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I'm 16 and I've fallen for a 39 year old woman!

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Question - (1 January 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 2 January 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

so im a 16 yr old girl and i started crushing on my new neighbour, shes 39. as time has progressed its become more than a crush and i'v fallen for her. shes always on my mind. and its drivin me insane because theres nothing i can do about it.

please help and give me some advise

x x x

p.s iv never had a crush on a girl before an i thought it was just part of growing up.

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A female reader, snj6106 United States +, writes (2 January 2008):

snj6106 agony auntIt dont matter how old she is for 1 (for those who think age is everything) second off it might be a phase, it might not. only you know how you feel and the only thing that sucks about this is that you probably wont experience anything with her. and its just as normal as liking another girl. im 18 and have been seeing my girlfriend since i was 15. dont worry...you can only do so much.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2008):

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thank you for all your help both of you im sure your both right

thank you very much

x x x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2008):

dont worry, its only a crush and youll get over it eventually. in the meantime, you and some friends sould try to maybe go on a "boy/girl hunt." look through yearbooks and try to find some1 around ur age. i think 39 is a bit over the top. good luck!

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom +, writes (1 January 2008):

kenny agony auntPersonally i think this is just a phase that you are going through, a strong crush. Crushes tend to die down over time, and i would let it do just that, die down. I know its hard and at the moment it feels like these feelings are never going to subside, but they will, just give it time, time is the healer of all things.

All the best x

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