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writes:hi, I am falling in love with my cousin(my mom's brother's daughter). I am 16 and she is 18. We came close before 8 months. when we were watching movie i touch her body parts like lips, neck,waist, back, her butt, even when she was washing dishes i kissed on her neck from behind and she allows me to do that. When we meet we hug each otehr but when we are with family we don't hug. When we satanding she hold my hand and then i start to touch her hips and waist. and she allows me. I send her e-ards like i miss you and will you be my friend she reply my mesage and sent me i miss you. Well in sex i want it from her and love her how can i explain her my feelings? In facebook we sent each other love. I never tell her that i love you should i have to tell her?? Please help!! I REALLY LOVE HER!!
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reader, IHateWomanBeaters +, writes (23 February 2013):
 go for it. it seems like she feels the same
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2008): GO FOR IT!!! You have nothing to lose! Cousin marriage is legal in 26 states, well over half of the US! It's legal in many countries as well, and the genetic repercussions are of little consequence (if at all).
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2008): I guess that the relationship can be like any other relationship. It can be wonderful and last forever or it can be a disaster and end in a break-up. The problem lies in the fact that all of the parties involved are family and problems would involve the entire family. It could cause a break-up of the family. I personally don't see anything wrong with love between first cousins, but it is possibly illegal to get married, or to even have sex. Also, the possible genetic consequenses of having children must be considered. I don't know what the latest scientific thinking is on the genetic consequenses, but you should look into that also.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2008): Dude.
Wtf?
At your age I understand the desire for pussy. And I do understand it can be weird if a family member is hot.
But seriously dude. There is a reason these things are either illegal or taboo.
So stick to women who bare ZERO blood relation to you. You'll thank yourself in the long run.
Flynn 24
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2008): Anyone who has ever been in love with their cousin will know that it is a much deeper love than any other relationship. You will probably have a great deal in common, having been brought up in similar ways. Maybe it's all to do with compatible genes or something.
I wish I knew why people automatically assume that a cousin relationship will split up a family and cause multiple heartbreak. In my experience, it doesn't. Just the opposite in fact.
You may perhaps be a bit young to consider a full-blown relationship with your cousin, and in any case it may be considered a felony in your state, but you actually have to be caught in the act for the law to step in. You can get a great deal of information from http://www.cousincouples.com
Phil
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2008): Hi Hunny,
You may really love her and this is probably your first feeling of this kind of love, But hunny you have to think about this in a more wider way love. First Im not doubting your love, But its not right it will not only affect your family in a huge way it will ruin so much for you hunny, Plus she is a little older than you and should really no better than to allow you to touch her this way.
Your family would fall out in a big way over this and your parents your mum would be very upset and it could cause so many problems I cant say enough to you that this is wrong, I do really feel for you as I no what its like when you love someone, My advise to you is take this no futher hunny one day you will realise what Im saying is right, maybe not now but believe me when I say this can only lead to alot of heartbreak for alot of people who love and care about you and alot of heatbreak for you to, please think about what I have said it is said with kindness and understanding WITH LOTS OF LOVE MANDY xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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