i am 16 and my boyfriend is 23. he lives in cali and i live in las vegas. we love each other and would want to be together and get married but our parents don't approve. we have tried everything to be together and i don't know what to do....

Do I leave mr nice guy to go back to my ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

17 January 2008 (F) - i am so confused with me and my boyfriend. my ex boyfriend has started to like me, and he is the type of guy you can't resist crushing on. lately it hasn't felt right between me and my boyfriend (once i found out my ex liking me) my boyfrien is the ...

We work together, we both had babies on the way. I think we are falling for each other, help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

16 January 2008 (M) - I am falling for a girl that I work with and I am not sure how to handle the situation. We started working at this place at the same time and went though training together, at first we were both seriously involved with other people and both had a ...

I work at a school and am having feelings for this young male student. Advice is needed.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6173 days ago

16 January 2008 (F) - I work in a school, and have been working with a 18 year old male student for a number of years. About five months ago I realized that I have strong feelings for him and what an awesome person he is. I have never told him how I felt (its my ...

Does my teacher like me or am I confusing these signs?...

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3931 days ago

15 January 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid There is this teacher in my school. He is alot older than me but I have the feeling he's attracted to me he messes with other girls but I think he likes me. Here are a few things he has done: 1. If the desk infront of me is empty ...

I'm feeling hurt and used after being rejected for a second time. How could he do this to me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5943 days ago

15 January 2008 (F) - Hi I’m 19 and I have liked this guy at work since August. He's really good looking and a bit full of himself. He looks good but his personality sucks. Let’s say his name is John. From the first day I saw him I liked him, I was really drawn to him. ...

I have feelings for my bestfriend but I always end up getting her back with my mate.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6185 days ago

15 January 2008 (M) - I have always liked my bestfriend. She's been my closest friend for almost 5 years now. 2 years ago she asked for one of my mates number and since then they have been together. They always fight and break-up and i always help to get them back on ...

My sister's bf's daughter (same age as me)...and I'm in love with her. Is this wrong?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6180 days ago

14 January 2008 (M) - Hi I need some advice My half-sister is about 19 years older than me and has got a new boyfreind. He has a daughter around the same age as me. My sister thought it be good if we swapped msn addresses. So we got talking and we met up before christ...

I don’t want to loose another person who has come to mean so much to me. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6181 days ago

13 January 2008 (F) - Heya, I'm a 16 year old girl who recently lost her brother to meningitis. We were exceptionally close, he was 10years older than me and as both my parents worked 12hours a day he was the one who helped me with homework, cooked dinner and put me to ...

I Love him and I always will. - My english teacher

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5817 days ago

12 January 2008 (F) - I am a average and very mature 14 years old. Due to the fact I have had to grow up a lot quicker than others due to family errors. I have suddenly lost all sense of maturity and all common sense full stop. I am in love with my English teacher as he ...

How can I get over my teacher when she is starting a new family?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6171 days ago

11 January 2008 (M) - My life is crazy right now. I was really close to my teacher just for a short while. NOT SEXUAL! We just kissed few times and we spent loadsa time together and now its over...well since before last august. Even though it's over I have never ever sto...

We have said if we were both single we'd be dating...so should I stick around and see what happens??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6188 days ago

11 January 2008 (M) - Theres this girl that i met about a month ago. She is simply amazing, but she has 1 problem. she has a boyfriend. We've talked about our feelins about each other. We both like each other, and if we were both single wed be dating. She's asked me...

The whole school knows I love my teacher but every time I try and get over her it doesn't seem to work.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5815 days ago

10 January 2008 (F) - I really really love my teacher. Im almost 15 and shes married and 26. I have loved her since Feb 2007. Everytime i try to get over her it makes it even harder, and i was so convinced that she liked me that i told her how i felt and i acted on it ...

I'm obsessed with my class tutor

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6161 days ago

9 January 2008 (F) - I know there are so many questions about teacher/student relationships on here but i'm kinda stuck at the moment and would really appreciate some advice... I'm obsessed with my class tutor. For the past year or so he has been an incredibly importan...

I like my best friend's bf...a lot! Should I go after him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6192 days ago

7 January 2008 (F) - ok i really like this guy but his girlfriend is like my best friend............and im best friends with him to.............but i really like him... i dont no what to do!!! i dont want to ruin our friendship!!! and he likes me to! and i really rea...

I'm a faithful wife and mother, but there's this guy at work I cant get out of my head, advice please

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6183 days ago

6 January 2008 (F) - I can’t discuss this with my family, girlfriends or husband. Maybe someone out there can help to enlighten me. I am a happily married woman with kids. I’ve been married almost twenty years, to a wonderful man, that I love very much. He i...

Is my teacher a pervert?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

6 January 2008 (F) - Okay, so my former teacher and I are friends nowadays, but I had/have romantic feelings for him. I still attend the school he teaches at. I was in his class during parts of the 9th and 10th grades. I know, teacher-student relationships ar...

Underage and having a relationship with a married man! - what do I do?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

5 January 2008 (F) - Im in a relationship with a married man and i think im falling in love with him. I also really want to sleep with him but im under age by three years.please help and give me some advice on what to do....

I've fallen in love with my ex husband's brother, he is only hesitant because of our old family liaisons, do I stay and fight or move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6194 days ago

4 January 2008 (F) - my husband and i have been divorced for 5 years,he remarried 2 years ago and seems quite happy. we don't really speak but then again we don't see each other.my problem is i've fallen in love with his brother! we've always been close but never had ...

In love with my 'friend with benefits'!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6193 days ago

3 January 2008 (F) - I think i'm in love with my friend w/ benefits.... What should i do? He is also my boss!!...

He is my teacher, but I have really strong feelings for him and now I don't know what to do with it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6174 days ago

2 January 2008 (F) - Ive suddenly fallen for my maths tutor, i'm not the sort of girl who normally lusts after older men but i really like this guy, i think he's about 20 years older than me and im 17 now...im not stupid, i m trying to ignore my feelings for him but i ...

If you love someone, shouldn't you just be with them? Why does forbidden love exist?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6195 days ago

2 January 2008 (F) - I dunno about you lot, but I find 'forbidden love' hard to understand. There are natural problems such as 'unrequited' and 'already taken' which cannot be helped. However i see it as unnecessary to put a law on student-teacher relationships. A...

I'm in love with my older sister

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6172 days ago

2 January 2008 (M) - hi, i am 15 and in love with my 20 year old sister. when i was about 10 she used to put lip stick on and kiss me on my cheek ect. how do i find out if she loves me without me asking her...

I'm 16 and I've fallen for a 39 year old woman!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6199 days ago

1 January 2008 (F) - so im a 16 yr old girl and i started crushing on my new neighbour, shes 39. as time has progressed its become more than a crush and i'v fallen for her. shes always on my mind. and its drivin me insane because theres nothing i can do about it. plea...

I have sexual thoughts about underage girls and I disgust myself, how do I stop these feelings?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5303 days ago

1 January 2008 (M) - Hi everyone. I'm in denial at the moment writting this, but I need help.. So here it goes. I have sexual thoughts about underage girls.. I'm 21 now, and it's been going on for probably the last 8 years. I didn't want to admit it at first...