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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi I need some adviceMy half-sister is about 19 years older than me and has got a new boyfreind. He has a daughter around the same age as me. My sister thought it be good if we swapped msn addresses. So we got talking and we met up before christmas we got along really wel and met up agen. we talk on webcam and carnt talk to each other enough. The problem is i think im falling in love.The other problem is I have a girlfiend and been going out for about a year. I think i have fallen out of love with my girlfreind but fallen in love with my sisters boyfreinds daughter. would it be wrong to finish with my girlfreind and go with her, even though she is almost family?My hearts telling me one thing but my heads telling me another.thank you
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reader, honkifuluvnicole  +, writes (21 January 2008):
 go for it!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (16 January 2008):
 There is no law to say that it is wrong.You can fall in love with your sister's boyfriends daughter.
If you don't love your current g/f , tell her it is over between you two.
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reader, always.you +, writes (16 January 2008):
 she is not family and so yes you should go for it
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (15 January 2008):
 well i think that you need to be 100% sure of how you really feel about your current gf, this new girl may just be making you feel like you love her because its all new and you may be getting confused.try to figure this out before you make any drastic moves that you might regret. but also dont string your gf along its not fair so figure out your feelings soon!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2008): This sounds like if you left your girlfriend for your sister's boyfriend's daughter, you'd strain your relationship with your sister. Either wait until your sister and her boyfriend end things or until they become serious, to address this issue. While you're waiting, keep talking to this new girl. Become friends with her. Work on your relationship with your girlfriend. If you realize you don't think you two were "meant to be" after a few months of this, end it. Try not to tie yourself down into anything since this is still pretty up in the air.
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reader, elliebellie +, writes (15 January 2008):
hey hun!
you cant just force yourself to think one thing to make yourself do another. eg. you said you think youre falling out of love with your girlfriend and falling in love with this girl. i would leave it and carry on with your girlfriend. only you know your true feelings and if you really feel like your falling out of love then leave your gf, and go for the other girl
good luck
mail me if u wanna talk
lol
ellie
xxx
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reader, hello1 +, writes (15 January 2008):
 lol, oh this just sounds wrong. Your not related though so do what you want.
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