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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Im in a relationship with a married man and i think im falling in love with him. I also really want to sleep with him but im under age by three years.please help and give me some advice on what to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2008): I understand where youre coming from...a couple years ago when I was 14, I started having sex with my friends dad who was married. It didnt last long and we knew it was wrong but it WAS great while it lasted...I guess you never know what can be till you try. Best wishes
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2008): i am in the same boat as you are i am underage and i am dating a married man and we do have sex together..we are 5 or 4 years apart. and he keeps telling me that he wants to be together with me and cant wait until we get married. so you do what you want girl i am and i am very very happy with my decision that i made. he makes me so happy i didnt think anybody could make me as happy as he made me! so go for it!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2008): Why would you want to pursue a relationship with a married man and have sex with him? Also to the last poster, why are you going out with a married man who is so much older than you? Do you have a strong sexual attraction to him or something like that?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2008): if you love him, there's nothing wrong about it. i have been going out with a married man since i was 16, (i'm 18 now) he's 42 years older than me, and believe me that if there's true love then nothing matters- others may think this is crazy, but they should be in our place.
good luck anyway-
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reader, Lady Mallard +, writes (6 January 2008):
Sugar, just no no no. Everyone who has replied is spot on, this man is just bad news. At your age feelings of love & sex are so confusing, but for any grown man to be giving you any sort of hints of these feeling is a peadophile, which is sick, wrong and very very damaging to victims, never mind the fact that he is married. I hope you understand that this man is NOT going to be good for you in any way, shape or form and you need to be the strong one here and tell him 2 stay away, very far away, and you need 2 do the same.
In time, you're gonna find a gorgeous young man who is honest and will make you very happy, and this is totally not him. This man needs psychiatric help.
Good luck, sugar. We've all been there, & i bet my Christmas presents that everyone will agree that it's tough, but STAY STRONG xxx
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reader, Variety +, writes (6 January 2008):
 If you were married would you want your husband to be sleeping with a child? I know this sounds harsh but what you are doing is wrong and there is very little chance it will end up ok for you. Back out now before it's too late. It will hurt but your heart will mend over time. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2008): OH LORD i'm 13 and well that's just wrong, what if you get pregnant and have a baby, what is life going to be like?? BAD so please stop and report him to a Police, just stay far far away from him!!
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reader, Dawnie +, writes (5 January 2008):
 You need to report this man, he is a paedodophile. Speak to your parents, or someone you can trust immediately. The police need to be informed too and then they can deal with him. Please do this as quick as possible.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (5 January 2008):
 You are old enough to know the word PEDOPHILE. Please report this absolutely charming SEXUAL PREDATOR to the police and tell your parents. Tell all your family, friends and neighbors not to let their children near this man.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2008): As every one has already said your underage and to me it seems like he's a pedofiles because that what they do get with a really young girls as for you in this case. Just keep away from him, report him straight away to the police, it's totaly wrong, you can't go ahead with this relationship i'm sorry but you have to keep your feelings closed for him.
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reader, Crisy +, writes (5 January 2008):
 I agree with Limbo57
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reader, limbo57  +, writes (5 January 2008):
You are being taking advantage of! You need to report this man to an adult you trust! Guidance counselor, teacher, parent, relative, law enforcement...
After you report this, that trusted person should refer you to counseling so you can better understand and identify preditors. :) answered it love and concern
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reader, kenny + ♥, writes (5 January 2008):
 Invariably married men never leave their wives for people they are having an affair with. So ultimately you become the bit on the side, or mistress, however you want to term it, only seeing you when he can sucessfully sneak away. You don't say how old he is, but i gather he is considerably older than yourself. To be perfectly honest i have to question why a grown married man would be interested in a 13 year old girl. Also he could get into serious trouble were anything sexual to happen with the pair of you, even a jail sentence and being put on the sex offender's register. My advice would be to terminate all contact with this guy, he sounds like he need's some help to me, stay away and find someone your own age.
All the best x
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2008): You need to report this to someone. Either a guidance counselor at school, a teacher, your mother, a trusted relative a law enforcement person. This man is taking advantage of you!!
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reader, hello1 +, writes (5 January 2008):
 Your 13 and having an relationship with an married man? end it right now, if you are 13 then this man is a pedophile. I don't care if your not actually having sex, it's wrong on so many levels.
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (5 January 2008):
 Hi,
When you say you are having a relationship with this man what do you mean? is he taking you out on dates, stuff like that. Because if he is he needs reporting. You dont give you exact age, but its far to young to be hanging around with a married man. What would your parents think if they found out honey.
Keep away from this guy he is bad news.
XX
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (5 January 2008):
 Don't get involved with a married man.You will end up with the short end. He can promised you many things but all those will be empty promises.
Married man will not leave their wife and where does that leave you? Affairs with married man is painful and unrewarding.In the end , you will only feel dirty, cheap and being used.
You will also be a home breaker and think of those kids, when they divorce after the wife find out your affair.
Do you want another woman to come and snatch your father away from your mom?
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reader, Dr Vendetta +, writes (5 January 2008):
 you're 13 having sex with a married man...
how do you think his wife is gonna feel when she finds out?
how do you think he's gonna feel when he becomes someone b*tch in jail for being pedophile?
what you're both doing is illegal and imoral.
you need to end this Now. for your sake.
and personally sicko's like him need to be locked up.
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reader, rcn +, writes (5 January 2008):
 Don't have relationships with married men. These situations don't usually end up the way the "other" women wants them too. Find someone who's single to be with. When being with a married man, he's deceiving you by the relationship, and doing the same to his wife. Why fall in love with someone who begins a deceiving relationship with someone. What beings with deceit, generally ends the same way.
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